I really like him and I want to be with him...but he's always bringing it up..What should I say or do??
2006-11-28 06:14:14 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you're not ready. If he can't respect that, get a new boyfriend.
2006-11-28 06:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by jeepdrivr 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh, girl.
2006-11-28 06:18:08
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You have only been with him for a week and he already wants sex? You should know that he is only wanting sex from you, if he really cares, he would wait and not pressure it every time he freakin' sees you!
If sex is all thats on his mind, dump him. Cause I am sure once you give it up(if you do and I hope you don't) he will leave you like there is no tomorrow.
Have him wait and see how he treats you....<
First of all do you even know this person?I wouldn't think that you would know enough about this person to be having sex if you have been dating for only 1wk.If he's pressuring you and you have to ask for advice about what to do I think that your heart is already telling you "no".If he kept pressuring you after telling him no then he only wants one thing,SEX Think about it!
2006-11-28 06:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by lynn b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By asking this question you already know your answer...You arent ready for sex with him and he should be patient and wait until you are sure of your feelings. Please dont give in to the pressure. Only do it when and if you are ready. If he doesnt like that answer then he is not the one for you.
2006-11-28 06:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by nascargirl216 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him of course. Ask him to respect you and your feelings and tell him you hope things develop naturally. Do not give in to him just because you are afraid you might loose him...chances are pretty good you may have sex with him and he'll move on after the conquest anyway.
2006-11-28 06:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a week and he wants sex?!!? He has obviously has had sex before, and probably with many partners. I would find someone else who is going to respect YOU and YOUR body. But if you do have sex with this guy please use protection because you don't know where he has been or what kind of STDS he has.
Find yourself a man who respects you as much as you do.
2006-11-28 06:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready say 'no'. Don't be forced into doing something that you are not ready to do. If he doesn't respect that, then he doesn't respect you. It's better that you find out after only a week. IMO, he doesn't care about you at all, just about sex.
2006-11-28 06:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by tipper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One week and he is already pressuring you about sex? You should say, if you dont stop pressuring me about sex then we are over. Sounds like you may have landed a selfish one there.
2006-11-28 06:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel like, but I would not you don't know him that much it seems that's all he wants and if you do have sex with him and he dumps you at any time you will hate yourself for it and sometimes for a long time . Tell him NO your not ready and if you don't like get over it.
2006-11-28 06:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not ready and see how he handles it, if he respects you than keep him if he says ok but than next week tries again and gives you some lame excuse like he is just so attracted to you that he can't help himself then get rid of him!
2006-11-28 06:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well are you sure he really likes u as well? or just wanna get into ur pants? its only been a week and he's pressuring u for sex. if he really respects u. he'd wait until ur ready.
2006-11-28 06:22:04 · answer #11 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋