Every morning I head to my local Starbucks to buy a coffee. Every day, I see this nice young girl there at the same time. I know she's around my age, because I overheard her talking to her friend one day. I know she doesn't have a boyfriend as well, because I heard her friend asking, "So are you going to ask him out?" and she said, "No, I don't really like his attitude." So, I know.
I really want to get to know her, and become friends. How do I start talking to her? What should I do?
Thanks
2006-11-25 04:04:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first step. make eye contact. then smile. if she responds with a smile back, (make sure it's a genuine smile, and not just a "I'm trying to be polite" smile) compliment her smile. DON'T talk about yourself. ask her questions about herself. people love to talk about themselves, and a good listener is always better then a songbird. good luck! can't wait to know how it goes.
2006-11-25 04:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by saying well I see you here almost every morning and I thought I should say hello and hope you have a gorgeous day. Hope to see you tomorrow morning. That is pleasent and a very nice ice breaker. Don't take it to fast though
2006-11-25 12:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a girl,if you like her,then talk to her! She might even feel the same way! If you want to be her friend,just picture her as one of your best buds and you will know what to say!
2006-11-25 12:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just be real with her. Just approach her and let her know that you have seen her around and she looks like a nice person and you were hoping to get to know her better.
2006-11-25 12:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by Guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy 2 coffes and walk over to her and say your friend didn't turn up so would you like this coffe and maybe try striking up some talking.... Well Goodluck!!!
2006-11-25 12:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by FAHQALL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude you need to make the first move , start asking little datails as her name and stuff like that , then pick up her phone number or her email and keep the contact with her , make her know you better.
2006-11-25 12:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like a gentleman ,invite her for a cup of coffe and start a very nice conversation !
2006-11-25 12:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say something cool and nice like "i was hoping i would see you again," Then if she smiles or starts to talk to you say "i don't think this cofee is all that good but i'll come here if you are here."
Something like that.
2006-11-25 12:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by Plumenon01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shoulda done something the 1st or 2nd time you felt interested. now you know too much about her and are borderline stalker.
2006-11-25 12:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self and dont be shy and say something to her that you both have in common to get the ball rolling
2006-11-25 12:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋