i am courting a lady and she really thinks I have it together, but I don't completely. she invited herself over to my place, should I tell her the issues I have before we take a romp or just let her find out eventually? my issues: I have an insanely jealous ex and I like to have 3somes a lot.
2006-11-25 02:31:19 · 16 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If having a romp is what is driving you in this relationship and your lady friend as well, why not.
She will soon learn about you insanely jealous ex I am sure as she get to know you better.
3some - that depends on how much you desire them. But a good idea to at least bring it up in conversation. You might be surprised and find out she likes them as well. After that is up to the two of you to decide what you do next.
Good luck
2006-11-25 02:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on where you stand in this relationship. If you are still in the very early stages, I dont think you should bring it up becuase you just might scare her off. If you have been with her for a few months or even years, you probably should GRACEFULLY slip it into some convo. Not just bluntly tell her at an awkward time. She will either accept you or not accept you. Just be prepared for that. Eventually, you SHOULD tell her. That is the right thing to do. It just has to be at an opportune time. Hope things work out!
2006-11-25 10:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, Mr. Insightful....
This shouldn't even be a question... Ofcourse you should tell her...This kind of stuff, ie: the ex wife, is called baggage. Unless you can get rid of the problem, you shouldn't bring someone into your world without telling them what's up ! ! !
I do believe that would be considered, (in a sense), lying about who you are....
Fess up pal! ! She don't need no surprises ! !
Good day!
2006-11-25 10:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her now before she gets too emotionally involved. She will probably deal with the jealous ex better than the threesomes.
2006-11-25 10:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by puzzled 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends i'm sure she could have some of her own hidden issues up her sleeve.
why not hold off on a romp unless she initiates it first?
2006-11-25 10:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come clean with this lady. You would want the same if it was turned around.
2006-11-25 10:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by ranchforman57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... with this list, she has the right to know before she gets involved with you.
Its called "human decency."
2006-11-25 10:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well get ris of the jealous one and find 2 more that r fun
cum2me baby
2006-11-25 10:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Let her know right off the bat. Maybe shes up for a threesome.
2006-11-25 10:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
might be worth you saying something to her, if you like her at all, you dont want her getting the wrong idea do you?
2006-11-25 10:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋