Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

its a beach wedding

2006-11-24 16:54:50 · 5 answers · asked by skippy14 1 in Weddings

do shy girls try to avoid speaking to the person they like?
do they talk mostly to his friends instead of him?

2006-11-24 16:52:42 · 16 answers · asked by dude 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 32 and I have children. I've known him for 12 years and he's a great guy, except for this shocking info.

2006-11-24 16:52:33 · 22 answers · asked by who who 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you've been pretending for years that you have feelings for someone but really don't? How do you break such devastating news to that person? Or, maybe it's best to just go on living the lie you've been living and not create a firestorm among your family and hers.

2006-11-24 16:52:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My gf has a dude friend that is also an ex of hers.I am totally convinced he still wants her but I have to keep my mouth shut or I lose her. What can I do? I am going insane.

2006-11-24 16:51:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plz answer wisely....i really need help with this question
Thanx
****I really want the people who have experienced this to answer the most but if you havnt but you know,plz answer*********

2006-11-24 16:51:23 · 5 answers · asked by detroit_lady313 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this boy i really like... and i think he likes me too.
BUT hes a virgin and has never really had a girlfriend (i always fall for the little cute ones) And i am not a virgin.. (me and my ex were together for 2 years) and i dont want to lie to him but i dont want to tell him either because he looks as me as a good girl. Im kinda scared it would ruin everything. someone HELP PLZ??

2006-11-24 16:51:00 · 6 answers · asked by MISSY 1 in Singles & Dating

Law abiding citizen,pays bills, has his Own place,car, career oriented,treats U with respect, and class,takes U out on dates frequently,but drinks everyday in moderation, (not to get drunk), and smokes pot(like take a hit here and there discreetly), would U date or marry this kind of guy? even if he was attractive,but has these attributes?

2006-11-24 16:50:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK...me and my bf have been on and off for years. I recently broke up with him for hanging out with other girls too much. Now, I don't mind it, but he NEVER hangs out with any guys or me for that matter! and the girls are like his only friends. I hate it! Then I asked him back, more like BEGGED, and told him how insensitive I was and told him how I felt. Now, in doing this I suspected he would pay more attention to me and less to the other girls. Someone told me he told one of the girls he loved her (Joking or not?) and on his myspace he put all of them as his friends I'm not on there once. Now I want to get him to break up with me. After begging him back, if I broke up with him now we may not stay friends, which we have always done in the past. How do I get him to break up with me? Please don't think I'm shallow. I've put up with this for a long time now.

2006-11-24 16:50:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend says that I neglect her but she never invites me to her many parties that she claim are not parties. What should I do? I think this issue stop. I am heartbroken at the moment. Please help.

This is what she said to me on the computer eariler......
Remember that paper you signed b4 I taught you to read.... Well it basically said: I get 3/4, the dog, the house and the 2 places on Virtue Valley..... you can keep Dee.... And my damn insurance money goes to my sisters!!!.....( Wasnt very nice was it?)

2006-11-24 16:50:22 · 5 answers · asked by JML 3 in Friends

I'll keep this as short as possible: We meet, hit it off real big. Things go great for a few months. She starts to go distant. Hot and cold for a while. We talk. She says she is always like this. OK, I have heard the, "It's not you, it's me" thing, you know what I assume. But things stay hot and cold. We start getting closer, she starts to push away. Up and down, like a yo yo. I start to push a little, figured it's only a matter of time that the "truth" comes out. We keep talking, she keeps saying the same thing though. I let up some, but the back and forth drives me nuts, just totally plays on every insecurity I ever had, and I back off some, push some. WTF? Finally occurs to me that she really meant what she said, something big and bad in her past. But now I've pushed her further away (not gone, but on a "break"). If I explained this to you, what would you say? I mean, what should I have thought? I have to look out for me, and who hasn't heard that line before?

2006-11-24 16:50:06 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I need help to find something under $100 for my girlfriend, she likes silver and I want to get her something exsquiset for Christmas.

2006-11-24 16:50:00 · 4 answers · asked by the_ninja_master8 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 and he is 25 we have been together 2 years. We have been living together for almost 1 year now. When I ask him about marriage he says I'm not interested in getting married for years. Which is ok with me because I don't mind waiting at least a year or two, but I don't know if it's me he wants to marry in a few years. He always beats around the bush and jokes about it when I bring up the conversation. So then I told him.."I want to get married and you don't so you are wasting my time, I think we should break up" And I ask him do you think we should break up or stay together and he says " I think we should stay together" But everyone is telling me that by 2 years of being together he would know if he wants to marry me or not. I don't want to waste my young years on him if we are not going to get married. Why doesn't he tell me straight out yes or no? By 2 years does a guy know for sure?

2006-11-24 16:49:13 · 13 answers · asked by ohyeah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i met a girl. hang out for few days. good time one night( no sex). she calls next day "i have boy friend". we should not meet again. we cont to communicate on phone . meet again in coffee shop. called her back but no responce. not sure why she is so weird

2006-11-24 16:48:36 · 23 answers · asked by coolboy5 1 in Singles & Dating

The truth is I try & raise my kids to take responsibilities for their actions because the day they turn 18 a judge will not take excuses. When my daughter was 4 she told what people consider a "fib", which I said was a lie. I pointed out to her that if she told a lie than she's a liar end of discussion. If my son says he is going to be home at 10 & he comes homes at 10:01 than he's late. Maybe the reason I feel so striong is because I was married to a drunk good for nothing liar. (I do not speak of him that way in front of my kids) but he is now 41 & his mommy who he is living with can see no wrong in her son. I want my kids to be happy kids but 2 are teenagers & I will not be as foolish as my mother was when I was a teen. I will allow them to cut class as long as I know before hand but I'm strict in other ways. Parents of teens or anyone else I'd like your opinion

2006-11-24 16:48:27 · 20 answers · asked by gitsliveon24 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My kids suffer b/c thier fathers pay no child support or bother to call or keep them. I will do whatever I have to do to get them to pay no matter how sneaky, bad, or evil it may seem. What are some suggestions? I am a desperate mom .

2006-11-24 16:47:37 · 6 answers · asked by nene 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-24 16:47:37 · 9 answers · asked by alexdndra e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-24 16:47:17 · 17 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Family

My girlfriend of 1 year plus cheated me before. When we are together for the first few months, she was having a relationship with her brother in law for 3 years, even sex! Though it have past long ago, i still cannot get rid of that anger with her bro in law, as she said she was forced to. Please see this as a cry for help, as my emotion gonna die off soon....Cannot take this any longer....

2006-11-24 16:46:03 · 13 answers · asked by Roy . C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok...same old same...is he into me or not? He calls every day...sends SMS all day...tells me I am beautiful and that I am his No.1 priority and wants to see more of me...how much he likes me...blah blah blah...and it goes on and on BUT tells me he doesn't want a relationship...is that warning bells ringing or not? We have both just come out of nasty long term relationships so..maybe thats it? We both have separate lives and I guess right now that works...and..you guessed it...we have been 'intimate' ...ok ok...we have had sex...and lots of it!! Lets be adults about it and be honest...He isn't seeing anybody else because he has told me he only wants me. And I know there is nobody else because..well..I just know. So...I really like him and the 'arrangement' kind of suits me too. But..all I want to know is..IS HE INTO ME OR NOT????? I am just finding it hard to stay 'cool and casual' when I am really getting attached to this guy and want him in my life....HELP!!!

2006-11-24 16:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by babyblues_752001 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, there's this guy i really like and he likes me alot, too. When we talk on AIM he always says he loves me and that im beautiful and nice and perfect. We talk on the phone, too and we see eachother at school alot. It's weird though because i don't know how to be like that around him - meaning lovey dovey and what not . he hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend yet because he says he waiting for the right moment to ask me. all this ( us telling saying that we like eachother) has happened over the span of one weekend and im not sure if itll be awkward at school or not. how can u make it less awkward? im soo bad at this. ADVICE PLEASE..and please be reasonable and nice in your answers dont be an a*shole..ok thanks :]

2006-11-24 16:45:39 · 2 answers · asked by Steph 4 in Singles & Dating

A guy who contacted me via Match.com and used to be friends with my brother is confusing me.
Right now I am traveling for work overseas and can't meet him until January.
So we've just been talking and sometimes iming back and forth for the last couple of months.
He seems smart, funny, down to earth.
Whats bugging me though is that for the last month or so he keeps putting his match.com profile on "hidden"
And when he does "unhide" it he has now taken down his picture.
This means he can log on and look at ads but no one can see his at all.
Also he has changed his profile from looking for girls in DC to looking for girls in Philly.
All my friends tell me this means he really has a girlfriend (I know he's not married)
Does this sound sneaky to you ? Or could it mean something else ?
He likes to tell me how busy he is all the time and overwhelmed with work.
Should I think the best or worst ? Also the one time I mentioned it to him he said he coudlnt talk.

Argh.

2006-11-24 16:45:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the sake of conversation We'll call my Sister in Law, Lefty. Now, Lefty is SO seemingly democrat, and im FAR right wing conservitive. She's a tree huggin' environmentalist who believes in over-analizing everything. She practices Yoga and loves to salsa dance. She admits to being selfish and will take a whole role of pictures of her fat *** face and think shes beautiful. She will call my wife and talk for an hour about herself then get off the phone without asking about how shes doing! Every week shes in love with a new guy who happens to NEVER have a normal name or be white like she is for that matter and she has a MASTER DEGREE IN OPERA!!!! OPERA i say!!!!!! She even added an "H" to the end of her name just because it sounds pretty, yet she doesnt pronounce her name with the "H" as i believe the "H" is silent when its at the end! Her and I dont get along and we both know it, but i can see that shes going to be around for a LONG time and this is getting old real quick, Now wh

2006-11-24 16:44:35 · 6 answers · asked by Ive Had Enough! 1 in Family

last weekend i broke up with my girlfriend and 3 days later i got with her good friend. she hated me but we sorted through it all. most of her friends hated me for it. now my new girl says she doesnt have feelings for me anymore but i know she does and it hurts me so much when she says she doesnt. how can i fix this up?

2006-11-24 16:44:23 · 4 answers · asked by big matt 1 in Singles & Dating

This question is for my friend whose husband left her for his assistant. A woman who knew from day one he was married and whose husband dumped her and got custody of the kids. She also slept with another married coworker
but his wife threatened her which my friend would never do. They have 5 children and a fairly good marriage until Ms. Homewrecker came on like a cat in heat and her very naive simple husband didn't stand a chance.
BTW, we know the best revenge is living well which
she plans to do next month. This month she wants to
kick ***.

2006-11-24 16:43:43 · 13 answers · asked by Raven 5 in Marriage & Divorce

someone who's not sure about their faith?

2006-11-24 16:42:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there any nice, funny, sexy, romantic, girls between the ages of 16 and 18 near the Paden City, WV area email me back please.

2006-11-24 16:42:16 · 5 answers · asked by gtagametap26159 1 in Singles & Dating

he is just a friend but i like him and i think he likes me as well

do you think he is too old for me ?

i'll 18 in about 8 months

2006-11-24 16:42:15 · 17 answers · asked by czrl 2 in Singles & Dating

see my 360 profile.

2006-11-24 16:42:10 · 5 answers · asked by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 22 year old Iraqi lady, I met a man who I care for greatly.....He is 40.
He's also in the military, he told me that in january 2007, he will be going to the middle east....
We haven't known each other for very long, but we both really have strong feelings for each other,
he says that he loves me, and recently he's been talking about marriage, making little hints about us getting married.
I'm almost certain that he's going to propose before he heads off to afghanistan.

I'm not sure what to do, my mind tells me what im doing is wrong...There's too many differences in our cultures,
and in our beliefs, but at the same time my heart is saying that i love this man.

He's assured me that he doesn't care about differences, he just wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

Everyone around thinks im crazy. Is it wrong for us to be together? Will it be too difficult? If he going to get grief from people in the military because im an Iraqi? (but born in the states)

2006-11-24 16:42:04 · 16 answers · asked by tania 1 in Marriage & Divorce