Ok so yeah i might be a bit young but i supose it could be called "Puppy love" because i am only 13. Well anyway, my x boyfriend and I were going out for about four months, then about a day after we "properly" kissed, he started to b!tchin about me, saying i was a rubbish kisser and also he called me a fridge, he is 13 aswell but even though most girls dont find him atractive, he belives that he is "gods gift" , if you get what im getting at? well any way before we were going out he started to text me and asked me out also he said he wouldnt dump me because he "Loved" me. We dont go to the same secondary schools and we are both in year eight (English system of schooling) I dont want to go back out with him but i sort of want him to "love" me again so then if he did ask me out, i could hurt him back and say that i dont want to go out with him because he bitched about me.. etc.
so is this normal or is he just driving me crazy
Sorry if my spelling and/or grammer is wrong bt im dislexic
2006-11-25 03:29:17 · 9 answers · asked by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should stop focusing so much on boys and focus on your studies. You shouldn't be dating anything at your age. Get some female friends and go out as a group with them. There is enough time later in life to focus on boys.
Besides if you can't express yourself appropriately on a typed forum when you have the time to focus and form your thoughts, what makes you think for one second that you can keep up with a spur of the moment to moment relationship?
2006-11-25 03:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too young baby girl, concentrate in school thios ting of love is a whole new science and if you get ivolved now you will never graduate...wht u are experinceing is ana archaic way of male dominance, it's not what they feel its what you feel, run the show, why should it be you want him to like/love or whetevr you mean. whay not you using thos elines anyway?
He's playn withya and you gotta take control of your sle foithewsie he will run you over.
take a moment and evaluate wht is important and worth to spend time on and if this guy and 'love' is not, you may find you wnt to spen d your time doing thgs tht make you happy...and which drive you to your destiny..like studying and passing...
Goodluck girl
2006-11-25 03:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, sweety, you're way too youthful. you're able to be playing activities, doing college artwork, etc. do no longer attempt to enhance up too rapid. Boys take see you later to mature besides (usually after age 30)- it is not particularly worth a while. he's merely utilising you loopy- forget approximately him and it will in all hazard tick him off extra in the long-term :o)
2016-10-04 08:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can already hurt him by turning down his invitation. will hurt his ego whether he still loves u or not. forget about him. study well. ur still young enjoy ur life. u 'l meet different kinds of people as you grow older and learn from lessons in lyf. no need to get back. charge it to experience. do good and you'll reap goodness.
2006-11-25 03:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by heavenscent9870 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alrigtht. if he treated u tht way its not even worth it to get back at him. chances are he doesnt ''love'' u bc he wuldnt of said those things if he truely did. so hes doign this on purpse. forget abh uopt him. get a new cell number if u have to. it will b easy to forget him if u go to diff, schools
2006-11-25 03:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so many guys i want to get back at to. i feel you. i am totally for hurting him also. you need to seem like you want him back. a lot. if you still have his #, text him telling him you still like him. go out for bout month or so, then end up making out with some other guy on ur guys' date or whatever. make sure he sees it. good luck
2006-11-25 03:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by hockeyangelofdeath 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah he is just messing with you you should seriously move on girl it would be the best cause my man was like that and i went back with him and it all started over again so trust me
2006-11-25 03:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by kristi h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asks u out jus say hell no
2006-11-25 03:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzy_bubbles_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away from him, try startin something new
2006-11-25 03:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋