If a girl is in a relationship with another guy and shows interest in me...is it wrong to for me to go after her before she breaks up with him?
2006-11-25 03:27:16 · 13 answers · asked by neyoneyon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on what your motives are. if you are looking for a serious relationship, then beware.. if she cheats on her current bf to be with you, then she will eventually cheat on you when she's ready as well.
if you're just looking for some silly casual fun, then whether it's right or wrong will really depend on your personal values.
but the bottom line, if you interfear with her current relationship, all three of you will end up hurt and angry at each other.. and all three will come out losers..
2006-11-25 03:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt advise it.. not only can you get in deep trouble with her boyfriend but she will repect you less.. she might be flattered for a while ..... but eventually she will start thinking "whats with this guy he knows im with my boyfriend, cant he respect me enough to let me be with who i want?"
and if that does happen.. even if she breaks up with him chances are you wont be number 1 on the list
for now be the best friend you can be and always be there for her.. maybe drop some hints but dont do much more than that
if she breaks up with this guy shell realize you were one of the only people that was with her through the whole thing
good luck :) hope you guys get together some day
2006-11-25 03:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by curls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of the be conscious be apologetic approximately? for the previous countless years I easily have been haunted by REGRETbecause of the failings that i did no longer ask because of the fact i became into to shy, too dumb and oh too respectful... Asking her out to the prom isn't the comparable as asking her to cheat on her boyfriend except of course you have different reasons (which merits yet another answer). the alternative remains as much as her, the substantial element is which you ask her nicely and which you're arranged for in spite of answer she delivers... a minimum of you tried precise... and who is familiar with?
2016-12-10 15:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she isn't married. So I would throw some flirty hints her way. She may be looking for someone better before she breaks up with the guy. If you flirt with her now, you can be next in line.
2006-11-25 03:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is and I thik you know that because if you didn't you wouldn't be writting. you'll end up having trouble with the other guy. I also think that the girl is not faithfull so you don't want to be with her
2006-11-25 03:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could just have a crush on u, while she's in a relationship the thing is if she's happy with who's shes with then u shouldn't "ruin" her relationship....if she breaks up with him it should be okay, but it shouldn't be right after they broke up b/c then u'll just be a rebound....
2006-11-25 03:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you want it done to you? Put the shoe on the other foot, and see if you'd like some guy chasing your girl friend.
2006-11-25 03:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. but dont b all over her rember to give her her space and be careful not to let her boyfreind think u want more than a freind with her. become her freind first then gane her love
2006-11-25 03:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probly yes and probly no i mean no if she knows that he is not treating her right and you know it and see it.Yes if u see they really love each other.Just tell yourself what would you do if u had a gf and a girl came and took u away what would u do say no or go
2006-11-25 03:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by jj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with it as long as you keep in mind that it will be your heart broke next when the next guy comes along and she dumps u.
2006-11-25 03:32:03 · answer #10 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋