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can anyone there tell me what should i do?please!!! i do really need your advice towards this situation...i'm confuse and hope he will accept me the way i am!

2006-11-24 15:58:23 · 9 answers · asked by ako 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Why should he accept you the way you are you obviously don't. If you are obsessing over your weight, then you have a problem you need to address. Read other questions by people who like someone, they always want to know what to do, but they never bring up weight. I'm fat myself, I know what it is like to be so preoccupied with my size that I assume everyone else is too. Loose the weight and then go get him.

2006-11-24 16:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

ok here's the deal... don't jump to conclusions, you never know who likes you. I am a bigger girl and I hads the hots for a guy who worked at a store & every month I'd go to pay my bill. I'd check him out but I just assumed that he was only being polite to me because I was a customer. One day he found me online and asked me out.... who knew?! Things have been great since. So if he rejects you then don't worry about it... you'll find someone who accepts you for you. Don't act self conscious about your weight though.. it's a turn off. The more confident you are the more comfortable he will feel around you. So go for it, the worst is he will turn you down and in that cause you didn't need the shallow turd anyhow!

2006-11-24 16:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by rayne 2 · 0 0

Parenting can come into play, and then it is just some people, they are afraid of what the outcome of love can be. They hear about 50% divorce rates, and they become afraid. Then there are some people who see the pain others go through when they break up etc, and do not want to experience it. Then there are those afraid of falling in love because people themselves scare them. I mean there are a lot of different reasons really.

2016-05-22 23:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If he really cares for you the weight will not matter to him. There is more to a person than their outside appearance. It is what inside a person that really counts not what they look like. If he does reject you then he is not worthy of your feelings anyway Just be yourself and try not to dwell so much on the negative side of things. .

2006-11-24 16:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

im not gonna say anythin $hit lyk y u think ur fat... u should believe in ur self... cmon BULL$HIT!!
maybe u could start of with some dietin programs..and exercises.
to make da first impression act cool, wear the latest fashion. make urself look hot by make up (not to much to make u look fake) and nice clothes. don't get nervous cuz u may think of the negative stuff happenin to u. be positive. trust me if u act sweet smart pretty and cool he'll fall 4 ya.

2006-11-24 16:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by steff m 3 · 0 1

it is a cruel world out their but he should see you for the person you are and if he don't Then that mean you were not meant for each other in the first place and sweetie their are many man in the world today to stress yourself over one.

2006-11-24 16:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by terrificlady 2 · 0 0

if hes basing everything on looks then hes a loser who isnt worth thinking about.but i think you should go 4 it girl! whatts the worst that could happen? he'll say no.thats about it.personality is the key

2006-11-26 13:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by chelsea c 1 · 0 0

....... see how it goes!..... and if it does'nt work out,... check out some chat/dating site's, and show your'e picture,.... corz there's actually quite a lot of guy's, who like big girl's..... Check out and choose guy's carefully,... use a bit of common sense,.. and you can find some good guy's on those site's!...

2006-11-24 16:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by peanut 5 · 0 0

shoot girl start dieting and working out. obviously you are not happy with they way you are.

2006-11-24 16:02:57 · answer #9 · answered by cindy p 3 · 0 1

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