well im going out with a guy and he is my very first bf... cause i never really said yes to anyone since i wasnt allowed to date.
but i really liked him and so i said yes
well then i cudnt keep it from my parents so i told them becuase i wanted to do it right... no sneaking out and so that they wont lose their trust in me...
ok well theres the story
and here is my Q
how long do u have to be going out with a guy to kiss???
cause i dont want to do this too fast.
we havnt done anyting but just hug and hold hands...
and if he tries to kiss... and since he is my first bf, i wont know what to do. do i refuse it?
2006-11-24 16:12:05 · 12 answers · asked by skuxyliliex 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and btw im 15
2006-11-24 16:13:40 · update #1
If he hasn't tried yet,he seems to be a respectable young guy.You will know when the time is right.If he does try too soon just let him know that you are not ready.
2006-11-24 16:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First only kiss him if you want to. And you will know when the time is right. There is no, first date, 2nd.week or anything like that. Just what ever you do, don't let him push you to a place you are not ready to go. Sounds like I nice guy to not push up on you. Just because he is your boyfriend doesn't mean anything. This is a great thing a girl has. It drives guys crazy, but we control more than they would like for us to. This is your call. If this is your first kiss, make sure it's with someone you wish to remember this with. It will be special, if you do it when your ready. And just so you know. Good Job on being such a good kid. Your parents should be very proud of you. Enjoy this time and this feeling. It's one you will remember.
2006-11-24 16:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay since your only 15, i'll help you out. I personally wouldn't do something i don't want to do. Get to know each other first, don't kiss if it does'nt feel right. Guys like to be in control but don't let him have all the power, since your new to this, you should know that you have an advantage over him since your a girl. Just back away if he tries to kiss you and don't say anything unless he ask. if he has any common sense, he would understand.
2006-11-24 16:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by ravinaznrich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kiss will happen when it happens. And you did the right thing by telling the 'rents about the boyfriend. You want to keep their trust in you.
My first serious boyfriend was when I was 15 and I think he kissed me about a month after dating. And my younger sister and friends sneaked out of the house and they started giggling when he kissed me. I was soooo furious and embarrassed. Moral- If you have younger siblings make sure they are no where near.
2006-11-24 16:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by deltazeta_mary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say 2 weeks.
With my first bf I was together for a month and we never kissed.
Then my second one was the one that kissed me and it was about 2 weeks. But then we broke up after 2 months... Lol
I kinda regret it because it didn't feel special.
If it feels like good timing then go for it.
2006-11-24 16:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by Iris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young, I know you don't want to hear that but you are. Don't rush your life. Holding hands and hugging is nice. Just remember if you start letting him kiss you, then next time, he'll want to go farther and farther. If you feel uncomfortable about this, just politely tell him, you want to take it slow since you haven't dated before. If he cares about you, he'll be fine with this and if he ever pressures you, say NO and mean it. There are too many boys out there to lose your virginity to one who will leave you afterwards. Go slow, enjoy your life, you can't get your childhood back once it's gone.
2006-11-24 16:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 10:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by haberstroh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel good about it let it ride. If you don't feel good about it than don't do it. Don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to do. Kiss him if you want to! Kissing is a great thing.
2006-11-24 16:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by born2bhappy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is a natural thing to do with your boyfriend.That is a relationship.But you are right.Know him well.Then the kiss will come naturally.All is up to you.
2006-11-24 16:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o listen. you and only you will know when it is the right time. trust me you will know. it will just feel so right and it will just happen. dont try to stop it just let it go.
2006-11-24 16:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by Sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋