alright.. I am 5'3" and 115 pounds average...... and i am constantly complaining to my bf about my appearance (I HATE the way I look) but I rather him to know that I dont like the way I look rather than making him think that I dont care about being a little plump.
Also it is not as if I am not doing anything to loose weight, i watch what I eat all the time .. and work out very hard .. when I have time.
We have had issues because of this .. and I find it very hard to let him touch/see me. I feel so embarrased ... that I even cry sometimes because of it...
On top of that .. I know that he want a fit gf... so that makes me even more terrified about how I look for him.
Do you guys hate girls like me?
2006-11-24 16:10:43 · 10 answers · asked by notsome 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey ... i know im not fat .. thats why I said plump .... i have a "midsection" problem... yeah i mostly have belly fat and its gross... that its what bothers me
2006-11-24 16:24:52 · update #1
First of all, 115lbs and 5'3" is NOT FAT!
You are a relatively slim girl!
Second, no guy wants to hear his woman constantly talking about how unattractive she is. We know that you women are insecure, and think you're fat and ugly cause that's what the fashion magazines say, but no guy wants to hear that!
We think you're pretty (we wouldn't be dating you if we didn't) and, honestly, most straight men LIKE a woman who's soft, plump and curvy (only women and homosexual men think skinny women are attractive!! That's why the fashion magainzes show those ugly stick figure chicks!)
So, save your "I think I'm fat" insecurity for your girlfriends - your man does NOT want to hear it! and it could drive him away from you (and I know you don't want that)
2006-11-24 16:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I like females that exercise. U r 115 ibs at 5'3" how r u fat? U r goin have to learn to love u so he can love u too. U r doin great to workout but u have to get a regular schedule to get the results. I have a similar problem. I used to be the fatboy of class but now Im 5'8" 158 ibs. I workout six days a week and I work out HARD. I feel that I should b in bedda shape, I should b stronger, and fell bedda about myself but people tell me I look nice. I think we both goin be ayight.
2006-11-24 16:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can't care for you as who you are then he's a douche anyway and he's probably on the hunt for a 'perfect specimen'. don't you think? he won't see/touch you? that's just low!
really. you sound wonderful. i love the 'plump' it's where the body should be at, especially if you work out too! please don't say you hate how you look. you're working to change, but hey, you don't even need to. don't let some magazine girl obsessed guy tell you otherwise.
be yourself. don't let this guy get to your head. make him be your ***** cause you're worth more than the way he sees you.
2006-11-24 16:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he thought your WHOLE package was okay or never would have pursued having a relationship with you.
Girls today are so hard on themselves about wanting to be perfect.
There is more to a person than the physical.
There is personality, how you treat him and others, talent, physique, hair, eyes, etc
Stop telling him about your flaws and show him why you are worth hanging on to - and no this does not have to include sex.
You must learn to value your relationship for what it is - not what you think you need to be!
2006-11-24 16:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for sympathy? You want the guys to say you aren't fat, I'd take you or what? Your height and weight, you can't be fat, get over it. If he doesn't like you, dump him. Is he perfect? I doubt it. Girls like you end up being anorexic, you are too stuck on looks.
2006-11-24 16:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you recognize i admire you, yet as quickly as I went to flow to my kinfolk in Texas I slept with my ex and extra effective than a pair circumstances. yet i admire you and additionally you like me so we are in a position to artwork it out and don't proceed to exist my human mistake. My final words have been " could Jehovah forgive me, in case you don't get out my face i'll kill you." happy to assert we are no longer at the same time....... LOSER
2016-10-17 12:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeap...it's annoying! I dated a guy once that liked smaller girls but since I was confident with my body it didn't bother him that I was a heaftier gal, he actually got to like it. But complaining about your weight is a turn off... they feel you are just fishing for compliments & if they want to compliment you then they will but they will do it on their own and not because they are provoked
2006-11-24 16:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by rayne 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They shouldnt cause one day they are gonna get huge and u can say hmmm i want a fit bf...lol
2006-11-24 16:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by HELP! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if that's you in the pic then I don't wanna freakin hear it. you're not fat.
2006-11-24 16:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, now get over it. lifes too short.
2006-11-24 16:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by ill take it straight with no ice 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋