I am a bi f 36 he is st8 and is 50 she is 36 and is also bi. We have been looking for a bi f to join our family for 2 years and she asked a few weeks ago to come from her home state for a weekend to see us.
2006-11-25 03:57:46 · 10 answers · asked by hematitewitch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If this lady wants to meet you in the hope of joining your family then you need to see of you are sexually compitable. If you don't have sex with her at the weekend & decide to wait until she moves in & then find out both of you have different sexual tastes then it could lead in heartbreak & relationship difficulties.
So yes I think you should have sex with her because you both need to find out whether the relationship will work.
2006-11-25 04:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Dannie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be up to the 3 of you dont you think? As well unless you and your hubby have been with another female in long term sense, watch what you ask for. Many marriages fail due to this type of situation. Good luck
2006-11-25 12:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as everybody in this equation is ok with all of this then that is all that matters but however if i were in the same shoes i surly would not have sex the first time. Be a little patient. Think about the ups and downs......the pros and cons.
2006-11-25 12:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well I guess that is really up to the 3 of you.
I would make sure she is d/d free beforee having relations with the person. or use protection.
and you might want to spend some time with her befor having her become part of your family. have her stay with you for a few weeks. It may turn out that you don't like some of her habits or ...
just as with any relationship don't rush it....let it grow at its only pace.
2006-11-25 13:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by ladysilverhorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know this has never been an interest of mine or my husbands since we view marriage as a sacred unity between two people, but if that is what you are into, I guess to each his own. However, how much do you know about this lady? What about diseases and such? Are you sure that this would be good for your marriage or would it cause problems?
2006-11-25 12:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by janeannpat 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
being as you are meeting for the possibility of sex i think it is ok to keep that option open.
2006-11-25 12:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound like two sick puppies to me!
2006-11-25 12:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
hell yea. right when you see that chick you need to start banging her.
2006-11-25 12:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by emehms 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OH GROSS, have you ever heard of DISEASE???
2006-11-25 11:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
sick people
2006-11-25 12:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by ladycindy1701 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋