Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

if acsedental handicap they acept. but by birth they did not acept why ? or they considerd as friend only

2006-11-25 01:47:38 · 11 answers · asked by suhas_jaihind 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not dating a Mexican guy,but I was somewhat involved with one recently. He only wanted me for ___ and refused to kiss me unless we were almost in the act. We did kiss, but then he stopped and refused to kiss me because I didn't want to go through with "it". Then I asked him did he have a g/f and he said no, but it's weird that he doesn't mind having "you know what" w/ me but doesn't want to kiss. And he said my breath was fine! Maybe he's just using me or something.

2006-11-25 01:47:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY 42 YEAR OLD SON MOVED BACK INTO HOUSE WITH ME AFTER THE THIRD MARRIAGE BUSTUP. HE SLAMS DOORS, HOLLERS AT ME AND RECENTLY, HE LEFT HIS YAHOO MESSENGER ON BUT IT'S MY COMPUTER. HIS MESSAGE ARCHIVES CAME UP WHEN I SIGNED ON. I THOUGHT IT WAS MINE AND DIDN'T MEAN TO READ IT. RIGHT AWAY I SAW HE WAS TALKING ABOUT ME TO HIS SECOND EX. HE TOLD HER LIES ABOUT MY MARRIAGES...SAID I HAD BEEN MARRIED 11 TIMES. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED 5 TIMES BUT I ALWAYS TRIED TO MAKE MY CHILDREN'S LIVES AS GOOD AS I COULD...ALWAYS TOOK UP FOR THEM AND WENT AGAINST MY HUSBANDS FOR MY KIDS SAKES.
TOO, HE SAID SOME VERY BAD THINGS ABOUT ME AND EVEN HIS GRANDMOTHER TO HIS EX AND WAS MEAN-MOUTHING MY LITTLE DOGS WHICH HE HATES. HE REMINDS ME OF HIS DADDY WHO ABUSED ME. I WAS EVEN RAPED BY HIS DAD SEVERAL TIMES.
SHOULD I CONFOUNT MY SON AND TELL HIM HOW HIS DAd treated me? Should I make him move or keep putting up with his abuse?
I am 65 years old.

2006-11-25 01:46:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have observed woman in my work area, and i noticed that they seem to flirt more with married men then the single ones. What is womens intent with toying with the idea of married men. I get flirted with all the time and everyone knows i am married to an extremely attractive woman, and i am told that i am very handsome(not just by my wife), and yet think in their dirty little minds think any man is attainable? I would like females to answer this please, because I have come to the conclusion many years ago that i will never understand woman. My wife says its because it's the challenge of having someone elses property? any ideas?

2006-11-25 01:45:32 · 11 answers · asked by kram_7777 3 in Singles & Dating

I have observed woman in my work area, and i noticed that they seem to flirt more with married men then the single ones. What is womens intent with toying with the idea of married men. I get flirted with all the time and everyone knows i am married to an extremely attractive woman, and i am told that i am very handsome(not just by my wife), and yet think in their dirty little minds think any man is attainable? I would like females to answer this please, because I have come to the conclusion many years ago that i will never understand woman. My wife says its because it's the challenge of having someone elses property? any ideas?

2006-11-25 01:44:36 · 5 answers · asked by kram_7777 3 in Singles & Dating

i am looking for words pronounched the same but not necassarly spelt the same but have to different meanings or words that have lots of meanings like

deer and dear
there and their
look and luck
buy and bye

2006-11-25 01:44:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 01:44:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

maybe someone needs to tell my wife of 14yrs that if a man knows your married and have kids and he doesnt care he cant be trusted.I think he does not have any morals to begin with.yeah shes at fault too because it takes 2.but why would she sacrifise her 14 yr old marriage for something like that?and yes I have been very faithful,supportive and affectionet with her.she is 33 and I'm 32 yrs old.could she be going through a mid life crisis?

2006-11-25 01:41:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I resently found out that my brother has a half brother that he does not know about. Now, my brother is 24 and his half brother is 21. Do, I tell him or do I try to find his half brother, I just don't know what to do. I just don't know how to tell him or if I should... Please help!!! Thanks

2006-11-25 01:41:18 · 7 answers · asked by Cherries 2 in Family

I live with my mom i feel like theres some kind of competition or something for my son's attention maybe thats just me but when i try to handle something my mom comes and tries to help makes me feel inadequate to handle the situation. her husband says that she feels almsost like a mom to him which bothers me cause she is not his mom and i dont want that at all.

2006-11-25 01:39:51 · 9 answers · asked by David R 1 in Family

Im moving into a bigger apt. but there is one concern. Its already the 25th in the month and i plan to move on the 1st. My landlord still doesnt know. Ive tried knocking on her door and shes never home and her cell phone is off... can she keep my security? although we dont have a lease? its 6 ppl in my 3 room house..

2006-11-25 01:39:02 · 4 answers · asked by a curious lady 2 in Family

Is it possible for a guy to be so good that women are turned off and feel that they have to hurt him out of spite?

2006-11-25 01:37:34 · 10 answers · asked by Sad jester 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband use to be christian but for the better part of our marriage I sometimes found myself wondering.He has had numerous affairs and never seemed remorseful.
A lot of people say to divorce him but I love my husband very much and I find myself praying a lot for God's intervention and for me,peace of mind because I felt like I was losing it.
Now he keeps almost criticising me as to why I am spending my time praying when nothing is working out for me as far as he sees

2006-11-25 01:36:45 · 36 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

but i havent told my freinds yet ive known them for a while how should i tell them

2006-11-25 01:33:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What if one of the ppl in a marriage, is suspected of cheating, and denies ever doing it, should the other forgive and forget? And how would they make things normal between them?

2006-11-25 01:33:58 · 22 answers · asked by Adan M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married in March and my husband is taking care of my daughter from prev. relationship. Her biological father isn't around much. He calls 2-3 times a month, no child support, doesn't see her. My daughter doesn't want to see him (her decision) I don't bad mouth her father. Recently she has been asking to have her last name changed to mine and her step dad's last name. I tried to explain what would happen if she did and she says that she still wants her name changed. I really think she is too young to make this kind of decision, but she acts like she really, really wants it. I don't know what to do, I know her father isn't going to just roll over, he'll fight me on this. My husband is the only father figure in her life and he supports us and he wants to legally adopt her. So my question is, is my daughter too young to decide? And if I do this, how do I go about telling her father?

2006-11-25 01:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by hey culligan man 4 in Family

I have been dating this guy for almost 10 months. He seperated from his wife in sept of o5. I met him in feb and we started dating. I love him and says he does also. His divorced was finalized in sept of 2006.... On Nov 23 his exwife contacted me to tell me they had intercourse. I was devestated to hear that. she gave exact date and time of when it happened. I logged into his email ( I know I shouldnt have done that) I saw emails of other girls there and pics OMG I was so sad to see that. Well I confronted him with all that he denied the thing with his exwife. He said he didnt know what emails I was talking about. He didnt email anyone. He kept saying he loves me and that all that wasnt happening and we should move on. Since then I have been a mess. I love him and I want to trust him, I do trust him. I just keep thinking about it all. What do I do, I dont want to be blind because of love. I dont want to be played with. I have 2 kids also that dont need that. OMG i cant believe this.

2006-11-25 01:32:13 · 15 answers · asked by mom2kids 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a woman and we went out for one month. It was wonderful. We were both attracted physically and mentally to one another. The chemistry was amazing. After one date we decided to date exclusively. We'll call her "Susan" for the sake of answering this question.
Her ex and her were still friends. The ex cheated on her twice. They broke up 2 years ago after a 2 year relationship. The ex has had 2 g/f's since and has cheated on them both.
What I didn't know was that the ex was jealous that Susan had finally found someone that she was happy with. The ex told her that she wanted to get back together.
Susan called me and told me that she still had feelings for her ex and was going to give her another chance. Susan also told me that she loved me very much and couldn't let go of me. She wanted us to be friends. However, Susan and I both have admitted having feelings much more than friendship. She even asked if it didn't work out would I take her back.

2006-11-25 01:28:34 · 7 answers · asked by Kiwi Dreamz 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend said....Don't buy expensive 'ribbed' condoms, just buy an ordinary one and slip a handful of frozen peas inside it before you put it on.
Is that correct?

2006-11-25 01:28:07 · 11 answers · asked by winhearts 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 01:25:54 · 6 answers · asked by Cute and Pretty Me 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help..theres this guy that i like and by all of his little signs i think he likes me to but theres this girl he used to date and they talk like all the time but i dont feel like i have the right to say anything about her because we're not "dating" ..i really like this guy but i dont want to be wondering all the time...recently ive talked to him everynight and for long periods of time too...i just dont know...do you have ANY advice?

2006-11-25 01:25:00 · 10 answers · asked by madaboutyou55 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well I really like this boy named Adam. He's so cute and nice and funny but a little shy, i dont mind about that, anyway i want to ask him out but im afraid of a few things, one: what if he says no? i would get hurt so bad, two: were friends a little and if he says no im afraid we wont be friends anymore, three:were friends but i dont know much about him and he doesnt know much about me so before i askk him out should i get to know him more?

and its not like my parents care if i have a boyfriend so its ok if i ask him.....


HELP!

2006-11-25 01:24:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sold my furniture when I moved into her place that she rents from her parents. Her parents never approved. Although they live in AZ and we're in Chicago. 3 months ago I traded my car for a ring. I was recently laid off and money is tight. Now what?

2006-11-25 01:24:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 01:23:59 · 11 answers · asked by Rochelly 2 in Weddings

i had my divorce with my h,i have 2 kids and my whole familly turn their back on me.some of my friends also............why do i feel so lonley in this world?why can they be so cruel to me?just because i divorce?

2006-11-25 01:21:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she brokeup with me and she still wanted to be friends and she still wants her son to call me daddy. And the child isnt mind because she was pregnant when i met her two years ago, but for xmas she said she was going to buy me something. But i had no plans of buying her nothing. She still tells me that she loves me and so do I. I still want to be with her but she broke up with me and when someone break up with u i guess they need time away or they just dont care about u anymore. So im just confused on why she still wants to buy me things and she still tells me i love u. Is there a chance that we could get back together some day, because its obvious that she must still have feeling for me because i still have feeling for her.

2006-11-25 01:21:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what part?

2006-11-25 01:18:20 · 24 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 01:17:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I do.Please help meeeeeeeee.

2006-11-25 01:16:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last night my bf left me in his car to go inside his house and collect something while he was away i looked over on the dash board and saw his phone so i took it up and started to read his sent text messages (i would not consider that invasion of privacy after all he is my bf and he does that to me) anyways so i saw this message he sent to a girl saying "goodnight babygirl hope to see you soon and i'm missing u..." and she sent him a message saying she wants him and wants to have sex with him also there was another time when he left the phone again to go and take a shower and the same mystery girl called and when i answered she hung up....i'm trying to be open minded so i didnt jump to conclusions or mention anything but i need advice....what would u do?

2006-11-25 01:16:48 · 17 answers · asked by Innocence 3 in Singles & Dating