Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

2006-11-24 16:11:22 · 2 answers · asked by DidoDeeDee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

alright.. I am 5'3" and 115 pounds average...... and i am constantly complaining to my bf about my appearance (I HATE the way I look) but I rather him to know that I dont like the way I look rather than making him think that I dont care about being a little plump.
Also it is not as if I am not doing anything to loose weight, i watch what I eat all the time .. and work out very hard .. when I have time.
We have had issues because of this .. and I find it very hard to let him touch/see me. I feel so embarrased ... that I even cry sometimes because of it...

On top of that .. I know that he want a fit gf... so that makes me even more terrified about how I look for him.

Do you guys hate girls like me?

2006-11-24 16:10:43 · 10 answers · asked by notsome 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 16:10:35 · 22 answers · asked by Sarah E 2 in Family

She says she hates me and that she wants me out of her life, but at the same time she gets mad when she finds out im talkin to other females......

2006-11-24 16:10:29 · 13 answers · asked by BABY 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year and now college is coming and we dont kno whats going to happen with us. He's going to a college almost 3 hours away from the college im going too, and we both dont drive,, also my parents are moving 12 hours away so during the summer we'll be even farther. we dont know if we should try a long distance relationship and maybe take a bus to visit eachother over weekends or end it.. does anyone know how we should handle this situation?

2006-11-24 16:10:28 · 3 answers · asked by fe 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anybody know of any chatrooms I could visit and chat with other bisexual females? for free without any kind of payments being asked for and how do I go about doing this i'm pretty new to working on the computer and lonely need someone to talk to.

2006-11-24 16:10:16 · 1 answers · asked by mz.bossy_daproduct 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 18 years old. I live in a hispanic family with great people and great parents. Weve recently moved from my hometown of san jose to the outskirts of riverside,ca where its dry and boring (mostly senior citizens live in this community) I've always been that man that says that one should stay with their parents untill they are ready to go. My parents are so generous to pay for my community college courses. The house is beautiful. But i just cant stand it anymore in this place. Ive been living here for almost half a year. I told myself "I'm just gonna dive into this place and see where it takes me...sure its a culture shock, but ill get used to it..ill eventually have friends" 6 months later, i still feel like i dont belong. I have been talking to my parents in a respectable way about seriously moving back home and living with my best friend while going to a much better community college. I can now pay for my own college (F-AID) but my family doesnt trust me; they are so attached to me.

2006-11-24 16:09:35 · 6 answers · asked by BenDance 1 in Family

I get very angery when my boyfriend talks to other females on here,He said he would never cheat,He dosnt talk dirty as far as I know,But hey were talking male here!!!I do not want him in yahoo chat,I need to know hot to block it? Do you think it's right to talk to females if your in a relashonship with some other girl.I think it's wrong.

2006-11-24 16:07:50 · 9 answers · asked by tankkaray 2 in Singles & Dating

My roommate and I both lost our jobs within a week of each other. Now we're behind on our rent and have recieved an eviction notice. Our landlord says if we just pay it up, we're good, everything will be fine.

I came home tonight and my roommate told me that she's moving out tomorrow. I'm beyond p*ssed. She's my best friend, and knows that I don't have anyplace for me and my 3 kids to go. She's going to her sister's. Instead of helping me get her half, she's leaving it all in my lap.

My husband told her how upset I was and she said "I didn't think it would be that big of a deal. I'll go talk to her." That was like 3 hours ago and she still hasn't said a word to me.

What would you do?

2006-11-24 16:07:40 · 5 answers · asked by sdkramer76 4 in Friends

This is a bit stupid, almost pointless, but, one night me & my father got into a big fight. I had back-talked my mother and he was in rage. He had his hand raised, so, I suppose my reaction was to run. I was near the fireplace, then, he gave me a good shove and pushed me into it, I had some of my flesh torn by the brick, and some nasty bruises.

I understand is any of you believed I deserved it for back talking. But, I was just wondering if this was wrong of him in any way?

2006-11-24 16:07:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

April i was supposed to have gotten married to my college sweet heart but he called the wedding off 4 hours before it was supposed to take place and told me he needed space and time to think. We have not spoken since that day and recently he left a message till now he has left 3 wanting to speak to me again saying he loves me still and he never meant to hurt me.I went on a cruise ship for a vacation and emotional recovery. I met an Australian instructor on the rock climbing wall and had a romance resulting in me being 4 months pregnant dads not involved.I dont now how to tell him without hurtng him and i still have feelings for him as my first everything. I think i still love him after finally talking to him over the phone .

2006-11-24 16:07:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex husband is: narcissictic, alcoholic, drug abuser, lazy (can't keep a job; worked 1 week in one month), lives with mommy, has nothing (no car), pays no child support, hate-filled, jealous of me, no stability, insecure, angry, illogical, irrational, jerk, mental unstabile, foul mouthed, prejudice, selfish (our childs feelings (9) mean nothing to him), disrespectfulness, deceitful, dishonest,
Verbally and Emotionally Abusive (still and I have not lived with him since 2000), rude, arrogant, sneaky, conniving, user, con man. I think I got everything. I do not exaggerate.

It is getting harder and harder to deal with him. Our child fears him and his temper. She represses when she is with him and stresses when she knows she has to go with him. He whipped her 2 weeks ago for crying because she wanted to come home.

Its a horrible situation. I cannot continue to cry. I don't know what to do.

What shall I do?

2006-11-24 16:06:02 · 18 answers · asked by Titanic112406 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i new i was adopted when i was 8 but i want to look for my family but i dont know how or where to start. and my adopted mom does not love me or talk to me or what me to be her daughter.

2006-11-24 16:05:01 · 23 answers · asked by Amiee K 1 in Family

I hav a bf, we went out for 6 mos & then he wantd to take a break -we were disagreeing a lot, I felt like he didnt care bout me & he said I didn't share my feelings, talk enuf & I was no fun to be with.- we broke up but got back 2gether about 3 wks l8r. we've now been going out for about a month. When he askd me back out he said he was wrong & stupid & he missed me so much & livin w/out me didn't even count as living. I, of course, melte. Lately tho he's been distant, moody & hardly speaks to me when I call. Evn when he calls me hes like that. A few days ago a girl he & I kno.& goes to school w/ him askd me if we were goin back out, cuz she heard sumthin like that, but no one was supposed 2 kno. That kinda bothrd me. Then she told me about a girl he askd out after he & I broke up. When she said no, he came bak 2 me. 2day my friend found out about, and told me that my bf told anothr grl at his school that he likd her. The other nite I tried to talk to him bout it &
he jus brushd me off

2006-11-24 16:03:52 · 13 answers · asked by DIRI-83 3 in Singles & Dating

i am very serious for that specal one, first time n nmy liofe this happenedf to me my situation is very critical,

2006-11-24 16:03:13 · 4 answers · asked by yankee303 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't have much friends... and i don't want much involved with alcohol, some but i don't want to get ridiculasly drunk... not fun. -- just something that i might enjoy... and remember... any suggestions

2006-11-24 16:02:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-24 16:02:23 · 15 answers · asked by Lonez 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy I've know for about a year now. He has to bring work over to my department everyday. He's always been hot and cold with me. He's flirted with me before but he's a flirty guy. If I ever tried to flirt back he'd act really odd and backoff. But the one day he just got to the point of being a semi friend and treated me like he would other girls. Not really flirty just really nice. But I really started to avoid him because I really had a big crush on him and obviously the feelings weren't returned. I was still nice but just tried not to look his way and stuff like that. One day recently he saw me and he gave me this really odd eyebrow raised looked. And then another day I past him in the hall and he just looked straight at me with this grouchy look and didn't say hello. I said hi and then he said hey. The next day when he came over to drop off papers at my desk. I said are you ok you seemed upset yesterday. Either he didn't hear me or he just ignored me and walked awa

2006-11-24 16:00:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I Broke Up With My Boyfriend And The Same Day He Started Going With This Other Girl And They Had Sex.And Now He Wants To Get Back With Me.I Still Like Him But I Won't Feel The Same Knowing That He Was With That Other Girl.Should I Get Back With Him?

2006-11-24 15:59:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this boy name bruce asked me out.....................i said no but i thought about it and now i do but i dont no if he still likes me or not and what do i do now i so screwed.i need your help.

2006-11-24 15:59:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 15:58:56 · 5 answers · asked by GIGGLEZ 1 in Singles & Dating

say that ur in love with ur boyfriend and this past thanksgiving u two went to a family function together, the first thing is that u find out by ur anoying gossiping great aunt that u and him are related. however you are like 7th or 8th cousins. what would you do about it or how would u react if it was u or a friends situation?

2006-11-24 15:58:55 · 10 answers · asked by ERICA J 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

can anyone there tell me what should i do?please!!! i do really need your advice towards this situation...i'm confuse and hope he will accept me the way i am!

2006-11-24 15:58:23 · 9 answers · asked by ako 1 in Singles & Dating

Or "Pick up artists", "Mystery Method", etc? Basically it's a widespread community of guys whose common goal is getting as many attractive women into bed as possible, using various seduction techniques. They discuss strategies with each other at places like mysterymethod.com and alt.seduction.fast (http://groups.google.com/group/alt.seduction.fast).

They break all relationships into stages like "Attraction, Comfort and Seduction" and their only goal is to have sex with the woman. Initially they may be indirect about it (they call it the A1/A2 stage) and make their motive hidden, a part of the strategy. They tell you things like "Nice nails, are they real? No? Well they're nice anyway", which is called a "Neg" or showing active disinterest. Etc etc.

You can read more about them in the book "The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists" by Neil Strauss. Also read: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_community

Just something interesting to share.

2006-11-24 15:58:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 15:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm going to be entertaining someone who is very important to me and I have no idea where to begin...help...
I want it to be something he will never forget......

2006-11-24 15:56:22 · 9 answers · asked by no question...Ted Williams 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy at school likes me and we've always been just friends. But I just started liking him and know he knows. Everyone says he's gonna ask me out, but he hasn't yet! And he won't even talk to me! It's like he stopped liking me or something! What's wrong! Is he shy? Why won't he ask me out!??! I need answers, I'm soo confused!

2006-11-24 15:56:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had 2 wives now and both of them didn't know the meaning of " till death do us part", to them it was until I get a better offer. Am I destined to die alone? If thats the case I'd as soon go today! Lifes no fun this way!

2006-11-24 15:55:31 · 11 answers · asked by WJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we dated for a year it was a healthy relationship no major fights just small arguments.r relationship was under a microscope of adults such as r parents and a group of r parents friends who all no eachother they picked at r relationship becuz we r soo young and they have nothing better to do with there lives.we are 16 and 17 which some say is too young so plez dont tell me that.he called me one night i asked of we were ok and he said no and that we should break up before either one of us gets hurt more than we r now.he had said he loved me 4 hours b4 that and when i asked him if he loved me he told me that he didnt know wat the hell does that mean. i say so we r letting the adults win why are we giving in to them and he said yes we r letting thim win.my family thinks his mum pushed him a lil to far with school and work and his mum admits this.so wat im asking is wat do u all think is really goin on how do u love sm1 them dont and he still has a pic of me and him where he sees it daily

2006-11-24 15:54:14 · 7 answers · asked by inlove0305 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going to a friends wedding and Im not sure how much $ to give. Not sure what you should take into consideration, but here are the details:

1. its a friday night wedding (gotta leave work early)
2. its at a country club
3. im not really close with this person anymore. We e-mail every few months, but that is the extent of our friendship.

Can someone please tell how much to give them?

2006-11-24 15:51:35 · 20 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Weddings