we dated for a year it was a healthy relationship no major fights just small arguments.r relationship was under a microscope of adults such as r parents and a group of r parents friends who all no eachother they picked at r relationship becuz we r soo young and they have nothing better to do with there lives.we are 16 and 17 which some say is too young so plez dont tell me that.he called me one night i asked of we were ok and he said no and that we should break up before either one of us gets hurt more than we r now.he had said he loved me 4 hours b4 that and when i asked him if he loved me he told me that he didnt know wat the hell does that mean. i say so we r letting the adults win why are we giving in to them and he said yes we r letting thim win.my family thinks his mum pushed him a lil to far with school and work and his mum admits this.so wat im asking is wat do u all think is really goin on how do u love sm1 them dont and he still has a pic of me and him where he sees it daily
2006-11-24 15:54:14 · 7 answers · asked by inlove0305 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, okay first off, unless your religion prohibits dating until a certain age, um yeah NO you're not too young! I think he was overwhelmed by it all and just wanted to end the chaos. he probably does/did love you still, but because of the hell everyone was giving you guys, he just felt it wasn't worth it
2006-11-24 15:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds confused and you sound pissed.Let him go right now since he asked and just be friends.Don't worry why he broke it off the fact is he did and you must respect that.The world probably won't end tomorrow so get on with your living and just be his friend.What's meant to be will be with out your help or interference.Don't harbor anger at the adults because believe it or not they all love you all and really think they are looking out .Take it easy and see what tomorrow brings,always some thing new if you let it. Good Luck.
2006-11-24 16:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably just so confused and a little shaken up he has so much to concintrate on he is more like overwhelmed with all of his problems that he is doing things that he wouldnt normaly do so he cant pic at the moment cuz if he was pushed too hard with his school he isnt going to know what he is doing that does stuff to people
2006-11-24 16:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by you dont know me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, It hurts just as bad when you're older!! Sure, he probably cares for you still, but you need to let it go for awhile!! Don't act like you'll die without him,{it just feels that way for awhile..} focus on other things. If this is true love, he will be back. He'll be back even if it isn't, trust me. Go out with your friends!! And make new ones!! The hurt WILL go away...I promise you.
2006-11-24 15:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect his decision and give him time. If he loves you, he'll come round! He sounds a bit confused and to pressure him will not help him right now. Be patient and if things are meant to be it will happen. Good Luck
2006-11-24 16:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you as a friend.
At that age love is a crush. He probably never had a crush and was pushed into this relationship, and then you grew on him as a friend love.
2006-11-24 15:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by elisioloyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and bang a few guys...he'll come back. Wait... Are you hot?
2006-11-24 15:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by therazorsback 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋