ok well I really like this boy named Adam. He's so cute and nice and funny but a little shy, i dont mind about that, anyway i want to ask him out but im afraid of a few things, one: what if he says no? i would get hurt so bad, two: were friends a little and if he says no im afraid we wont be friends anymore, three:were friends but i dont know much about him and he doesnt know much about me so before i askk him out should i get to know him more?
and its not like my parents care if i have a boyfriend so its ok if i ask him.....
HELP!
2006-11-25 01:24:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
alright honey!
Yea i totally think u should get to know him better-remember the best relationships usually come out oof long or close friendships so ya gt to know more about e/other-focus on the INSIDE bcuz thats where it really counts.and flirt with him ALOT....he will get the idea;) "nyway then after awhile ,month er two maby u will be able to tell what he thinks of u-if he is still having a great time with you and such then he likes u-if he is trying to back away a lil more then he probably jus wants to be friends...in which case u shouldn't ask him out-oh and thats another thing-usually-esp. in this case it's better if the guy asks the girl out just because-but i assume u both r kinda young so yea go ahead and go for it if he is shy he might b afraid to ask u out!
well anyway! i hope this helped n take care sweetie!
~Ally
2006-11-25 01:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, since you dont know that much about each other, you should deffinatley get to know him better. try flirting with him once in awhile and see how he reacts. once you get to know each other a little more, ask him out. whats the worst that could happen? if he's a nice guy but doesnt wanna go out with you he would just simply say "im sorry but i like you more as a friend" but if he's an idiot he might s ay something mean, and if he does thats not they type of guy you want anyways.
2006-11-25 01:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to ask him! But if you are apprehensive for fear of rejection (We have all been through that!!!!!) Just have lunch with him or a cup of coffee or just something small like that. Start off slow and see if there's really something there.
Me, I don't have the patience! I'd go right up and ask him out! But then again, I don't really fear rejection! I've been rejected so many times, I'm used to it! LOL
2006-11-25 01:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, like you said, he is a shy boy, that is why he has not ask you out yet. Go for it !! get to know him better and have fun.
2006-11-25 01:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dark Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with him alot and he will come to you. just wait on these things.
Happy To Help :p
PS. the guy asks the girl
2006-11-25 01:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you should try and get to know him better flirt with him and like make it show that you have feelings for him .
2006-11-25 01:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to know more about him. maybe he is not the one that u'd like... and try to be close friends if u like him then. and ask him out...
2006-11-25 01:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by . : [ s a k u r a ] : . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should let him know how you feel. Be proactive!
2006-11-25 01:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-25 01:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋