This guy I've know for about a year now. He has to bring work over to my department everyday. He's always been hot and cold with me. He's flirted with me before but he's a flirty guy. If I ever tried to flirt back he'd act really odd and backoff. But the one day he just got to the point of being a semi friend and treated me like he would other girls. Not really flirty just really nice. But I really started to avoid him because I really had a big crush on him and obviously the feelings weren't returned. I was still nice but just tried not to look his way and stuff like that. One day recently he saw me and he gave me this really odd eyebrow raised looked. And then another day I past him in the hall and he just looked straight at me with this grouchy look and didn't say hello. I said hi and then he said hey. The next day when he came over to drop off papers at my desk. I said are you ok you seemed upset yesterday. Either he didn't hear me or he just ignored me and walked awa
2006-11-24 16:00:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean it did sound like he had a cold. But then he went to give this other girl something that's across from me. He was really nice to her. And when she said see you later to him he said if you're lucky. He said this really loud. But yet he couldn't even answer me. Do you think he doesn't like me for some reason?
2006-11-24 16:02:38 · update #1
He's just totally into himself. It seems hes not the least bit interested in how he comes across to others. He lives by his moods and doesnt seem to control them. I'd just forget about him completely. He would be nothing but problems for you if you got involved.
2006-11-24 16:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds insecure to me...and you're admitting that you are. It's a tough call when you see a person at work or you work with them. I would just act friendly no matter how he is acting. Unless you want to work up your courage and come straight out and ask to go out. If you're always friendly, he might work up the courage to ask you out. But, this guy sounds really moody! Are you sure you really like him?
2006-11-24 16:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, i'm very soft. I cry over very almost something. For--occasion in English class the day gone by those 2 assholes have been offering and this guy only pronounced "What" to no longer insult them yet you be attentive to once you only say what. And the two adult adult males have been so propose to him because of the fact of it . they are continually so propose to him and the damaging guy would not even do something to them. I have been given teary eyed this morning as quickly as we've been talking approximately it.
2016-11-26 21:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by kennie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are WAAAAY too sensitive. Do you keep a journal of all his activities throughout the day?
Sorry to say this, but he's not thinking about you. He's not nearly as concerned with you as you are concerned with him. He just has a lot of things on his mind and sees you only in the peripheral. I doubt that he's really into you, but he probably suspects that you're into him. He doesn't want you to think that he's into you, because he doesn't want to give wrong signals.
Don't worry about it, but move on.
2006-11-24 16:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by Skop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a little hard to say. You never really know what a guy is thinking. Maybe you should try speaking to him again. If he ignores you, then you'll know there probably is something wrong.
2006-11-24 16:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he picked up on your attraction and he's playing games with you or trying to any way.He sounds unstable and if he is interested he should ask you out.Forget him, you'll be glad you did in a while,he's a nut.
2006-11-24 16:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy just seems to be toying with you. i suggest you avoid him and don't even try to be nice to him. then see hoq he'll react. if he really wants to be your friend or something more, he needs to know that he can't treat you really great one minute and horribly the next!
2006-11-24 16:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by M.Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be a little sensitive, maybe he was having a bad day, or maybe your flirting with him wasnt what he wanted..it may not have been done intentionally towards you, but maybe he had something else on his mind..he may not be ready for anything more then flirting..just be yourself, maybe thats what he wants, not flirting back..who knows..guys are like that..you never know what they want or what they think..
2006-11-24 16:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by Nikkib 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he might like you and the way your avoiding him is probably hurting him without you knowing it. You should try talking to him.
2006-11-24 16:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by SHASHAS=) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah;, he probably liked u but then decided you were not interested and wont bother no more.
2006-11-24 16:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by friendly advice from maine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋