i have a love question?

Question

im a good kid i never break any rules. i met this guy and he does break the rules. he drinks every night and is known for taking advantage of s. hes a year older then me and way more experianced. latley weve been flirting and talking everyday. yesterday he asked if he could pick me up and then we could go from there. i told him no, hes taking me out tonight. my parents would never let me go out with him. so i have a few questions- how do i let my parents let me go, and should i consider him even with his horribe rep? I know these are stupid questions but your help would be much appreciated

Answer 1

First: Okay don't go in to any relationship thinking that you are going to change him or her. That never really works. That person have to WANT to change. You can't never change him/her. No matter how much you love them and how much they love you. Your love for this person may spark something that make him/her change. But that person needs to do them on their own.
Second: Prevent. If you know that he is not the guy your are used to dating (a bad buy). Are you sure you want to go out with this guy? Are you going to regret not going out with? If you still want to go out with him then; Prevent bad situations. Tell your parents were are you going to be. What you going to do. Take precaution. Make sure that at some level you have the control of what going on. Take your cell phone fully charged. Take some extra cash for cab. A pen and keys could be used to defend your self on a tight moment. Make sure you are going in with eyes opened that you know exactly what your are doing and the repercussions if things don't go as you pleased.
Third: Try to have a little fun but keep you guard up. Just in case.
Remember you safety first. If you feel uncomfortable at any moment you have the right to call a cab and go home. You ve the right to walk away. Don't feel bad about leaving him there If he cares for real he wouldn't put you in any uncomfortable situation.
Wish you the best luck!

Answer 2

No question is totally stupid, if it's realistic to you and you want/need the answer. If you kinda like the guy, seem to get along, and he doesn't try to talk you into "bad" stuff, shouldn't be a problem. If your parents know of his "reputation" explain how you feel and that you cannot and will not be talked into wrong or bad behavior, you should have a better chance getting the "okay" from your parents. Just don't ever lie to your parents.

Answer 3

Stay a good kid - don't break the rules for one with a bad rep now. And don't defy your parents for one they would never let you go out with. I swear. I know the temptation of the bad boy thing but it will bite you in the rear in the end. Please, for your own sake, stay at home, honey.

Answer 4

as a yahoo's friend,my honest answer: Thank you for your question.It is not a bad question,it is a smart question.First at all,do not go out with him.Why? if he is drinking every night,he has an alcoholic problem to solve,before is too late for his life.And you has not future at all,going out with this man.Forget it about him,and find a decent man for you;a man without drink problem,a man who will love you,badly,indeed.God already have a good man in your way,a man who will love you indeed.wait.Do not do something wrong that you will regret after.All is up to you,think good,think in your future life,not only in your present time.I have many friends,men and women,and I saw them dealing with alcoholic problems.It is very hard stuff that you even have an idea.But all is up to you.That is not the only man at the world.Good luck.

Answer 5

Come on..........you don't need to ask anyone here your question/s in regard to this......you know whats right and whats wrong, find a guy that is more like you, you don't need to get on the bad side of your parents and for sure you don't need a bad rep.

Answer 6

your attracted to a bad boy, thats normal. tell your parents the truth. they may or may not let you go. tell them you can be trusted but dont lie. he may be trying to get in your pants too. no matter what he tells you dont do it. and another thing watch out for him being drunk. drunk guys will take you even when you say no. be safe. use your gut instinct and be honest with your parents. if they tell you no, dont get mad they are doing whats best for you.

Answer 7

Check your motives...Yours! You already know his! What are you really wanting or expecting to hear out of us? You know, and everyone else knows what they want before (it) even happens...what are your motives? Go from there and always play it safe.

Answer 8

if the guy is bad then dont go out with him cuz u dont know wats gona happen if u go.or if u really like him then just lie to ur parents that ur goiing to ur friends house.or just make up something.

Answer 9

I would be scared to tell my mom, so i would hide when he comes to pick me up. (lock the doors) tell your mom/dad why your hiding. if your mom /dad isn't there, just hide and lock the doors! (block him off your cell) Later, when your mom/dad comes home, tell them that someone is haunting you. If your like in high school, you could probably get him suspended, or even worse. (He deserves it.)

Answer 10

It sounds like you have kept yourself pretty clean... you should not settle for such a person as that... wait for someone you truly have a clean conscience about.... you will be happy you did.