My girlfriend of almost 20 yrs came to visit my boyfriend and I about 1 1/2 ago. I had to go away for an emergency for about 4 days. During this time, my boyfriend (of 3 yrs) tells me she walked around w/ a wife beater and boxers on revealing the obvious body parts, while showing him photos of herself in a bikini in Cancun. I was of course livid and just cut off all ties w/her instead of fighting. She now conveniently lives 5 minutes from us w/ my boyfriend's mother while she "gets her life together." My problem is my boyfriend says there should be no problem w/ him being friendly to her. I agree that "hi and bye"should be ok because it is his mother's home, but that should be it. She steps beyond boundaries by having his mother call to get directions from him and to ask him other random questions. I think I'm ready to stop being patient! To top it off, I had no Xgiving because she opted to stay there! Am I overreacting? It just eats me up. Ladies, Men, Help ME!
2006-11-25
03:59:14
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Nikki J
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I have known this girl for almost 20 yrs. We are both in our late 20's now. And yes, his mother knows OF her but only because of my boyfriend's cousin, who happens to be a long childhood friend of mine. This whole thing stinks. I think he is too passive to take a position. I'm wondering should I just let him go? I have other posts that show what a pain the a$$ his mother is and how he is mister fearful of commitment. I need advice, so I don't do the wrong thing. My gut says leave and start over, and my heart says stay.
2006-11-25
04:07:50 ·
update #1