2006-11-24 16:10:35 · 22 answers · asked by Sarah E 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell her you can always lose weight, but there is no cure for being mean and stupid.
2006-11-24 16:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by Marti M 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Tell your mother or father. In my house, name calling is NOT allowed, and calling a sibling "fat" would fall under that category. Your parents don't want your self esteem damaged, especially by a sibling. DON'T try a comeback, there's no point and no winner in the game of trying to put each other down more. You BOTH end up losers. Take the high road.
2006-11-24 16:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been there. My mother's side of the family. Didn't like it because i had a few extra pounds. Before my grandma past away. She watch a show on TV. About big people. She told she was so sorry. For everything she had said. She laid off, never saying anything about it again.
After she dead. I didn't know what to do. She had always been there for me. My Family kept ed it up. So i stared working out. Walking. Lose pounds. Feeling good about myself. But even to this today. I don't care what anyone thinks about me. If they don't like it. They can kiss my a_ss.. Tell your sister. To get off of your case. You are who you are. Nobody else. She cant make you into the person. She wants you to be. Good Luck...
2006-11-24 16:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetblue85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you're really fat, if you are, what to worry, if you smoke and somebody tells you that you are a smoker, it will be a problem? If you are so you could never get rid of it(not only your sister, they could be other that think like that and they just don't tell you that, your sister may be honest, a little bit mean, but) without become slim.
2006-11-24 16:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anatol N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A come back is not necessarily what you are looking for. You need to let her know that it really hurts when she says things like that. And if that doesn't work then the old "I may be fat but your ugly and I can always diet" might work.
2006-11-24 16:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by AMC615 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to figure out what her insecurities are. She calls you fat because she knows it upsets you. Otherwise there would be no pay off for her. Maybe she has a big nose, or a lazy eye. Look for something she can't fix. Then keep digging at her.
2006-11-24 16:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh come onnnnn! You guys are sisters, she's only kidding, she probably doesn't know she's hurting you. Confront her about it, she'll stop soon enough. DO NOT try comebacks, it'll only make things worse and "deepen the war".
My mom called me fat, in a joking way so people don't get all weird and pitiful on me, but our relationship works that way, you know, in a "Gilmore Girls" kind of way. It didn't hurt me, but she kind of pushed the envolope, so I told her and she stopped. I'm pretty sure it should work with sisters, I mean, did people seriously stop watching "Charmed".
Point is, your sister has issues, needs to solve them instead of calling you names. And don't let it get to you, the more you let it get to you, the more you'll dis-like your sister, and unfortunately, it could eventually lead to hate.
2006-11-24 16:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by Answer Givererer. 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Frist of dont pay interest to that sh*t . Its no longer what they imagine its what you imagine and experience.tell Jenny Creg made tens of millions reason she became fat. even as human beings say hurtfull issues to you is reason they are truly felling that way about themself. purely thank them for his or her evaluations with a grin on your face and turn and walk away.by no ability pay interest to human beings like that . by no ability enable them make you experience undesirable about your self. I dont comprehend you or by no ability seen you yet i comprehend that you're an really captivating human being. and also you would possibly want to tell your self that.
2016-11-29 10:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell '' I love you anyway " She tells you that because she knows it hurts you. And to try to get even isn't going to make you feel good. Your only going to feel worse because deep down inside you know she loves you and you love her. So tell her you love her anyway. She'll ask you later on why you say that and tell her " Because I do."Show her that your mature enough to let it go. she'll stop when she see's she can't hurt you anymore,because your taking the fun out of it for her and replacing it with something better.
2006-11-24 16:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just say i may be fat but have you looked in the miror, oops you cant itll break but ill tell you what you need, proactive.
If you hurt her feelings pleese say sorry and tell her that shes hurting your feelings
2006-11-24 16:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by suri c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've actually used this one myself and left them looking stupid!
"I may be fat & I can loose weight if I need to but you are just UGLY, and you can't fix that" !!!!
2006-11-24 16:13:01 · answer #11 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋