Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

I have been married for almost eight years. I am 29 and my husband is in his late thirties. My husband and I had to get married in a rush for legal reasons and we never discussed having kids before we got married. I think I just assumed that that's what everybody wants. Well, not my husband. We didn't talk about the subject for a few years, but when I was about 25 I started having a strong desire to have a baby. He told me he never wanted children. I thought that eventually he would change his mind. Everytime I would bring up the subject, he woud get really angry and defensive. Now, at 29, I am at a point where I feel my biological clock ticking really loud. I envy every woman that has a baby and wonder why I can't be among the fortunate ones. He will not budge. He thinks having a baby is absolutely irresponsible unless you are a millionaire. He went as far as to say he'd rather be dead then have a baby. Can this ever be resolved? How do you stop wanting to have a baby?

2006-11-25 04:12:01 · 22 answers · asked by amaya m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy that i'm kind of seeing always asks me to share my feelings for him.. he told me to write him an email expressing myself and i did, but he hasn't replied! i've seen him since and he's been acting nice and flirtatious. why does he want me revealing my feelings, yet he won't reveal his! help

2006-11-25 04:09:01 · 16 answers · asked by chocy 1 in Singles & Dating

Will you still be friends with her? Will you emphasize on the good things she has and praise her for it so that she'll be less jealous and competitive? Or will you stop being friends with her?

2006-11-25 04:08:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What goes good with cold turkey ?

2006-11-25 04:06:30 · 7 answers · asked by Justin 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you're 20 years old young women, what the avrage number of guys that they sleped with ? if you're a 25 years old women how many ?

2006-11-25 04:04:47 · 13 answers · asked by gougga 1 in Singles & Dating

We used to be good friends, but have grown apart the past few months. I used to work with her sister, so I did know her well. It's a very sad situation, I feel terrible for her. Everyone at work keeps asking me if I've talked to her, and the truth is I haven't. I have no idea what to say to her. I'm sorry? Then what? How are you? Obviously, she's not doing well. I'm sure she's inconsolable and the conversation will be very awkward. Should I give her some space?

Please help.

2006-11-25 04:04:35 · 10 answers · asked by Me 5 in Friends

Every morning I head to my local Starbucks to buy a coffee. Every day, I see this nice young girl there at the same time. I know she's around my age, because I overheard her talking to her friend one day. I know she doesn't have a boyfriend as well, because I heard her friend asking, "So are you going to ask him out?" and she said, "No, I don't really like his attitude." So, I know.

I really want to get to know her, and become friends. How do I start talking to her? What should I do?

Thanks

2006-11-25 04:04:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 04:03:22 · 2 answers · asked by Jeremy S 1 in Friends

2006-11-25 04:03:08 · 3 answers · asked by georgia k 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My roommate came in last night and announced that she's moving out (and sticking me with all the bills and the lease) this weekend.

She's in the process of getting her stuff together...I need ideas on how to make it as unpleasant for her as humanly possible. Because I'm a b*tch like that.

2006-11-25 04:02:42 · 16 answers · asked by sdkramer76 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a date last night which went fairly well, how soon should I contact this girl and ask to see her again?

2006-11-25 04:01:07 · 20 answers · asked by micktravis 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 04:01:05 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi there, i need some advice. my boyfriend and i have been together for at least 10 months. for around 9 months we had a really nice and healthy relationship. we fell in love had a great time and that whole entshilada... recently, since autumn he started getting odd. is so happens that we are going to live 3 hours away from each other in july... we discussed the situation and decided to try a long distance relationship. after that he continued being odd, not the sweet person like he used to be. i talked to him about it and he admitted that he had changed. he also said he wasnt sure if he still had feelings for me. so i broke up with him. 3 hours later he came back begging that i shouldnt go, that he did loves me, that he would try to be the sweet one again, just that everything is odd...im just saying he is odd, he doesnt treat me like he used to. i love him. does he really love me?, because if i back off, its the end of the world for him. if i stay, hes odd? wat should i do?

2006-11-25 03:59:57 · 7 answers · asked by sabinaauchi 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of almost 20 yrs came to visit my boyfriend and I about 1 1/2 ago. I had to go away for an emergency for about 4 days. During this time, my boyfriend (of 3 yrs) tells me she walked around w/ a wife beater and boxers on revealing the obvious body parts, while showing him photos of herself in a bikini in Cancun. I was of course livid and just cut off all ties w/her instead of fighting. She now conveniently lives 5 minutes from us w/ my boyfriend's mother while she "gets her life together." My problem is my boyfriend says there should be no problem w/ him being friendly to her. I agree that "hi and bye"should be ok because it is his mother's home, but that should be it. She steps beyond boundaries by having his mother call to get directions from him and to ask him other random questions. I think I'm ready to stop being patient! To top it off, I had no Xgiving because she opted to stay there! Am I overreacting? It just eats me up. Ladies, Men, Help ME!

2006-11-25 03:59:31 · 14 answers · asked by Nikki J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend of almost 20 yrs came to visit my boyfriend and I about 1 1/2 ago. I had to go away for an emergency for about 4 days. During this time, my boyfriend (of 3 yrs) tells me she walked around w/ a wife beater and boxers on revealing the obvious body parts, while showing him photos of herself in a bikini in Cancun. I was of course livid and just cut off all ties w/her instead of fighting. She now conveniently lives 5 minutes from us w/ my boyfriend's mother while she "gets her life together." My problem is my boyfriend says there should be no problem w/ him being friendly to her. I agree that "hi and bye"should be ok because it is his mother's home, but that should be it. She steps beyond boundaries by having his mother call to get directions from him and to ask him other random questions. I think I'm ready to stop being patient! To top it off, I had no Xgiving because she opted to stay there! Am I overreacting? It just eats me up. Ladies, Men, Help ME!

2006-11-25 03:59:14 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki J 2 in Singles & Dating

he does when were out in public and when were at his house alone. is it agression is it a sign that he whould hurt me , or is it just a loving act

2006-11-25 03:59:13 · 8 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

I know why but i was at a swim meet and i was talking to my friend who is a boy. I glancedown and see his little man a bit stiff. He was wearing boxers so i though it might be an air thing.
He had gottten out the pool a few minuets tho so could he have have cold or something. I was in my bathing suit and my breast are nice and round


plus i was in my swimsuit.... NT WAYS....as i just beeing too cocky and he was just cold or somethin????

2006-11-25 03:58:36 · 24 answers · asked by Plumenon01 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in the city of Chennai(then called Madras), India. I wrote a letter to him in March 1970 on finding his address in a penpal magazine called "Sunshine" published from Pune( called Poona,then), India.

2006-11-25 03:58:27 · 4 answers · asked by mahendiranjk 1 in Friends

I am a bi f 36 he is st8 and is 50 she is 36 and is also bi. We have been looking for a bi f to join our family for 2 years and she asked a few weeks ago to come from her home state for a weekend to see us.

2006-11-25 03:57:46 · 10 answers · asked by hematitewitch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Can't Unmarried people be considered 'settled' in their lives?

2006-11-25 03:57:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing a guy for over two years. We have great chemistry and like to do the same things. Both of us are single and retired with adequate incomes. The problem is that he won't interact with my family. I have a new granddaughter who means the world to me, along with my two daughters and my son-in-law. Thanksgiving has come and gone with no word from him. I don't want to get married again, but this relationship is lacking a very vital element. I'm over 60 and not concerned about being with someone as I am content most of the time being alone. I WILL tell him how I feel but I don't know if I want to continue to see him. What I want is a more rounded, family oriented relationship and I'm not getting this from him. Thanks in advance for you advice.

2006-11-25 03:57:10 · 22 answers · asked by Blondie 3 in Family

I can't stop in the middle of a conversation...

2006-11-25 03:56:19 · 21 answers · asked by CoCo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 03:55:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

long story short.
husband left 11 months ago because he wanted to make money back home. We were married for 12 years. I chose not to follow because I knew it's what he wanted and I didn't see our son and I having a good life it a 3rd world country.
After about 3 months, my husband and I stopped talking although he still calls his son every week for a few minutes.
Just recently, I found out (although I have been trying REALLY hard not to know anything about my soon to be ex husband), I found out that he is with someone else who has 3 kids and that he supports them yet he has never sent support money for our son.
There is no way to press for child support because he lives in a foreign country that does not have an agreement with Canada.

Now my question is: he seems to care about our son, but why the hell would he support someone else's 3 kids and not support my only child of whom he is the father???????
I guess I know the answer but I'd just like to hear some opinions.

2006-11-25 03:54:56 · 18 answers · asked by cajoesgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Reading some of these questions and hearing so many people saying if you are viewing porn and such it's fine to masturbate to it......and getting steamed up over women on T.V
How can you men think it's okay to still be basically drooling over other women when you are married? Doesn't your wife meet your needs? Don't you see how disrespectful this is to her?
Women are women, and you have one of your own, so enjoy her and drool over her.

I can't imagine being married to a man that behaved in such a disrespectful way.

2006-11-25 03:54:11 · 18 answers · asked by Cjs 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I were talking on the phone, and he hung up on me! And he never called me back. He has done this before, but, what does this mean?

2006-11-25 03:53:58 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica D 1 in Singles & Dating

My seperation and divorce, not only ended my relationship with my ex-husband but also ended my relationship with my best friend. This is what happened I was having an indept conversation with her about my husband, who I serapated from at the time, when i flat out asked her "whose friend are you, "mine or my ex-husband". She could not answer the question. I asked her if she told him about our conversations and she admitted to it. I ended our friendship relationship. Wow what a friend. I was hurt, and for a moment I became just like her. I told him and his boss she has herpies (which is true).

So a year and a half goes by and my exhusband told me they were in a relationship, after we broke, up for the enitre time. He never told me even though I asked. I was so angry. After eight months i am still angry.

We have two precious children and would like our relationship to become more then text messages. I want a friendship which involves active co-parenting. How should I do this?

2006-11-25 03:53:33 · 18 answers · asked by InSight 2 in Marriage & Divorce

And not having regular sex accelerate the aging process? Someone told me if you change your partner on regular basis or having sex with variety of women/ men more frequent make us young looking, is that true

2006-11-25 03:53:33 · 6 answers · asked by smartcamal1 3 in Singles & Dating

OK i was just sent this email

"I dont no who u think u r! telling me to shut my mouth in math
class. And u no what! im not going to shut mine because if i don't no
work is goin to get done because u sure wont open yours sitting
there in class doing nothing!"

this was sent by an ex friend of mine, who want's to make my life a living hell.
I have to sit right infront of her in math class.

I want something really hurtfull to say to her. But i have to clue what to say!

I have ignored her hurtfullness in the past and i have decided that I'm not going to take it anymore.

Please Help Me!

2006-11-25 03:53:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi all,,,
I discovered that my husband has a secret yahoo ID that I donno about, he chats with women and getting himself dates. I got his ID and I chatted with him, I feel bad and I need to know what to do... please help me...

2006-11-25 03:51:12 · 34 answers · asked by ali_lolo29 1 in Marriage & Divorce