Asking again...how can you LEGALLY get revenge on a homewrecker?

Question

This question is for my friend whose husband left her for his assistant. A woman who knew from day one he was married and whose husband dumped her and got custody of the kids. She also slept with another married coworker
but his wife threatened her which my friend would never do. They have 5 children and a fairly good marriage until Ms. Homewrecker came on like a cat in heat and her very naive simple husband didn't stand a chance.
BTW, we know the best revenge is living well which
she plans to do next month. This month she wants to
kick ***.

Answer 1

The best revenge is to let the homewrecker have the husband and suffer the impact ofthat BIG child support order that will follow them around until the youngest turns 18 or 19. That is the best revenge...bet she will not enjoy the limited income....

Answer 2

Revenge On A Homewrecker

Answer 3

Your friend shouldn't be angry at the woman whom he left her for.He is a cheater and if it wasn't this woman it would have been anthor one.I never understood this one.Why do woman always blame the other woman instead of their husbands.They have a relationship with their husbands that is who made promises to them not the other woman.She couldn't have got him if he didn't want to be gotten.He has a mind of his own and he is in control of his faculties he is the only one to blame here.Has for the revenge part heres some ideas. Most companies have a policy against dating other employees.Especially when the employee is directly under you.They frown on that sort of stuff because of the risk of an accusation of sexual harrasement.Tell there boss about them.Point out to the company that she has done this with someone else in the company also. Check into your local laws. In some states there are still some old hold over laws that make it a criminal offense for a married man to has relations with someone else other than their wife.There is one thing that is worring me. Did I read right did you say she lost the custody of her kids to her ex.If so I wouldn't let hubby take children until you look into why she doesn't have her kids.You don't lose custody of your kids unless you have done something to cause it.And don't beleive her accuse for it either she will lie. Has far has the revenge thing goes be creative.In alot of states if no one sees you do something like deflate her tires or dent her car they cant do anything about it.Just don't leave finger prints on anything.

Answer 4

If you dont mind old music, listen to a very old song called "Let That Pony Run" it is by Pam Tillis. My personal opinion is that the wife needs to totally let loose. She needs to focus on herself and do everything fun she has dreamed of that she has not done because of responsibility. She needs to care about herself and treat herself like she is the most important person in the world. No matter what the homewrecker did the husband is not innocent and he is not the victim. Really the wife is the ONLY victim. Her best revenge is to not let herself be a victim though. I really do think sometimes the best revenge is to just pick yourself up, dust yourself off, then party your *** off. The cheater needs to be left at home BTW. He is not invited to the party.

Answer 5

She can sue the other woman for "alienation of affection". It's been done, successfully, but other than monetary awards..it would be a hollow victory. And it tends to make the newspapers so embarrassment for your friend might outweigh the benefit.

While the other woman, going after a married man knowing full well he was married, is someone to be loathed and kept at a distance...don't forget he's as guilty as she is. And if all was well in the home, he'd have never fallen "in" that hole.

Good luck to your friend. May she cut loose and live well, and find more happiness without him than she had with his cheating butt.

Answer 6

The best way to get revenge is to just let her have him and be glad he's gone because if he's doing it now he's done it or thought of doing it before and if she let him come back then he would do it again
Once they've gotten away with it and been forgiven it is over well actually once he has put his thang in another woman that is when it was over
But about the kids if he got custody then something went terribly wrong either your friend was shown to be unfit or she didn't have a good attorney because if you can prove adultery no judge in his/her right mind would give him custody because of the instability that that shows

Answer 7

Revenge should be to the man. She didn't cheat. He did. He was in the wrong. He made the decision who to sleep with. He made the decisions...not her.

Everyone blames the other woman or other man. Its not the other person - its the person that's married. Actually, its the couple.

She's not the homewrecker at all.

Living well and being happy is the best revenge - this month - and next.

Answer 8

Best Legal revenge...that is a good question

I would take an ad out half page in the Sunday Paper and it read (her name) is a homewreaker and slept with my husband (his name) and whatever little tidbits you want to ad.

She cannot take you to court for slander since it is all true

Answer 9

I asked this question myself a couple of months back and got pretty much the same response you are getting. Apparently there is legally nothing you can do to the whore. That's why we have to be a bit sneaky. You know what they say about a scorned woman, god help anyone who tries to get in her way. I say let's go kick some butt, just make sure no-one see's you do it !!!!!!!!!1

Answer 10

The best revenge is to pray for them, and ask for God to do justice. If you take revenge, then your sitting in the seat of judegment and taking Gods seat. Just think if you pray for them and God steps in with a life lesson for her, she'll change and wont be that way any more, but if you try to expose her, you'll turn out looking like a bi*ch and she'll come out smelling like a rose, and keep breaking up families. Trust God, he is good, fair and just. the bible says "Do not be fooled for God will not be mocked, for what a man reaps he also sows."