My sister is 5 years older than me and I've done more for her than some parents do for their kids in a life time. She has 8 kids....no drivers license.....and she always needs to go somewhere. Her kids always need something. She doesn't work, but she gets money from Social Security for her kids, but she never has the things she nor the kids needs.
2006-11-28 06:13:36 · 8 answers · asked by Babyface 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When she asks for something, don't give it to her. You may want to help her, but she's not going to want to take care of herself until she knows that she absolutely has to. Right now she depends on you and social security because she knows you'll always help so she doesn't have to do anything herself. Stop, and maybe she will learn some responsibilty.
2006-11-28 06:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is afraid of something. Having 8 kids can be such a burden on a person; let alone having 2 or 3. Obviously she's dealing with something that she just cannot seem to get over, or she may be just using you because she knows that you will help her regardless. Either way, your role of being the younger sister/mom/dad is very helpful in her situation. Consider this: Ask her why she does the things she do, or offer to help her get a job. But Beware, sometimes when you are trying to help a person get on their feet in a postive and honest way, they may think that you are trying to be rude. Just continue to be there for her like you've been, and if it becomes to much of a strain, tell her how you feel and hope for the best!! And just have faith and believe that God will help her too.....Good Luck!
2006-11-28 06:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW... 8 kids?? HOLY CRAP! Im the ninth, so coming from a large family was Great in my experiences. We were never broke tho. My family has money, so it was never a problem. But if money was a problem, then I think that contributes to her irresponsibility. If she cant keep a job because of her kids, then it would be very tough to support them. What an awful situation. Geeze... I hope she is at least getting some child support.
2006-11-28 06:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might want to surely tell your mom and father what you imagine if I were you. I advise, what's the worst they could do? The canines can not help themselves. If the door is left huge open, why does no longer they bypass out - fairly than being stuck in a house? After speaking on your mom and father, i might want to be sure what they say about it. perchance it will grow to be a relations communicate - which include your sister too. best of success! Have a sturdy day! Lbee P.S. i might want to get pissed off too.
2016-10-07 22:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt want to grow up!!! she really needs to because she is a parent. someone needs to slap her and tell her to wake up and she needs to quit depending on social security. if she ask for something for her dont give it to her tell her to get a job. if her kids need something then u take the kids to get it. i think thats why she doesnt work because she knows that u will give it to her.
2006-11-28 06:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously she can get away with having that sort of life style and she must enjoy it too. she seems lazy and has everything handed to her so what is going to make her change? i dont know how to say this but it seems like one day she will need to do things for herself and then she might change but till then dont count on it. but it will catch up with her dont do things for her let her live her own life whether it hurts you or not. hope i helped a bit.
2006-11-28 06:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by little one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are selfish and stupid! sorry to say but she struggles to be anything else.
2006-11-28 06:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by shadow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i htink you should talk to her about this
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2006-11-28 06:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋