How do i tell my best friend that i am jealious of her other best friend.??? please help.
2006-11-25 03:18:00 · 9 answers · asked by SARAH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well even if you already spend alot of time with her. try to do things the three of you. when she does something with her best friend just talk a deep breath and say its okay she has other friends.
2006-11-25 03:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by sarah m 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats funny because im kind of going through the same thing.. see i have a best friend we and she always hangs out with this pther girl and i was jealious of her because she was always with the other girl... The only advice i can give u is to tell her how u feel. tell her u feel as if she/he likes her/he better then u she cant treat both of u different
2006-11-25 03:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by Nell 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't tell her, because why? Why would you want your best friend to feel weird and back away from you? You wouldn't, right? What I would do, if I were you, is to work on my own inner feelings. I would attempt to figure out why I'm jealous and then work to eliminate those negative feelings. How good of a friend do you see your self as being? If you don't want to hurt your best friend, then take a different approach. Jealously is a green-eyed monster, and monsters have no good reason to live.
2006-11-25 03:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by volkgal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There cannot be more than one best friend, either its you or the other. so why not all be just friends and be grateful you have each other. You will make many friends during your lifetime, who seems like a best friend now may be second or third best in five years time. Who was your best friend three years ago?. Just love ALL your friends for better or worse.
2006-11-25 03:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, c'mon, how juvenile is that? Get over it.
If you must, then ask your best friend to spend more time with you or to do more things with just you and not including that other person but be prepared for your friend to say "no." I know I'd consider it childish if one of my friends announced he or she was "jealous" of another friend.
2006-11-25 03:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dress like her other best friend. Even if you are a guy.
2006-11-25 03:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are jealous of particular situations, maybe you can say..."It really bothers me when you do such and such with her."...or "I'd love to do such and such with you too." Good luck.
2006-11-25 03:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
refrase ur question
2006-11-25 03:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by savvy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her omg.
2006-11-25 03:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋