OK...me and my bf have been on and off for years. I recently broke up with him for hanging out with other girls too much. Now, I don't mind it, but he NEVER hangs out with any guys or me for that matter! and the girls are like his only friends. I hate it! Then I asked him back, more like BEGGED, and told him how insensitive I was and told him how I felt. Now, in doing this I suspected he would pay more attention to me and less to the other girls. Someone told me he told one of the girls he loved her (Joking or not?) and on his myspace he put all of them as his friends I'm not on there once. Now I want to get him to break up with me. After begging him back, if I broke up with him now we may not stay friends, which we have always done in the past. How do I get him to break up with me? Please don't think I'm shallow. I've put up with this for a long time now.
2006-11-24 16:50:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just put up with this man, u know u love him. Be sweeter than sugar, always. Things will work out.
2006-11-24 17:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by bigslick60 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't get why you feel the need to stay friends with him. Why not break it off with him for good? It seems that you want to stay friends in case you change your mind again. It would be best if you don't see him at all so you can start over. Take a break and figure yourself out before jumping into a new relationship. Better yet, casually date for awhile so you don't have to worry about all the relationship drama.
2006-11-25 01:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... have you ever seen the movie "How to lose a guy in 10 days" ?
well wether you haven't or have. it's a great movie.
If he's a jelous type of guy, try to make him jelous. On a random day when you know he's going to see you wear something nice, something someone will definitely spot out and look.
Start hanging out with other guys yourself and don't pay attention to him.
Start complaining about subjects you know he loves.
Know where he is going and what he's always up to. And if you know he'll be going to a public place, just show up with a bunch of friends; preferably guys. Show him whose boss. He'll eventually get tired of his own tricks that you're pulling on him. Hope this helped.
2006-11-25 01:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by Iselin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAybe you should really make up your mind before you do anything else. If you have no trust in the person, there is no relationship anyway. By begging him back, he might have felt bad and came back to you, but I wouldn't want to be with someone cause they were guilt tripped into it. Your shorting yourself of meeting other people when you are stuck on one person. Good luck!!!
2006-11-25 00:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by meloni t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST THING GIRLFRIEIND THE MISTAKE THAT YOU MADE
WAS TO GO BACK WITH HIM AFTER YOU HAD BROKEN UP
ESPICALLY SINCE THE REASON THAT YOU BROKE UP
WAS THE OTHER GIRLS IN HIS LIFE.. BUT SINCE YOU WENT
THERE, YOU MAY HAVE LAY IN THE BED THAT YOU MADE.
IF YOU REALLY WANT OUT THEN TELL HIM UP FRONT THAT'
YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THE WOMEN. BUT SOMETIME
YOU JUST NEED TO LET IT GO AND MOVE ON.
2006-11-25 00:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just Jealous!! Sucks for you!
2006-11-25 00:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋