i need help..theres this guy that i like and by all of his little signs i think he likes me to but theres this girl he used to date and they talk like all the time but i dont feel like i have the right to say anything about her because we're not "dating" ..i really like this guy but i dont want to be wondering all the time...recently ive talked to him everynight and for long periods of time too...i just dont know...do you have ANY advice?
2006-11-25 01:25:00 · 10 answers · asked by madaboutyou55 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hate to say this but you are putting you through the emotional rollercoaster. It's possible to stop. Think about being open and honest with these two about your feelings, doubts, and fears. You'll feel better. And remember, the world won't end if this connection you feel goes away. You'll still be worthwhile and valuable as a person.
2006-11-25 01:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
until you are dating him there isn't much that you can say. It could be that they are still very good friends. I dated a guy for a very brief period and decided that we should be just friends. We talk all the time and for long periods of time and we are best friends and have been now for 18 yrs. So maybe they are just friends, if not I wouldn't like it very much either. Only time will tell. Good Luck
2006-11-25 09:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Julie J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look it appears that the guy you like probably looks at you as a friend. From your note it seems like he really likes this other female. Just move on and you will find someone who likes you for what you are and once this happens things will be really nice. Patience is something we all must develop and appreciate. If you do this and try not to get in a hurry everything will fall in place like a jigsaw puzzle.
2006-11-25 09:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how does the dude react when he's near you,and how does he react when this chic is around?
has he made a 'move'? if he hasn't then i dont think you should ask him outright about this galcoz it might give him the impression that if he hooks up with u, u're the kinda gal who wont want him to talk to other gals 4 whatever reason ok!if you feel sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo insecure about this gal,the next tyme you are alone with him tell him something like "you and 'she' are pretty close you must be very good friends that way u will read his reaction and know how he feels if that doesnt work ask him how they manage to stay pretty good friends good luck
2006-11-25 10:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by valery p 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are just talking on the phone not dating. There is a difference let him know how you feel. You need to tell him soon before he gets back with his ex. She is around for a reason.
2006-11-25 09:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
surely i will help
till now he has given u signs only not tld u frankly
dont make a whole story out of some signs!!!!!!!
u said he is dating anthr gal and thy spend lot time together it means tht ths guy likes u
othr side he also tlkd 2 u it also means he likes u
a guy liking 2 gals at the same time !!!!!
guess what????????
its a clear case of FLIRTTING!!!!
beware of tht guy and try 2 void him
fnd some another who likes u sincerly and cares for u and only u
if u fnd ths helpfl atleast say thnks!!!!
and u look BEAUTIFUL in specs!!
2006-11-25 09:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by sam_arbg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Until he gives you a reason then say nothing to him about it. Everybody wonders some even after years of marriage. Good luck.
2006-11-25 09:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has HER and then YOU as a back up plan. Chill out for awhile. Find a guy who is available, not "in between". You'll be far better off.
2006-11-25 09:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by upside down 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confront him outright about his feelings for you.
2006-11-25 09:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him how you really feel
2006-11-25 09:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by ahkiya :) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋