Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

A friend is carrying on a sexual relationship with a married man while they are both are deployed. I suspect he thinks the fling is just that, a fling, and will discontinue contact with her upon his return to his duty station. She is hoping they will continue to communicate and she will see him from time to time when she returns to her duty station.

Also, she tells he me keeps his wedding ring on during the act which I find a little odd. He doesn't talk about his wife much but he frequently talks about his kid. I think he likes her but it's just sexual for him.

He's very attracted to her and they get together as much as possible. I think she is beginning to have feelings for him. I try to tell her it's just a deployment affair and to just enjoy the sex. She confided in me that she hopes to continue the affair when the leave.

What do you think?

2006-11-25 02:13:49 · 20 answers · asked by buffythebeast 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 02:13:18 · 15 answers · asked by Luis 4 in Singles & Dating

My name is Roja, I got married in 1995 (a settled marriage only). My husband has a illegal affairs with some body else and my husband left me. I had a son of one year when he left the home. I am waiting for him. But could not trace him. Already 11 years completed. Now my child is 11 years.
In 2000 at my office, one of my co working staff asked me to marry. I refused and told the flash back. What had happen to me and also I had a child. But with the help of their friends and colony people he got married me in registered office (law and order & government rules and regulation). He works in Indian army.
My problem is my husband was not yet all introducing me to their parents and relative. More over he was not informing at the office as wife.
And now he was telling that, from my first husband I have to take divorce.
Please suggest me what should I do now.

2006-11-25 02:12:53 · 6 answers · asked by Naveen_oucity 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 02:12:29 · 11 answers · asked by rest_relax_forever 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex have, been together for 10 years, we recent about an 2 month ago, and he aready dating some body. he tell me that he still love me, but right he just don't to be with me..he tell me she is just something new.just want us to kinda,start over with the fighting that we used to do. i just scared that he not going to love me anymore..should try and work on our relationship?

2006-11-25 02:11:50 · 10 answers · asked by martha h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want so much to serve god and live a good life with some meaning to it, but most christains i have met are so judgemental even my own family i'm sorry to say, what does it matter what you wear or how your house is done up its so frustrating i feel i'm being watched and picked up on everything i do or say. all feels so false. What can i do without offending

2006-11-25 02:10:28 · 22 answers · asked by smouldering wolf 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A Guy asked me out, but my friend really likes him, and I think of him as a friend. But he's okay. What should I do?

2006-11-25 02:08:51 · 11 answers · asked by Olivia N 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 02:08:40 · 20 answers · asked by pranabioc2002 2 in Singles & Dating

am bored shitless my bf is watching a film am not in to. my car is blocked in by his mums car and shes gone out and took keys.

2006-11-25 02:07:53 · 18 answers · asked by shell 5 in Family

Does anyone else hate the holidays because it means seeing your "family". It's probably mean to say but I reallly hate seeing my family because a) i was adopted and don't feel like they are my real family and b) my family has: drunks, pervs, gang members, people that were in prison. Ok, to be fair their are some nice people too but not many. I don't really have anything to talk about with them, even my own sister because she is 18 years older than me.

2006-11-25 02:07:19 · 15 answers · asked by kayla j 1 in Family

What is the best way to loose one's Virginity without going to any brothels or hookers?

2006-11-25 02:07:01 · 21 answers · asked by Steven B 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend's birthday is coming up and i dont know wat to give her. she's a rich girl who owns everything. she's got everything she ever wanted. and im just her besft friend with no money because im just middle class. wat should i give her?

2006-11-25 02:06:44 · 9 answers · asked by mariarooster 1 in Friends

About 2 months ago when i went to the city.Now i came back and i heard she is lookin for me.Wen i did this she didnt charge alot, actually she charged less then i pay for my phone bill.The pther day she found me and asked me for more, but this time for free.I really like her.What should i do

2006-11-25 02:05:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I guess im looking for some sympathy here... I slept late, woke up very early this morning, preparing for a speech. After all said and done, I look at my calenda, and speech is actually for next week!!! ARRGGHHH>......................... I probably ate a lot of turkey....

2006-11-25 02:03:50 · 11 answers · asked by Safari 1 in Singles & Dating

ive tried everything i can think of every site on the internet etc etc.......im trying to find someone who has moved to spain!!! probably tenerife? not sure!! her names debbie robinson and she has a son liam and daughter amylea!! if you can please help!! if you know her please get in touch.. this is very important to me...thanx everyone xx

2006-11-25 02:03:10 · 5 answers · asked by chick07 2 in Friends

My daughter recently "snapped" and beat me up. She injured me very badly, was arrested (is still in a juvenille facility) and is now being charged with felony battery. She is 17; a very booksmart but stressed out young lady. No history of drugs (verified through testing). We have NO idea what happened and how to help her. Most teen treatment centers focus on drug addiction. Any input/ideas are welcome. Thank You.

2006-11-25 02:03:06 · 3 answers · asked by Mama Bear 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He has tried for 8 years to stimulate her with his fingers or his tongue and she won't allow it. He asked me what he should do. How can I help?

2006-11-25 02:02:37 · 19 answers · asked by puzzled 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was married for 3 years and my husband was apart since then. He visit me 3 months once for a week. He work in US and I'm in Asia. He keep saying that he'll be back and stay with me but never happen up to now. I am very disapointed and feel lonely. I have a baby with me. I feel bad for him too. Everytime we talk about it, he'll get angry and said that he need to make a living. He also had his previous marriage daughter that stays wth him in US. I feel like he gave more attention to her compare his son here. I don't know and confuse, please help

2006-11-25 02:01:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

TAIPEI: A Taiwan woman has been sentenced to 20 months in jail for severing her unfaithful husband’s penis and flushing it down the toilet, a newspaper said yesterday. The July attack occurred in Nantou County, central Taiwan. The Nantou District Court announced the sentencing on Wednesday, according to the Liberty Times. On July 29, the wife put four sleeping pills into a cup of grape juice that she served to her husband, a police officer said.

After he fell asleep, she tied his limbs to the four legs of their bed with nylon robe and sealed his mouth with tape to muffle his shouts.

Using a banana knife, the wife cut off her husband’s penis and flushed it down the toilet. She applied Chinese medicine to his wound to stop the bleeding before calling police to turn herself in, the daily said.

The court could have given the wife a minimum five-year sentence but showed leniency with a sentence of 20 months, citing the husband’s extramarital affair as the cause of the castration.

2006-11-25 01:59:09 · 9 answers · asked by adam333975 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So many people settle in life (I am raising my hand to on several issues don't worry) because of decisions we made earlier, or circumstances, or we just don't think something better is out there for us...

Why do we settle when if we wait, we might find something in life that is worth waiting for?

Why don't we search for what is best for us even if it may take awhile?

If you have settled, do you ever ask the question, "What if..."

2006-11-25 01:57:36 · 20 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is married to a woman who has been cheating on him for 2+ years and currently lives with her boyfriend in another state. He admits his marriage is irreconcilable (which is plain to all). He now has a girlfriend that he has sex with. I have told him repeatedly I do not want to meet his girlfriend until he divorces his wife. I've made it clear that I think him having sex with a woman other than his wife is despicable and I do not want anything to do with his "slampiece" until he gets divorced. He has not even filed preliminary paperwork to divorce his wife and he has no plans to begin divorce proceedings. I don't want to give even a hint of encouraging him to cheat on his wife, so I don't want to meet his girlfriend until he gets divorced. I'm trying to get him to put his marriage behind him so he can date anyone he wants without the stigma of adultery. Is that an unreasonable stance to take?

2006-11-25 01:57:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

360 page and should I leave it or change it?

2006-11-25 01:56:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when they get hurt by these pretty boys they blame all men for it,if you ask me they only have them selfs to blame.I'm sure all girls have been asked out by a good guy that wasn't good looking so they turned them down.when you do wrong it comes back on you,so ladies before you blame all men for being hurt you should think about the guy you hurt.

2006-11-25 01:54:36 · 10 answers · asked by steeler nation!!!!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

there is this 20 yrld hoe on the corner.She said if i paid her 15$ she would kiss me for 10 min.should i do it.French kiss=)

2006-11-25 01:53:43 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married 2 years, and get jealous anytime my husband is around females at work. He is a resturant manager. Maybe because I'm pregnant and knocking on 30's door, and he works with 18 to early 20ish females, some of which are hot. He swears he will always be faithful and has no desire to run around. He has done nothing to prove himself untrustworthy, so how do I overcome my insecurities?

2006-11-25 01:53:18 · 26 answers · asked by sky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We're stuck here and could use any advice out there. He is almost 15 and has been seeing this girl who messes with his head and treats him poorly. My instinct is to keep them separated but I fear that will backfire. I try to have their hang out time around my house but that's not really working (what am I doing??). I hate to see her hurting him. I've tried to talk to her mother but she is as flighty as they come. I know it sounds unreasonable, but I want this girl GONE. Anyone been through this?

2006-11-25 01:52:52 · 11 answers · asked by donewiththismess 5 in Family

I am a teenager and I have just emailed this girl my real feeling but she said she just wanted to be friends. What objects, perhaps the ones that require hardwork and handmade, can be used to show her I love her?

2006-11-25 01:51:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you out of the blue went to the dr and he told you , you had 2wks to 6 months to live and you had money what would you do for yourself, as far as going places and doing things for you. remember their is no cure for the ilness. name at least 5 things you can think of so i can use this to help my relative. its like the song live everyday as if it was your last day,live as you were dying and can you tell me the artist of the song so i can go buy it a/s/a/p

2006-11-25 01:50:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

About French boys? We're doing a research project. No offense If your French or if you know someone who is French. We LOVE French people. We're french. !

2006-11-25 01:50:27 · 10 answers · asked by Orange Lipbalm 3 in Singles & Dating

He ran home crying saying that him and his best freind weren't friends' anymore! Wan't can I tell him to make him feel better?

2006-11-25 01:49:00 · 8 answers · asked by I love jm 1 in Friends