ok, i totttallly digg my best friend of 10 years & iv always liked him but we just never go the chance to kik it. Im in a relationship & so is he n he seems a lil serious about his galfriend although he flirts with other chix. He tels me almost al his secrets. His galfriend is a virgin & so he doesnt get any, im also a virgin so... yeah, i seriously digg this guy. i told one of my friends about it & she says because i cant tell him how i feel, i should kiss him.if he kisses back, it means he feels me. Thing is, he was my first kiss...5years ago when we were 12.it was the 1st & last time i kissed him. Iend up crying over him cos we are so close but yet so far. I always seem to get over my feelings for him, until people start commenting on how we are meant for each other. I know he feels me too... deep downn inside i know he feels me but im just not sure.what is a sista to do? Ladiez, wat would you do & Fellaz, wat would you want your bestfriend to do n how wud you like her to approach u
2006-11-25 03:13:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell em how u feel about em and then it'll be easier....i hope u 2 end up together.....
2006-11-25 03:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by CosmicLove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn girl, what a mess!!!!
I guess the first thing you should do is not kiss him...plz do not do that. You should talk to him first for sure. Talking will not violate him in anyway and disrespect either relationship. I mean for real what have you got to lose by just talking to him about how you feel? The worst he's gonna say is no I like our friendship.But you kiss him and it may make him go away and mad.
The other thing that is worth pointing out is you said you always get over your feelings? What if you are just living on the edge a little and he is a fantasy that you have in your mind and if you acutally come out with it you ruin it? It's the you want him when he's not available thing.
I would wait and ask him how serious he is about her then talk seriously judged by what he says go with the flow. I mean don't plan to kiss him but if it happens...oh well it happens.Good Luck!
2006-11-25 11:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are best friends then it is automatic that both of you have feeling for each other. thats why men don't want their g.friend having guy friends. i'll tell you the truth, if you really want to be with this cat, wait untill you both are single, or at least untill he is free. your relationship will never last if it starts off with too much drama in it. Don't ever pay to much attention to people who live for drama. i know drama takes away bordem, if you want love you got to take as much drama out of the begining as you can. good luck kid.
2006-11-25 11:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by TYRONE S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR 10 YEARS WHY CHANGE IT. BECAUSE IF IT DOSENT WORK OUT THEN THAT FRIENDSHIP WILL BE OVER. I KNOW HOW YOU FELL MY BF IS A GUY AND WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR 21 YEARS. YA THE FEELINGS ARE THER BUT I RATHER JUST KEEP IT THE WAY IT IS.
2006-11-25 11:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by cherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! Just talk to him and let him know how you feel. If he feels the same, he'll let you know and then you go from there. If he doesn't (awkward moment), you'll at least know and you'll be able to get on with you own life.
2006-11-25 11:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by The Meksikan Couple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you like him
2006-11-25 11:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by hurshey l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋