my husband is not faithful, what to do?

Question

Hi all,,,
I discovered that my husband has a secret yahoo ID that I donno about, he chats with women and getting himself dates. I got his ID and I chatted with him, I feel bad and I need to know what to do... please help me...

Answer 1

Excuse me... Unfaithful Loser of a Husband.. Leave him.. Don't have that fear of being alone, abandonment; I mean thats the only reason your still with him.. And what about love? There is none if he's cheatin on you... When he leaves to go on a date grab everything in the house and leave.. And file for your divorce. Their are better men out there.

Answer 2

you cannot make or force a man to be faithful. If he has cheated I am sure it has happened more than once. You can either accept his behavior or be strong and move on. Let him know that you are not for playing games and let him know what the deal is. If he's getting dates with multiple women, it's probably safe to say that the married life isn't for him anymore...he wants to be a swinging bachelor. If it was just one single woman he is seeing on the side then I'd say that he is seeking the other woman for something that he isn't getting at home or no longer content with, growing apart and etc. Neverthelss it doesn't give him the right to disrespect you and he just need to be a man about it and come clean so you can decide what you are willing to put up with.

Answer 3

I would have to agree with the first answer I would make a date then burst his bubble then call a lawyer. Or even better string him along long enough to get divorce papers done up then set the date and serve him with the papers because lady you deserve better.

Answer 4

Make a date with him. When you meet him for the date don't be mad, rather be the best date he will ever have. Take him home after the date and show him what he has been missing and what the future could be like.

Answer 5

Such guys are not worthy of even stayin with a woman,
If you dont have kids Kick him in his groins(That really hurts trust me about that) and get a divorce.
but if you have kids or if you are in your family way talk to him, Get him to sign a bond of assurity statin that he would never do such things again and if ever found guilty he would have to forsake all his belongings.
THis helps sometimes after all he would never risk loosin all his hard earned money.

Answer 6

Face the fact that he is a cheater....once you've done that, then decide if you want to live with a cheater, or get a divorce. I personally prefer the latter, but it's not my decision. Once he's started cheating on you, it's almost impossible to get him to stop.Can you live with a cheater the rest of your life?? Good Luck!!

Answer 7

Confront him and get counseling. Are you really ready to give up on your marriage yet? If not, seek a good marriage counseling. But talk to him first before you decide to do anything. Communication is the key.

Answer 8

it's so hard to say leave him, especially if there is love still in your heart. i'm sure you wouldn't be asking if you didn't love him. you probably already know the right thing to do is leave, but your mind is telling you something different. your first instinct is always the right one, go w/ that no matter what anyone else says. whether you stay or go, it will be the hardest decision you will probably ever make.

Answer 9

Get him to try on a pair of panties. Eventually you can throw out all his male underwear. He will be too embarassed to show other women that he is wearing them. There are many websites to instruct you in femininizing him and using petticoat punishment.

Answer 10

Get evidence! Set up your own secret e mail and chat to him and get him to send damning evidence to your secret e mail (perhaps suggesting a sexual liaision). Hit him with a divorce and his infidelity will be impossible to refute....;