Last year I had surgery, & was thankful when she brought a meal for family (from my church).She says God asked her to take care of our family. I told her I'm well & would like to be friends,do girl stuff, shop, etc. She doesn't want to, she wants to clean my house, cook for us, DH is disabled, has many hospital stays. Ive dealt for over 5 years, but now she calls 2-3 times a day to HELP. If I don't answer, she calls the hospital & tells him I won't answer. She had me type a book, & paid me very well to do this, now calls constantly wanting to take me out to lunch She decided to teach her kids about giving by being a Santa to our family this year, we asked her not to, because due to DH's disability we had to have help several years, & now we don't HAVE to. We asked her to donate to church instead, but she refuses. She cleans house & brings me all the discards, she thinks I can "use" them. It's even included her old underwear! DH dont want to hurt her feelings, how do I deal with it?
2006-11-25
03:44:16
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