im a 42 yr old, tried internet dating ok, a woman 24 who lived 100 miles away started contacting me, we swapped tel nos and started talking, she said all the rite things the works ok, anyway we were gona meet but my sis took really ill she was on life support for a month then we lost her, so after funeral we arranged to meet up, but her phone was off when got in touch with her she said she forgot, she does do all hours, anyway arranged 4 me to go meet her 2wks time. all the while we talked constantly, the day was supposed to go down her phone was off again, next day she said her brother been in accident, and she was 400 miles away. we still talked and texted but she went slowed it all down which i understood,, then got seriouse again but only got in touch when she felt like it cos she either replied days later or not at all, i eventually asked her if her feelings had changed or anything else, to which she said, no, she cant seem to arrange a meet ever, whats going on u think
2006-11-24 16:29:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I THINK THIS YOUNG LADY IS PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU
I UNDERSTAND THAT BOTH 0F YOU HAVE THINGS GOING
ON IN YOUR LIFE.BUT TI SOUND LIKE SHE NOT REALLY
THE ONE FOR YOU. ALSO THE FACT THAT SHE 24 ,MAY
HAVE SOMETHIING TO DO WITH WHAT GOING ON WITH
HER. ALSO SHE MAY HAVE SOMEONE ELSE IN THE PICTURE
AS WELL.
2006-11-24 16:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the dangerous thing about internet, anyone can pretend to be anything......regardless of who they hurt.
If talks more than "walks" - big message there - either gets scared of meeting you out of concern about reality in her or you
OR has not been honest during this entire time.
I say - erase this person from your phone number listing and email addresses and move on!
2006-11-25 00:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Marsha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just a word of warning...exact thing happened to a friend of mine, only the cute 20-odd year old college student in the pics turned out to be the neighbor girl of the woman he was talking to....who was really 38, uneducated...oh, and pregnant by another man
No, really.
2006-11-25 00:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by darlingdybbuk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this woman is probably really not interested in you. i did that to a man that i really didnt want to see when i was young.i would just leave a message with her and tell her if she is really interested that she can contact you. but if she doesnt then youll know that she wasnt really ready for you. there is a big age difference there.while you are more settled she probably isnt. find someone who wants to be with you and make it someone who is closer to your age.
2006-11-25 00:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either shes leading you on. or her life is pretty hectic. im not sure. but if YOU dont feel comfortable as much anymore. than just stop trying. and if you do feel good about it, than keep it up. maybe eventually you'll meet.
-hope that helps
2006-11-25 00:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i think that girl doesnt like you anymore, why?because everytime your planning to meet her she has alot of excuse on herpart so it seem she's not interested to see you.....why wont you find another woman that can love you till the rest of your life....
2006-11-25 00:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by HONEYBEEgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its time to cut this one free.....unless you are enjoying this drama.
You might also want to fish for someone who closer to your age...might be more upfront and mature about this....this.."relationship"?
Good Luck
2006-11-25 00:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Pam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
100 miles is alot. i think you should find someone closer to home
2006-11-25 00:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by sweetness01201 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's not interested in you.. ur too old for her, u should realize that and there is such no serious relationship in the net.
and maybe she already found someone new..
2006-11-25 00:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by labs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋