Should I go out with this guy?

Question

So this guy is a known womanizer but says that he really thinks I could be good for him. I just think he'd like a challenge but I'm not sure. I don't know if he wants to change or not. What should I do?

I should mention before anyone suggests it that I don't specifically want to change him. I just don't know if HE really wants me because he's sick of dating just for sex and wants something real.

No, I don't have any illusions or anything. It's just that he seems cool and I wouldn't mind hanging out. He can have anyone he wants and that's why i think maybe he could be telling the truth.. I'm not sure.

Answer 1

You might be good for him but the real question to ask yourself is will be be good for you.

Answer 2

hmm, this is interesting. i would say dating a player is definitely a waste of time. actually, i've done it plenty of times & have had fun in the process because of the fact that they were challenges and sometimes i was the challenge. he'll tell you all sorts of things to win you over, like for instance he'll change his ways for you. i wouldn't believe him if i were you. guys are so up-in-the-air sometimes. but if he's a womanizer, why not. a cheater? hell no.

Answer 3

no i dont' think he's tellilng the truth the way you want it to be but what the heck your single you like him go for it enjoy what comes along as you said you dont' have any expectations and your not into changing him so just go for it and have fun. your both adults and you know what he's about and you won't be hurt when it fizzles out. all good things must come to an end.

Answer 4

If he has a reputation for being a womanizer, why would you want to go out with him? That's just a line...to bait you....him saying he "Thinks you could be good for him." Bull shi*.. If you want to go out with him---go-----but proceed with caution and don't have any illusions about you being the woman whose going to change his ways where women are concerned.