Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

he said that i was different from the other girls hes used to, that if it was one of them hed make them do it right off, but for me, he doesnt want to force me to do anything i didnt want to. later on he told me it was worth the wait.

2006-11-24 16:41:52 · 5 answers · asked by redrum121316 1 in Singles & Dating

So this guy is a known womanizer but says that he really thinks I could be good for him. I just think he'd like a challenge but I'm not sure. I don't know if he wants to change or not. What should I do?

2006-11-24 16:41:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My younger brother (age 16) brought home some Latino/Asian girl and told me that they were dating. My family is German-American and my family & I don't want latino/indian/black/asian in our family tree. I dont want her seeing my brother. He has blond hair and blue eyes - Thousands of years of evolution and he'd throw it away in a generation.

It's a complete embarassment to my family and me.

And I'm no redneck racist - I'm a Standford Psych undergrad (agnostic).

I will eventually break them up.

How can I break them up faster? Should I just talk to that LATINO/ASIAN girl in private and tell her to stop seeing my brother? Or should I just tell my brother why dating her is a bad choice? I cant have people of different ethnicities in my family. It's too disgusting and awkward.

She should be sticking with Latino or Asian boys and my brother should be sticking with girls his own ethnicity (white central european).

What Should and Could I do? I cant have her around him.

2006-11-24 16:41:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alot of people think so..

2006-11-24 16:40:26 · 17 answers · asked by CT T 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, i was wondering what is you opnion on there not being a father in childrens lifes? I mean i grew up without hardly no contact with my dad {im 15} and so far im fine.. I think some pepole can with with it and some hate it.. Also, i poster a question a few days ago, and my friend wanted a baby, and hes only 16.. well he said that he wants a baby so that he can give a baby something he never had {a father} and his mom died like 4 or 5 years ago.. do you think that teen boys that have no father feel alot of pain and suffering because they have no father in there life?

2006-11-24 16:39:46 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

i have not done any thing big and by big i dont mean only sex ok because the bigest thing we have done is kiss and no tongue and it is the same thing every day and i want to make a move but to shy what should i do? she is shy too

2006-11-24 16:39:35 · 9 answers · asked by tom r 1 in Singles & Dating

okay..I'm still in school and but theres been a slight problem..

there's girl A,girl B and girl C...they like me and I think the three have a big crush on me...anyways,I cant ditch any of them since I like all of em' and they said that need to make a decision..I have to choose either one of em' or its over...and I was like ''what?? I have to make a choice now?'' whats up with that right?
if I choose 1 then the other 2 will go insane and that makes me a killer...I dont want to be no killer...what should I do? I like them all equally(when I say like I mean love)....if this goes on I think I'm gonna explode and wished that I've never been born...help..please and thank you...one more thing...am I okay???????????

2006-11-24 16:39:20 · 6 answers · asked by Dante-rebillion 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay i have kids from a past relationship. and i started to work at the police station while i was pregnant and this guy pretty much liked me since the start and was there for me through out my pregnancy and birth of my twins. he even told me to give them his last name, so now we have been dating since then and just last week he told me he wants to have a baby before he turns 30. i love him alot and we both live together and he loves my kids just as if they were his. but i still think its too early to get pregnant again, but i really love him alot and want to give him a child...its just that i am so confused. so help

2006-11-24 16:38:35 · 17 answers · asked by Mandy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Mia(me) and Laura(My friend) are mad at our friend Susana because she talks Sh!t behind our back!And the stuff that we like Susana thinks its stupid and thinks we shouldn't spend time doing the stuff we like to do.so were tired of it and and were gonna dump our friend in a letter.So like wat should we write to her!any ideas!

2006-11-24 16:36:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok guys wots d grl of ur dreams? looks and personality

2006-11-24 16:36:16 · 17 answers · asked by xxshoppoholicxx 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 16:35:23 · 3 answers · asked by D J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-24 16:35:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my best guy friend likes me and every body tells me that he wants to go out wit me but hes to afraid to admit it to me.the other problem is that if i go out wit him i wont know how hes cousin will feel because he likes me 2.wat should i do.?also i lke them both.

2006-11-24 16:34:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 16:33:14 · 20 answers · asked by mommy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm asian and basically my 2 best friends are white. They're great guys and we get along like brothers... we're all good looking and get a lot of girls ... But my #1 best friend has made it his JOB to sleep with a lot of girls. He's already slept with 4 different women in 1 week and is capable of pulling more.... we're both really good at getting any type of girl... but i grew up in an asian culture where i was taught to respect women. I love having a good time with women and looking for the best possible girl around... and that's why I hit on women.. but i know my friend isnt doing it for the same reasons. we're both 18 and we both ONLY date high maintenance beauties (not to sound like an asshole!) but i think he's taking our fun a little too far and using girls like tissue paper...

2006-11-24 16:33:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont think im ugly and i have a lot of frineds and im really nice
i ask people why i dont and they say im shy what should i do and i really like this boy and he talks to me but he doesnt have a clue HELP

2006-11-24 16:32:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my bf broke up a while ago and i was devestated. i basically turned to my friend that i use to crush and and started talking online and fishing for sweet things to make me feel better. i feel horrible because me and my bf got back together and i didnt tell him who i had talked to because i knew he would be furious. i feel so crumby for not being honest. i know that its important to us. do i tell him? its been months later. or do i keep it to myself? i dunno if he would even ever find out, but i still feel crumby. nothing sexual at all... just stupid mushy crap was said. i feel like such a bad person!

2006-11-24 16:32:40 · 3 answers · asked by Mary 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he is a really cute guy to have but I do not like how he does his hair.

2006-11-24 16:32:08 · 8 answers · asked by theoneandonly. :) 1 in Singles & Dating

I happen to know some people who are not able to have sex due to car accidents, or certain conditions. And I always wondered what it is like to live a life without the ability to have sex.
I am a virgin so I don't know much about sex except hearing that it is a great feeling. How important is sex in life? More importantly, how would YOU live a life if you were to live a life without the ability to have sex for the rest of your life?

2006-11-24 16:30:25 · 10 answers · asked by nicesinging1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What should I do?
I went to go and see Phantom of the Opera live in the city and I saw a guy there. He was with his family, so we didn't talk, but we kept looking and smiling at each other. I don't know what his name is, but I want to find him or at least see him again. My friend told me that he was reminded of the song 'You're Beautiful' by James Blunt when I told him my story and said that I probably would never see this guy ever again. After all I don't even live in the city where the show was, but the town right next to it. What should I do? Give up, or wait and see?

2006-11-24 16:30:17 · 7 answers · asked by Iris 2 in Singles & Dating

ok.... here is my situation............ i have a boyfriend of almost 3 months. everytime i am close to him and he puts his arm around me, i dont feel all fuzzy inside like people say your supposed to. it actually is uncomfortable for me because i consider him as more of a friend than a boyfriend. also, whenever we talk over IM or the phone, i will ask him how his day was, and he will never ask me. one time he actually asked me why i wanted to know how he was doing. we never go out on dates, and hardly kiss. so, should i break up with him and stay friends, or give him a chance? he really likes me, but i dont feel the same way towards him. PLEASE HELP ME!

2006-11-24 16:30:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you be mad?
I saw in my husbands phone a text message from 2 weeks ago saying: You and your boy cant say hi? Lisa." He had her # under the letter L. He said it was his friends ex. I called her and she sounded very honest and nice. Would you be mad if you saw that? I was (not anymore cause i stopped and realized i trust him) and he thinks i was over reacting. He said the reason y he had it in his phone is cause his friend (who i know used to date her) used to call from her phone sometimes.

2006-11-24 16:29:38 · 15 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im a 42 yr old, tried internet dating ok, a woman 24 who lived 100 miles away started contacting me, we swapped tel nos and started talking, she said all the rite things the works ok, anyway we were gona meet but my sis took really ill she was on life support for a month then we lost her, so after funeral we arranged to meet up, but her phone was off when got in touch with her she said she forgot, she does do all hours, anyway arranged 4 me to go meet her 2wks time. all the while we talked constantly, the day was supposed to go down her phone was off again, next day she said her brother been in accident, and she was 400 miles away. we still talked and texted but she went slowed it all down which i understood,, then got seriouse again but only got in touch when she felt like it cos she either replied days later or not at all, i eventually asked her if her feelings had changed or anything else, to which she said, no, she cant seem to arrange a meet ever, whats going on u think

2006-11-24 16:29:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend got upset because i asked her to grab me another beer and shot of jack while I was driving to thanksgiving dinner. I was just trying to play catch up due to her family are raging alcoholic, I just want to fit in and be part of the family.

She I send my girlfriend packing for not being part of the family?

2006-11-24 16:28:33 · 5 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3 in Singles & Dating

I just don't understand why most people take the sanctity of marriage so lightly, rushing to bail-out when the "IDEAL" expectations are not being met....how about our morale and values?.... does it matter anymore????

Is that how it is now?.. ME ME ME... doesn't care about whose lives are being affected?...as long as we're happy... who cares?.........very sad.

...and we wonder why today's kids are so messed-up.... hmmm

2006-11-24 16:27:48 · 8 answers · asked by Morena 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am extremely hairy all over my body except the back (where the hair is fine). I have BDD with this problem, especially the hairy butt and hairy eyebrows, ears, stomach etc...I have had electrolysis between the eyebrows and ears, which has helped. However, it is too slow. Laser is expensive and usually not permanent, I have given up on removing my body hair.

I hate looking at my body in certain lighting as the body hair looks gross. In certain lighting, it looks okay.

Do women mind having sex (especially oral, which I have never experienced) with a hairy guy? Is it okay if I prefer it in the dark as I don't have to see my body than and can feel more confident? Also, my hairy crotch area often smells a bit if there is sweat there. I have heard that this scent actually attracts females, but I find it smelly. What do the ladies think?

Thanks and sorry for the digusting nature of the topic!

2006-11-24 16:27:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there anything I could do to try to get back with girls and stop being so emotional? It's hurting everybody around me.

2006-11-24 16:27:00 · 24 answers · asked by Starstruck in LovE 2 in Singles & Dating

Do women still appreciate them these days?Most of the women i've met have swooned over this type of behavior.Sure they say chivalry is dead,but i still find that the majority of women still appreciate when a man shows respect.

2006-11-24 16:26:50 · 9 answers · asked by R.t. s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 16:26:42 · 7 answers · asked by Joe - 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is that true?

2006-11-24 16:26:26 · 16 answers · asked by James A 2 in Singles & Dating