Did it work out or did he cheat again? was the relationship the same?
2006-11-25 03:39:48 · 19 answers · asked by lucy c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have forgiven my g/f for cheating on me but it never quite leaves your mind.its always in the back of your head that they are going to cheat again and 99% of the time they do.be carfeful and keep your eyes open but at the same time do your best to trust him.
2006-11-25 03:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by andrew b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did when I was younger in my late teens I found out that my boyfriend that I had dated for 4 years was cheating on me with a girl. I forgave him at the time... No it was never the same. I couldn't really get over that he had done that. We both joined the military and I was stationed in the US and he was stationed Overseas. I knew that with that much distance between us I could never full trust him so I broke it off. We happen to be friends now. With our own separate lives and responsibilities but that is now it took years for me to forgive him for that. I know now that we were just young at the time.
2006-11-25 03:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by Laila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did . my bf cheated on me when i was in hospital due to premature labor of our child. Five years later we are still together we have had some problems along the way but we have had to really work on our communication with each other . I don't feel that the relationship was the same as before he cheated but it was a chance for growth in our relationship
2006-11-25 03:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by pheonix F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive is not forget.Also,even you forgive your boyfriend/husband,you don't forget cheating,because you think he cheat again,and,even he work out for this,you don't believe him anymore,and,you know the relationship wasn't the same.
2006-11-25 04:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend forgave me and we're still together 3 more years after the mistake. No I didn't cheat again because he said it was his fault for my cheating, he wasn't there for me more often. Now we have a great relationship!
2006-11-25 03:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried very hard to forgive, kinda tried to block it out of my mind. Could not gain back the trust, relationship was never the same. However,It is possible for some people to save their relationship.
2006-11-25 03:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. I dumped his a$$ when I found out my boyfriend cheated. I would never go back to him after what he did, he'll just do it again.
2006-11-25 03:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. it was diff. bc u can never treuly trust them again. and if u are in a relationship w/ some 1 ttht cheated on uand ur not as happy as u were b4 then call it of. soon .
2006-11-25 03:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could forgive, but I doubt the relationship would ever be the same, it would be in the back of your mind for the rest of your life.
2006-11-25 03:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by tania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say once a cheater, always a cheater. You can't forgive them unless you trust them enough. Most guys continue cheating though.
2006-11-25 03:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋