Are you married and still drooling?

Question

Reading some of these questions and hearing so many people saying if you are viewing porn and such it's fine to masturbate to it......and getting steamed up over women on T.V
How can you men think it's okay to still be basically drooling over other women when you are married? Doesn't your wife meet your needs? Don't you see how disrespectful this is to her?
Women are women, and you have one of your own, so enjoy her and drool over her.

I can't imagine being married to a man that behaved in such a disrespectful way.

Angel -
Accepting the worlds morals and values is NOT maturity it's weekness!
And why be happy serving as only an outlet for your husband - Why not be the inspiration as well?

Benny -
Married 17 years!

Answer 1

I agree with you, I do not think that is a respectful way to treat your wife. Roaming eyes lead to a roaming heart.

Answer 2

Perchance you're one of the rare few that is blind to others because you have someone. I've been with my man a mere two years - love him to bits, and I still think he's sexy. Doesn't mean all other men have become unattractive to me. I believe in and practice fidelity. I refuse to focus on the attractiveness of anyone within my environment other than my man, and I use celebrities and porn as an outlet for the roving eye, which can't lead to cheating. For those of us who are human and can't help but look, it's perfectly healthy when you don't go over the top with it, or flaunt it in your partner's face. That's a female perspective for ya.

Answer 3

I am with you on this all the way. When those guys out there, that act like that, they remind my of animals! It really does make me sick. If they would treat their wives the way they treat and drool over the other women, they just might find out what they really do have at home. And I don't mean treat them like that on a hit and miss kind of thing, treat them that way ALL the time, they just might be in for a BIG surprise.

Answer 4

It's the whole "the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence" syndrome. Kinda like how women will order something really great at a fine restaurant (or any restaurant for that matter) and then want to eat off other people's plates because it "looks so good". Same thing, different scenario.

Answer 5

Honey men have been men since the dawn of time and will never change. If my man wants to look at a little skin then come and give me a high hard one i am all for it. I benefit as much if not more than he does. Grow up and get into the real world.

Answer 6

Ive been with my husband for 7 years, married for 3 of them and he use to do that all the time. It finally stopped once i put a parental lock on the computer and freaked out on him. I also threatened to leave him. Since then, it has not happened once =)
I think the occasional "eye candy" is fine as long as it stops there. Once it crosses that point, its hard to put a stop to it.

Answer 7

I agree, it's disrespectful. My husband isn't one of those, believe me I would find out!! There is a medical condition for that. Like porn creep or something. It's where men are so infatuated with pornography that they aren't even turned on by regular women anymore. It's sick and is not an excuse.

Answer 8

Why can't I find women like you here in Florida? Most here seem to be trying to outdo their husbands at cheating.

Answer 9

LOL!! Have you ever been married?

The key is to sneak peaks at other women without her noticing.

Answer 10

I disagree, entirely. The way you envision your marriage will work is not how another people's marriages do work. It's fine for you to think the way you do, but It's not okay for you to push your views on other people. To degrade them for thinking differently than you.