Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

Well, I'm a 23 year old male virgin studying Psychology at Stanford - I remember learning in my Psych Class that people who aren't in (or who never had) any intimate relationships cut short their life span by about 15-20 years. Is their any way around this (besides getting a gf)? I have never been in any kind of relationship throughout my life. I want to live as long as I can while remaining a virgin and it angers me to know that I'll die earlier just because I'll be a single virgin. I know that I'll never get into or want to get into an intimate relationship but I'm sure that I will want to eventually have two children by adoption (or cloning if legalized). Can a single guy adopt children?

Is it actually true that male virgins older than 20 are looked down at? I'm an agnostic.


Anyways, any tips any of you have would be great. I just want to live as long as I can.

2006-11-24 16:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well im in love with this one girl
im 16
she was with her bf when i passed her in the hall, she saw me then jus sort of looked downward....[ i wasnt staring or anything at her ]
we're good friends (we talk more online though)
why did she do this ?

2006-11-24 16:25:51 · 4 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

what should i do i am shy but would like to take it to the next step but she is shy too plz help

2006-11-24 16:23:57 · 15 answers · asked by tom r 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok i have boy issues GUYS AND GURLS HOW DO I GET A GUY TO LIKE ME

2006-11-24 16:23:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Really, has this happened to anyone.

2006-11-24 16:23:08 · 14 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Singles & Dating

I am like so confused about guys..
What Should i do??? <3

2006-11-24 16:22:58 · 11 answers · asked by skipee723@sbcglobal.net 1 in Friends

At first I thought we'd never end up like this, because the last time I kissed her, we never talked for a long time. But things are different now last time I already had a girlfriend, now I don't. What do I do now? I've been waiting for this moment for along time now, do I let her slip through my fingers or what? I do have strong feelings for her, but I heard long distance relationships dont work, what do you think? Love it or leave it?

2006-11-24 16:22:14 · 7 answers · asked by Gilly 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't even attempt to ask him out until next week, but sadly it's all I can think about. I'm in that early stage of infatuation which qualifies as insanity. I feel silly and pathetic! Does anyone have any tips on how to get one's mind off of their object of infatuation?

I'm tempted to write a missed connection on CL just to get some relief, but I think I'd fare better trying to charm him in person (plus I have a feeling that it's more classy to do so, with a lot less pressure). Truly, I feel like I'm going to explode if I wait much longer, and I don't even know when I'd see him next week. What do you guys think I should do? Any suggestions?

2006-11-24 16:21:55 · 6 answers · asked by solaralley 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 16:21:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what am i supposed to do when i think that more than one guy has a crush on me? are there general signs that i can look for to see if it's what i think it is? Talking online sucks because i talk to just about all of them on there. please help!

2006-11-24 16:21:23 · 4 answers · asked by Lola 3 in Singles & Dating

If U had a choice of dating a tall,average,or short guy. Choose the following;(#1 tall 6'2 & up)..(#2 5'8 to 6'1,)or (#3 5'7 & shorter),but lets say they were very handom, and your ideal of there weight?,and put your height, if U dont mind....

2006-11-24 16:20:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 25 years old. i have never drink, neither planning to do it later. do women accept a man who don't drink neither will accept alcoholic at his home?

2006-11-24 16:20:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-24 16:19:14 · 25 answers · asked by whatever 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 16:19:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

are very dark skinned women musty????

2006-11-24 16:18:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's not like I'm nervous around her, but it's like I feel frantic sometimes trying to keep her attention, keep her interested. And inevitably (at least w/ past relationships) I smother them. Why do I insist on doing this? Anyone else like this or used to be and have tips? I could use them b/c I am trying to do this now w/ about the most fantastic woman I could ever imagine wanting to be with.

2006-11-24 16:18:00 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

We would like to be married as soon as possible in Montreal and we don't have alot of money which is why we're going to elope instead of having a big ceremony. Anyone know where we can get it done?

2006-11-24 16:17:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi, my friend and i are completely different but the closest friends ever. well, now i think that its time we go our seperate ways because i noticed shes being fake in alot of ways. and i dont like fake people. we went a whole month without talkin to each other and she said it was because she knew i was mad at her. if she knew i was mad she should have at least called to see how i was doing but truth is, i wasnt really mad but kinda doing my own thing and decided we need some time away from each other. she says she doesnt need to prove her friendship and that shes not gonna call me more than once to see if we're still friends.. i dunno something like that.. anyway, i will miss her but we are both gettin older and our lives change and i dont know if i should try to keep her as my friend or just move on. im tired of alot of crap shes been pulling lately. she even had her parents thinking i was a bad person even though she does things worse than i would do and sometimes hypocritical...

2006-11-24 16:17:00 · 6 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Friends

The groom is unhappy with his bride coz she finds intercourse painful & refuses to get help.

2006-11-24 16:16:32 · 4 answers · asked by Kitty 1 in Weddings

why cant a guy be friends with a girl and not have everybody thinking they go out

2006-11-24 16:16:01 · 5 answers · asked by Kris 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been with this boy for three years and he moved to delaware i have not have heard from him since last months but the thing is i still love him and i still have his number and his cousin number and his friend number what should i do MOVE ON
OR WAIT FOR HIM because i am thinkingt about moving on

2006-11-24 16:15:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 16:15:41 · 6 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are a guy and you are on a date, after opening the car door for a girl, should you walk around the front or back of the car to your seat?

2006-11-24 16:15:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Mom And Her Husband Split Up Like Two Weeks Ago And Yesterday She Had Another Guy Come Over 4 Thanksgiving Dinner.I Don't Know How I Felt About Him Coming Over.How Would You Feel?

2006-11-24 16:15:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well theres this boy...
Hes soo amazing! Hes almost perfect for me.
But im not sure if he likes me?
At times he acts like he does.. But he talks to a couple of other girls and tells them there beautiful?
im not sure what to do??

2006-11-24 16:14:40 · 10 answers · asked by MISSY 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think I am?? see add'l details.

2006-11-24 16:12:15 · 3 answers · asked by trish 1 in Singles & Dating

well im going out with a guy and he is my very first bf... cause i never really said yes to anyone since i wasnt allowed to date.

but i really liked him and so i said yes

well then i cudnt keep it from my parents so i told them becuase i wanted to do it right... no sneaking out and so that they wont lose their trust in me...

ok well theres the story

and here is my Q
how long do u have to be going out with a guy to kiss???
cause i dont want to do this too fast.
we havnt done anyting but just hug and hold hands...
and if he tries to kiss... and since he is my first bf, i wont know what to do. do i refuse it?

2006-11-24 16:12:05 · 12 answers · asked by skuxyliliex 3 in Singles & Dating

We have lived together for 14 yrs, some utilities in my name, some in his...but ALL property purchased in 14 yrs was put in his name. He attacked me because my 21 yr old daughter is dating a 36 yr old man, my WHOLE family was here for thanksgiving, he had been drinking since noon, got mad, he thinks she is wrong and we had discussed this prior to her coming or not coming. we both agreed to let her bring him and meet him. we have 4 kids between us. his oldest son was married for 1 1/2 yrs, I had to file their divorce papers on tuesday, this girl was from HELL! I told him that I had to put up with her bs and comments because HE wanted me too so he wouldnt loose his son, well, guess what, i lost both my daughters, the oldest one is 4weeks pregnant and the rest of my family, but he still says it was my fault for rubbing his son's mistake in his face. Now NONE of my family will come back here, all from their mouths, not mine. How can I get any property if I file? it's all in his nam

2006-11-24 16:11:48 · 10 answers · asked by la la 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know they like me because they told me what do i do?
(alot of girls)

2006-11-24 16:11:42 · 9 answers · asked by tresor_41_eagle 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 16:11:34 · 11 answers · asked by tom s 1 in Singles & Dating