Is there anything I could do to try to get back with girls and stop being so emotional? It's hurting everybody around me.
2006-11-24 16:27:00 · 24 answers · asked by Starstruck in LovE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your hobbies might help, and okay, it might sound like
c*ap righ now, but you know, fish in the sea, etc., etc.
good luck.
2006-11-24 16:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by 1.4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortualty, your going to have a few more heart aches before you find the one for you. But it makes you better at relationships each time, you learn what you like and dislike in a girl, about dating, and you learn about yourself. Just dont get bitter and treat every girl like crap because you dont want to get hurt. She turned you down, you know its her loss, now that I look back on all of that stuff, its a simple no, its not the end of the world, and there a plenty of girls out there, and when you have your confidence up, it will show, and shell wish she never said no. Girls are complicated. She may have said no because right now she is crushing on someone else, but when that fades, she will probably be regretful she nevr gave you a chance.
2006-11-25 00:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by AntzaGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a stud in training. Being only 14, don't be so down about not getting the girl. Don't concentrate on them so much and they will eventually flock to you, don't be emotional. Having a sensitive side is attractive to girls, but overly emotional is seen as sappy and melodramatic sometimes. Farewell
2006-11-25 00:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe seeing a therapist would help. There are free clinics where you can get help. And possibly try talking to your parents. And don't worry your not the only person like this. when I was thirteen I tried to kill myself. If I had suceeded I wouldnt be here trying to encourage you. Your hormones are pretty much going haywire. This is normal. I would advice you to wait until you're sixteen to try and get agirlfriend but the ultimate desicion for all of this is yours. Good luck. And this smile is for you :)
2006-11-25 00:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by DIRI-83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK here's some tough love for you.
cut/wash your hair don't have it hanging in your face
your only 14 theres other fish in the sea no need to get all emo on everyone
try smiling no one likes a sour puss =)
go outside get a tan
the most important one...PUT DOWN THE HAWTHORN HEIGHTS CD!!!
2006-11-25 01:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by mu_ba 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jeez, get used to it, unless you are rich or fantasticly hot, or a musician, girls will be rejecting you for the rest of your life! just how it goes. find a mousy, shy, apparently ugly girl, and ask her, then help her metamorphose into the hottest thing at school! and learning guitar cant hurt!
2006-11-25 00:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14, her parents may not let her date, 14 is very young for dating.
2006-11-25 00:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
+_= don't be emo
people reject others, it's just that way.
Suck it up and move on
be happy-er
or at least mildly content.
gah, you're only 14, there are many more years ahead
A couple of bumps in the road won't throw you off for life...
2006-11-25 00:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by Spungafreakingriffic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to be yourself and dont worry about girls. your 14 and you have the rest of your life to figure it out about women... you know... emo is just a scene now too. your prolly not really emo, just depressed... i'd say, get happy honey..... its really ok
2006-11-25 00:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by caseyrae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here one guy i went out with asked me out and i rejected cuz i was gon out with someone...theni asked him out and rejected cuz i wasnt his type anymore.....then i went emo and know he likes me but hes to annoying callin very 5 mineuts..it has to stop...but i took the chance and stayed single for about 7 months now and im soo loving it being with someone is like having a stalker..........but im sure id go out with you just cuz you need some motovation or maybe not but i dont know you any gurl who cant realize that you ae a nice...and caring guy then obviously that kinda gurl is not ur type...if they are preppy dont ask them out if they are emo try asking them out its not hard just try it...rejection is a learning experiance..i learned my x like emos even tho he is preppy but i dont like him
2006-11-25 00:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww that is so cute. but kind of creepy at the same time. i would try to find out what she likes, try to get in her group, but dont become a stalker. young love is so confusing.
2006-11-25 00:33:33 · answer #11 · answered by ambermarie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋