Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

Ok so yeah i might be a bit young but i supose it could be called "Puppy love" because i am only 13. Well anyway, my x boyfriend and I were going out for about four months, then about a day after we "properly" kissed, he started to b!tchin about me, saying i was a rubbish kisser and also he called me a fridge, he is 13 aswell but even though most girls dont find him atractive, he belives that he is "gods gift" , if you get what im getting at? well any way before we were going out he started to text me and asked me out also he said he wouldnt dump me because he "Loved" me. We dont go to the same secondary schools and we are both in year eight (English system of schooling) I dont want to go back out with him but i sort of want him to "love" me again so then if he did ask me out, i could hurt him back and say that i dont want to go out with him because he bitched about me.. etc.
so is this normal or is he just driving me crazy
Sorry if my spelling and/or grammer is wrong bt im dislexic

2006-11-25 03:29:17 · 9 answers · asked by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 in Singles & Dating

and if so, why? why wouldnt you tell your mates or do something about it? is it coz he's taken and you cant do anything about it? what other reasons could it be for someone keeping their crush on someone a secret and not sharing with their friends? does every1 tell their crush they fancy them? i havent for yrs.

2006-11-25 03:28:08 · 20 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

If a girl is in a relationship with another guy and shows interest in me...is it wrong to for me to go after her before she breaks up with him?

2006-11-25 03:27:16 · 13 answers · asked by neyoneyon 2 in Singles & Dating

i.e. keep it to yourself without asking for attention back or do you have to hoot your horn to get her attention?

2006-11-25 03:25:50 · 14 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 03:25:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do you think that when a guy or or girl is ineterested in you and you had previously never set eyes on them and never fancied thier look but also never got to know the inner personality, u tend to give in and start to explore more into them i.e. you ocmetimes get curious as to why this person is interested in you and u make an effort to find out what they are like and start liking them if they seem alright even though u would have never imagined being with someone like him/her. it happened to me? does it happen to u? like they are around you like in classes at university for like 3 yrs and u would have never imagined yourself with them ever but u end up being with them. human psychology i guess. we react to emotions.

2006-11-25 03:24:48 · 5 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

I want to know the realistic answers.

I want to be attractive person.

Please feel free to share your thoughts.

2006-11-25 03:23:54 · 7 answers · asked by davegesprek 1 in Singles & Dating

Im pretty petite (although i do have curves and a nice rack IMAO) but i tend to scare off a lot of guys, but girls usually stay around....im only 5 foot 5 and im lean in size....is it because im a goth? or because i smoke weed and eat shrooms? or because i love video games? im not a shy girl and go out to parties a lot and meet many people and socialize, but i just want to know why guys tend to go away from me.
oh and by the way, im not looking for a man right now. i use them only for pleasure for the time being.

2006-11-25 03:23:50 · 9 answers · asked by Little Black Riding Hood 1 in Singles & Dating

wondering why do girls go for bad boys. I mean I had this crush on this girl who was single when I met her. At first we started being friends but then this jerk came between us and she chose to be with him rather than with me. And yes she did know how I felt about her.

Anyway from what I have heard about this guy is that he is a real player and has had more girls than I can count. So why would she chose a jerk over me. I mean I am a nice guy, kind, caring, confident, and funny at times I mean I am not even ugly I am 5ft9 I have a six pack I mean please tell me I really want to know why girls pick bad boys. And if I should start being one or not because it is obvious being a nice guy is not what you want is it.

2006-11-25 03:23:47 · 8 answers · asked by X 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know the realistic answers.

I want to be attractive person.

Please feel free to share your thoughts.

2006-11-25 03:23:38 · 6 answers · asked by davegesprek 1 in Friends

I'll keep this as short as possible: We meet, hit it off real big. Things go great for a few months. She starts to go distant. Hot and cold for a while. We talk. She says she is always like this. OK, I have heard the, "It's not you, it's me" thing, you know what I assume. But things stay hot and cold. We start getting closer, she starts to push away. Up and down, like a yo yo. I start to push a little, figured it's only a matter of time that the "truth" comes out. We keep talking, she keeps saying the same thing though. I let up some, but the back and forth drives me nuts, just totally plays on every insecurity I ever had, and I back off some, push some. WTF? Finally occurs to me that she really meant what she said, something big and bad in her past. But now I've pushed her further away (not gone, but on a "break"). If I explained this to you, what would you say? I mean, what should I have thought? I have to look out for me, and who hasn't heard that line before?

2006-11-25 03:23:22 · 2 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

how can i make myself feel less crap? i have no friends with any spare time at the moment, and i really dont wana get drunk on my own, so i need a gud way off cheerin myself up after a bad few months.i feel really alone, but i have nowhere to go, and i havent for the passed month or so.
need easy simple ways.

2006-11-25 03:21:50 · 14 answers · asked by giggle.bunnyz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Never had a chance to find out if our friendship could be a whole lot more!! Now that i'm single I would like to find out if he is too & if he would like to go out sometime? I need a current contact, address, e-mail, or have him contact me please and thank you?!

2006-11-25 03:20:41 · 3 answers · asked by Vise_Versa 1 in Friends

my classmate (kevin) is teasing me w/ my other classmate(andrew), telling that andrew likes me.
then at some times, kevin take a glance at me but his not teasing me
i dont know if his looking at me or my bestfriend(who kevin is crushing on which is my seatmare)
then im starting to like him and notice that he really is handsome.
im telling my self not to like him but i feel hurt when kevin talks to other girls! should i avoid him? any other advice?

2006-11-25 03:20:01 · 8 answers · asked by marisol r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 03:19:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if you type "if a guy wants to...." it shows!

2006-11-25 03:18:37 · 10 answers · asked by aberdeen302004 3 in Singles & Dating

So I'm with my group of friends at the club and the hole night they keep talking about this really hot blonde across the room from us. I'm the type that goes out with my buddies just to hang out and have a good time regardless of girls. Time goes by and they're still talking about her when all of a sudden she comes up to me and starts flirting. She tells me that she goes to ISU and says to give her a call so that we can hang out and party.

I'm such an IDIOT that I totally forgot her name and have no idea when or how to call her.
All I have is her cell number without a name; What should I do??

2006-11-25 03:18:31 · 16 answers · asked by STEVEN MILLS 1 in Friends

Does love need a reason?

2006-11-25 03:18:08 · 18 answers · asked by tolanisri 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i tell my best friend that i am jealious of her other best friend.??? please help.

2006-11-25 03:18:00 · 9 answers · asked by SARAH 1 in Friends

i have nothing against dem .im just wondering why everyone is becoming blonde and blue eyes.meing being dat combination is the perfect woman??

2006-11-25 03:17:07 · 16 answers · asked by CT T 1 in Singles & Dating

im a good kid i never break any rules. i met this guy and he does break the rules. he drinks every night and is known for taking advantage of s. hes a year older then me and way more experianced. latley weve been flirting and talking everyday. yesterday he asked if he could pick me up and then we could go from there. i told him no, hes taking me out tonight. my parents would never let me go out with him. so i have a few questions- how do i let my parents let me go, and should i consider him even with his horribe rep? I know these are stupid questions but your help would be much appreciated

2006-11-25 03:16:45 · 17 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 03:16:44 · 2 answers · asked by tresor_41_eagle 1 in Singles & Dating

she recently told me she plays pat a cake with her cat. should i be concerned?

2006-11-25 03:16:21 · 13 answers · asked by crazytown 2 in Family

For my wedding instead of dancing with my father for the Father-Bride song I will be dancing with my older brother! I can't find a song to dance to. I am not the usual girl!! I want a song that is unique (a rock song or something). My first dance with my future husband is Warmness on the Soul by Avenged Sevenfold, if that might help!!! Please help me!!!!!!!

2006-11-25 03:15:17 · 10 answers · asked by mary t 1 in Weddings

Isn't it expecting too much to imagine you're neglected because he doesn't pamper, wine and dine you?

2006-11-25 03:15:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a very friendly person. I guess you can say very likable and gets along with everyone just about.
Here is the problem. I have one BEST friend we talk every morning before we begin school. We both home school our children.
Once my day start it is, breakfast, school, laundry, house chores, lunch, playtime, cooking dinner, devotion, bathtime, beddy bye.
Well, the problem is (and I don't mean to sound arrogant or anything) people are so attracted to me for friendship and they all want to become my friend. I'm speaking of women folks. Most of them will have real inferiority complexes, have no friends and think because I am friendly with them they I'm their new best friend.
I CAN'T DO THIS. I can't be everybody in the worlds friend. And I definitely don't have the time to chat with them on the phone everyday.
I have tried being nice to them because I dont' want to hurt anyone feelings and kindly tell them that I can't talk. BUT like I said most of these women

2006-11-25 03:14:38 · 5 answers · asked by egg_sammash 5 in Friends

in general they seem more less assertive, is that the general impression most people have?

2006-11-25 03:14:30 · 12 answers · asked by monstermash 1 in Singles & Dating

hi i am anjul a boy

2006-11-25 03:14:12 · 7 answers · asked by anjul_9897 r 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i totttallly digg my best friend of 10 years & iv always liked him but we just never go the chance to kik it. Im in a relationship & so is he n he seems a lil serious about his galfriend although he flirts with other chix. He tels me almost al his secrets. His galfriend is a virgin & so he doesnt get any, im also a virgin so... yeah, i seriously digg this guy. i told one of my friends about it & she says because i cant tell him how i feel, i should kiss him.if he kisses back, it means he feels me. Thing is, he was my first kiss...5years ago when we were 12.it was the 1st & last time i kissed him. Iend up crying over him cos we are so close but yet so far. I always seem to get over my feelings for him, until people start commenting on how we are meant for each other. I know he feels me too... deep downn inside i know he feels me but im just not sure.what is a sista to do? Ladiez, wat would you do & Fellaz, wat would you want your bestfriend to do n how wud you like her to approach u

2006-11-25 03:13:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 03:13:28 · 24 answers · asked by snowwilly100 1 in Singles & Dating