Im 18 years old. I live in a hispanic family with great people and great parents. Weve recently moved from my hometown of san jose to the outskirts of riverside,ca where its dry and boring (mostly senior citizens live in this community) I've always been that man that says that one should stay with their parents untill they are ready to go. My parents are so generous to pay for my community college courses. The house is beautiful. But i just cant stand it anymore in this place. Ive been living here for almost half a year. I told myself "I'm just gonna dive into this place and see where it takes me...sure its a culture shock, but ill get used to it..ill eventually have friends" 6 months later, i still feel like i dont belong. I have been talking to my parents in a respectable way about seriously moving back home and living with my best friend while going to a much better community college. I can now pay for my own college (F-AID) but my family doesnt trust me; they are so attached to me.
2006-11-24 16:09:35 · 6 answers · asked by BenDance 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is you choice if you feel your ready to face day to day challanges and food, water, and a place to live set up already!
2006-11-24 16:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by shell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen- you are 18 years old. Just 18. Since, you don't own the world yet, you are not ready yet. I say- to finish college, get a good education. It's tough out there- unless you have a good education completed. You will have a great beginning once you finish college. Sticking to it- that's what it takes to make it anywhere. Dealing with many situations and different types of people, and going with the flow. Once you get and complete a good foundation- then the world will treat you better. You live very nicely. You are very lucky indeed. Tackle your education- friends and great things will come to you easily. The more and the greater the package you have to offer companies the better off you will be. Make the MOST out of yourself now- then you can fly to the top in whatever you do. Good Luck!
2006-11-24 16:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not like you're moving to Vermont from Southern CA, but to your parents, it could be just as scary. If everyone is very close in your family, it can be hard to leave.
You have the right idea, moving not very far away, and sharing housing with a friend. Do your homework on the logistics in moving, and if it looks good, go for it.
In breaking it to your family: don't do it at a huge gathering. Talk to just your parents in a neutral setting, and give them facts on what you're going to do. Let them know they can visit anytime (but call first!). And leave it open ended... ask them if it doesn't work out, if you can come back to the house because you love them and they're the best, etc.
The hardest part is making your mind up and doing it. Tell them you're moving, don't ask.
Good luck
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2016-10-13 01:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feeling as you do you will come to be resentful, of your family and your situation. you need to spread your wings. You can always come back if it is too tough...... this is the time of your life to sow your wild oats, make some lasting friendships and wean yourself from you parents. Make wise choices and you will be able to help them in the future.
2006-11-24 16:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by grannee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're an adult. you want to move. your parents don't want their baby to leave. you have to leave sometime... and they have to get used to it.
2006-11-24 16:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋