Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

i have a gf. she says that she luvs me a lot. but many times it happens that she says that she doesnt luv me and doesnt wanna be with me but next day we meet and she says that she was joking? she even talks bout other boyz in front of me. i feel jealous. her friend says that she does this to jealous me. she always says that she luvs me but i hv a doubt. what should i do?

2006-11-25 02:47:43 · 10 answers · asked by NIk 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a senior in high school and my first love broke up with me 3 monthes ago. It has been a slow healing process and I am finally starting to get over her. Unfortunately, the only time I see her is one class a day and in this class she has a new boyfriend. I hvant talked to her in about a month because I told her it was too hard for me to pretend we were friends. I used to like this class but now I hate going to it and it is hard to concentrate because I have to see them together. How can I deal with this without being hurt everytime I think of her and everytime I step foot in that class? (and there really are few other girls I can talk to in that class)

2006-11-25 02:47:09 · 17 answers · asked by im bringing sexy back 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 02:47:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 02:46:42 · 5 answers · asked by sunny 1 in Friends

Last night my boyfriend and I were in the middle of making love and right before we finished he said my mom's name, my mom and I have similar names, but I felt horrible that he would say her name. The n right after he said her name, he started same my name over and over to try to clean it up. We've been dating for two years and this has never happened. He was under the influence and he swears he did'nt say her name. But I know what I heard. This morning he apologized and said that if he did say it he was sorry, he was drunk and out of it, but you know what, we have gotten drunk before and this never happened. What hurts me the most is that he kept denying that he said it, and trust me, he said it. I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore. I just want some advice on this situation. Thank you to who ever answers me. God Bless

2006-11-25 02:46:09 · 37 answers · asked by Spanish Mami 4 in Singles & Dating

MY LAST QUESTION WAS ABOUT WHAT I SHOULD DO AND HAD SOME GOOD ANSWERS, THANK YOU. TODAY SHE IS AT WORK AND IM HOME. I WANT TO GIVE HER THE SPACE SHE NEEDS. I KNOW SHE'S NOT CHEATING, I KNOW SHE LOVES ME AND I KNOW THAT IM NOT THE EASIEST PERSON TO GET ALONG WITH AT TIMES. I HAVE ALREADY TOLD HER THAT I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HER AND HOW MUCH I LOVE HER. I DO GET JEALOUS BUT I HAVE NO REASON TO. I REALY WANT TO MAKE THIS WORK AND TODAY WILL BE SO HARD. I WANT TO CALL HER AND SAY SORRY OR SOMETHING BUT I KNOW THAT WILL MAKE IT WORSE. HECK SHE MAY NOT EVEN REMEMBER OR BE OVER IT AND I DONT WANT TO BRING IT BACK UP AND HAVE HER PISSED AGAIN. IF SHE CALLS SHOULD I NOT ANSWER IT AND LET IT GO TO VM. SHOULD I CALL HER LATER AND SEE IF SHE WANT TO HANG OUT. I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. IS THERE ANYONE OUT THERE WITH A GOOD ANSWER THAT CAN HELP ME. MAYBE AN IM SO I CAN TALK TO SOMEONE AND JUST VENT.

2006-11-25 02:44:51 · 4 answers · asked by flirt 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter walked into my bedroom yesterday after I got off work. I am a nurse and had to work late. She was talking to me on the bed, and I needed to change clothes but she would not leave. I rarely wear underwear and my daughter did not know that, and I was wearing my scrubs. I needed to change so I just stripped out of my scrubs, and changed into some jeans and a t-shirt. I thought I guess she is old enough to know now. Well she found out. She said "Mom, you are not wearing underwear". I told her, "I never do. It is more comfortable without them for me." It was a little embarrassing to say the least because it was also the first time she had seen me naked. When she was very young, I could walk around the house naked and did not have to be so cautious. Now it is just us girls around the house. She said that she might try going without underwear, too. I told her that it is her decision, and that she could try it. Am I wrong for letting this happen and being more open?

2006-11-25 02:43:49 · 24 answers · asked by Stephanie W 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter walked into my bedroom yesterday after I got off work. I am a nurse and had to work late. She was talking to me on the bed, and I needed to change clothes but she would not leave. I rarely wear underwear and my daughter did not know that, and I was wearing my scrubs. I needed to change so I just stripped out of my scrubs, and changed into some jeans and a t-shirt. I thought I guess she is old enough to know now. Well she found out. She said "Mom, you are not wearing underwear". I told her, "I never do. It is more comfortable without them for me." It was a little embarrassing to say the least because it was also the first time she had seen me naked. When she was very young, I could walk around the house naked and did not have to be so cautious. Now it is just us girls around the house. She said that she might try going without underwear, too. I told her that it is her decision, and that she could try it. Am I wrong for letting this happen and being more open?

2006-11-25 02:43:28 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie W 1 in Family

2006-11-25 02:43:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay okay.. im only 17 and when i like a girl its like fully.. its like i take it seriously. people sometimes tell me to like have fun enjoy teenage life and not to love until when i get older.. but somehow i do enjoy my teenage life.. but i take relationship seriously.. i do have fun during my relationship then next thing you know fall inlove with this girl.and yea..kinda wierd how a teenager loves like an adult..NOw this girl that i love broke up with me twice like every 2 weeks people say have fun and enjoy her. and i do but i take it really seriously.. now this girl that broke my heart and now she wants to go back with me for the second time..im just afraid that if i do i would just get my heart broken again.. should i go for it..?? and is me normal for most of the teenager??

2006-11-25 02:42:54 · 2 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Singles & Dating

I been married for 5 years now and my husband is handicapped.sometimes i cannot cope with hes behaviour towards others.I feel so ashamed most of the time when we go out.What should i do? Do u think i am so cruel if i divorce him?but where he will go if i divorce him when he has no parents anymore?

2006-11-25 02:42:46 · 34 answers · asked by lostsoul_seeker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

which one?!?!

2006-11-25 02:40:50 · 9 answers · asked by whatever 1 in Singles & Dating

Did you ever wish you had one more sibling in your family like a sister? I always wanted a sister of my own but I don't have any.

2006-11-25 02:40:50 · 11 answers · asked by April Ann Codon Cruz 2 in Friends

i'm going over to my friend's house a little later, what should we do at her house for fun?

2006-11-25 02:40:24 · 8 answers · asked by almost 13 year old chick! 1 in Friends

I've asked some questions here and for the most part I get good answers.but there are some of you,woman for the most part that think there is 2 sides to the story.my wifes side from what she tells me ,loves a younger guy who knows shes married and has 2 kids .I'm 32 and shes 33 yrs old.this is my side of the story.I grew up with out a father because my father cheated on my mom,I promised my self at the age of 8 yrs old that I would not do this to whom ever I got married to.I saw my mom suffer why would I make my wife (the person I'm deeply in love with suffer like that?)I grew up with good values and morals.now I'm the one being kept in the dark.I know my wife loves some younger guys whos already had a failed marriage after only 2 months because he tells her his ex wanted him for money.lets be real he lives with his mom now how much money could he realy have and what kind of a man is he since he knows shes a married woman and is still chasing her?

2006-11-25 02:39:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can the Tone of a Woman's Voice be a telling sign? Do women use different tones for guys they like v. guys they dont when they leave a voice mail. I gave this girl my number and she called back and left her number. What if they laugh on the message also

2006-11-25 02:38:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 02:38:02 · 14 answers · asked by Ozzy Boy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 02:37:39 · 6 answers · asked by saab 2 in Singles & Dating

what exactly is foreplay? i mean i kinda know but not rly.

2006-11-25 02:36:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 02:36:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tonight my friend and I are planning a double date. We don't want to spend a lot of money, we want to be kind of creative, and we'll probably spend most of our time at her house (unless we come up with an idea of a good place to go) -- does anyone have any ideas for what we could/should do? What would guys enjoy? (nothing gross, please)

2006-11-25 02:35:58 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

He is angry and won't talk to me because I "kicked out" an abusive freeloader after six months of Hell. I did what I did for my own sanity, but my son thinks it was wrong. Now, how do I "win back" my son, or should I just accept his "angry silence". He wouldn't even listen to my side of the story which is not fair to me.

2006-11-25 02:35:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-25 02:35:44 · 2 answers · asked by clear_only 2 in Singles & Dating

eww, ma sister came back from college.Now she keeps goin on top of melik never before.The other day she sat on ma crouch..

2006-11-25 02:35:24 · 10 answers · asked by kazzaaaaam 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, I have a problem and I welcome all the answers especially from girls at the age from 28 - 35 but all are welcome.

This morning, I was on the phone with my gf. She is 31. She is still in Hong Kong right now but I talk to her everyday on the phone for hours.

Today, she was a bit sick, anyway, so I asked her how would you feel if I call you in a few days or in 2 weeks instead of everyday?

She started to get all mad, she then told me , fine, I am going to shut off my phone because I have something to tell you, but I 'll tell you in 2 weeks. Let's chill for 2 weeks. She was so mad........anyway, I spoke to her for 1 hour explaining to her that I love her no matter what, she was crying, and at the end, she felt better and cared for me again.

She said she would tell me about what she is going to say next Monday instead of 2 weeks.........

I just need to know from woman at around 28 - 35, what happened?? If you need to know more, you can email me.

2006-11-25 02:34:43 · 21 answers · asked by Webballs 6 in Singles & Dating

what are the concession prices and how much do I need for a date to the movies

2006-11-25 02:34:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is it that whenever i wear my hair straightened, this guy seems to stare more/ give longer stares then if i wear my hair, say, wavy?

2006-11-25 02:33:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone else hate first dates?i find them so awkward. can someone please help me not be anxious? any input would be appreciated.

2006-11-25 02:32:36 · 12 answers · asked by chikka 5 in Singles & Dating

i hust jumped into a relationship with someone i realllly like. thing is, i dumped my boyfriend of 7months for him & he didnt have to ask me to lose him so i could be with him,it was outa my own wil. Now im just scared the guy im with now wil leave me for another gal cos he is one of those popula "gotta hav" guys. Thing about him is, he aint BIG headed. hz calm n composed & i trust him but i just cant express my true feelings

2006-11-25 02:32:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am courting a lady and she really thinks I have it together, but I don't completely. she invited herself over to my place, should I tell her the issues I have before we take a romp or just let her find out eventually? my issues: I have an insanely jealous ex and I like to have 3somes a lot.

2006-11-25 02:31:19 · 16 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3 in Singles & Dating