a serious relationship and neither is he but still i'd like to know where we stand.
2006-11-28 06:14:49 · 10 answers · asked by little one 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From personal experience . . . I always dred when a woman wants to "talk" about a relationship. The state of the relationship talk is frequently a poor subject to bring up with a male partner. If you don't want to be in a serious relationship, there is no reason to talk about the current state of affairs. Enjoy what you have now, and live in the moment. Chances are, after a while, things will develop into a more meaningfull relationship.
2006-11-28 06:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by captainkirkwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never a good idea to ask a guy to put a label on a relationship. You will almost certainly be disapointed in the answer or lack of response. No matter what you are ready for, most guys are not very articulate about this and it will probably leave you feeling like he does not have ANY feelings for you, which is probably not true at all. Always try to let these things develop on their own without labels, if you can.
2006-11-28 14:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all ready know what you are. You're "seeing" each other. You're basically dating without any committments from each other which means you can date whoever you want and so can he. If you don't want anything serious, this is perfect. Just make sure he understands this is what you want.
2006-11-28 14:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iv just been through this with my Bf. It took me 2 months 2 actually get round to asking him. An i just came out with it casualy- by asking him bout how he see's himself in the future, and slowly got round 2 asking him bout us. Its hard but the best thing is to ask him straight, but not in a way that scares him off. Maybe before asking him- tell him were u think u r in ur head. hope it makes sence- but its complicated. gud luck
2006-11-28 14:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by twisted_elegance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your asking that question i think your already serious, but does he feel the same is maybe what you want to know. if not then just leave things the way there are .
2006-11-28 14:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Level with him. Say just what you just asked. It seems straight forward enough without implying your looking for anything more than it is.Is it that you'd like to know if he's monogomus? Ask. It's only fair to him and yourself to know what's going on.
2006-11-28 14:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have the answer. If you think are rushing things, get slower. See what happened.
2006-11-28 14:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not serious, and you're not worried about it being serious, why do you care? Just enjoy what you have.
If you want it to get serious, talk to him about it. Either way, you have to be honest with him, as well as with yourself.
2006-11-28 14:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just ask. Don't go on assumptions, if you want to know just ask. What is the harm in that?
2006-11-28 14:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just honestly ask him.
2006-11-28 14:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by Stacye S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋