ok.... here is my situation............ i have a boyfriend of almost 3 months. everytime i am close to him and he puts his arm around me, i dont feel all fuzzy inside like people say your supposed to. it actually is uncomfortable for me because i consider him as more of a friend than a boyfriend. also, whenever we talk over IM or the phone, i will ask him how his day was, and he will never ask me. one time he actually asked me why i wanted to know how he was doing. we never go out on dates, and hardly kiss. so, should i break up with him and stay friends, or give him a chance? he really likes me, but i dont feel the same way towards him. PLEASE HELP ME!
2006-11-24 16:30:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should probably end it now since you say that he is into you...do it before he gets too attached...you dont want to break his heart. just let him know that you think it would be best if you stayed as friends...
let him know that you dont see yourself being with him in a relationship other than just as friends...he should understand.
then you should find somebody that does care about how your day was and makes u feel good....
2006-11-24 16:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you know the answer already. If you are here asking this question then you probably are not sure enough about this relationship to keep it going. Being friends is wonderful but not enough. If you break up now you may have a better chance of remaining friends. You will BOTH have the opportunity to find someone more suited to you. You are leading your boyfriend on if you are not sure and that is really not fair to him or you.
2006-11-25 00:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by D D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like he TOO into you.
Just tell him you can only think of this being a friendship, no romance.
Don't you want to feel those fuzzy things inside for someone? If so, move on.
2006-11-25 00:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him you just would like to be friends because I tell my friends that are guys that I love them over the phone! And they are usually the ones to say it first! find someone better! you deserve it. good luck
2006-11-25 00:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by that redheaded chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie; it seems to me thats all you and him are, Just friends so yeah I think you should keep him as a friend. He sounds like nobodys boyfriend.
2006-11-25 00:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by KEN DOG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont like him. dont lead him on. think about what would happen if you really did lead him on and things got too far for u to say no.
2006-11-25 00:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by brownie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing in common it seems. I'd start again w/someone else.
2006-11-25 00:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...... if you dont really like him very much!..... check out some chat/dating site's and re-place him!...
2006-11-25 00:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up, it's all you have left to do.
2006-11-25 00:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by cat coo coo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not your bf..
silly.
2006-11-25 00:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by elisioloyd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋