Ok...same old same...is he into me or not? He calls every day...sends SMS all day...tells me I am beautiful and that I am his No.1 priority and wants to see more of me...how much he likes me...blah blah blah...and it goes on and on BUT tells me he doesn't want a relationship...is that warning bells ringing or not? We have both just come out of nasty long term relationships so..maybe thats it? We both have separate lives and I guess right now that works...and..you guessed it...we have been 'intimate' ...ok ok...we have had sex...and lots of it!! Lets be adults about it and be honest...He isn't seeing anybody else because he has told me he only wants me. And I know there is nobody else because..well..I just know. So...I really like him and the 'arrangement' kind of suits me too. But..all I want to know is..IS HE INTO ME OR NOT????? I am just finding it hard to stay 'cool and casual' when I am really getting attached to this guy and want him in my life....HELP!!!
2006-11-24 16:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by babyblues_752001 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so technically you're just friends with benefits until he figures out what he wants to officially do with you. he's definitely into you, and you're definitely into him, but the relationship ain't happenin (been there)!!! it's excellent that you have separate lives...so maybe eventually you two will make it official someday. i wouldn't rush him, he definitely has a crush on you. go with the flow since you both just came out of bad break-ups. maybe you both feel the comfort of having each other during this healing process and a new serious relationship is the last thing on his mind, you know how guys are...
2006-11-24 16:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by damsel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear, so you will probably brush it off as I don't know what I'm talkin about, but here's what I think..... He told you what he wants... it's not a relationship. He wants sex. All guys want sex. Some want a relationship too and some don't and this guy clearly has told you he doesn't so he thinks everythings cool. He texts you and talks to you so much because he thinks you could be a good friend, and or he doesn't want you with other guys. Guys are territorial along with most of us women.... even if they want you and everyone else, you are only suppose to be with them. Now is it fair for you to get upset with him when he shows strongly that he doesn't want a relationship? I don't think so, he told you what you wanted. I know how you feel though and most females do, most of us can't just have sex without our feelings coming into play, that's just how we are created. Just don't get set up for a down fall okay, it's just sex. You've had sex with him since he's told u this, and "lots of it" so he thinks he's not in the wrong and all is cool. There's no "right now seperate lives works", that's all he intends it to be. The only way it could go further is if he gets jealous of you with another guy and tries to claim you as his gf then, but honey let me tell you now, even though you might think that's great it will nottttttttt last long and your feelings are only gonna get even more hurt. Guys really do think this way.... if you give it up too soon or too easy that's exactly what you are... too easy and you'd give it up to anyone. Guys want sex of course, but the woman they keep they want to be so much better than the chicks they would just f***. Seriously, think about it. But don't listen to us, because I know by your question that you won't lol, and you'll only see by it happening. Girl just keep your feelings as protected as possible because they are already out there and you're only set up for hurt.
2006-11-24 16:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 01:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is into your body not your mind if you have slept with him repeatedly why would he want to commit. He just got out of a long relationship and constant sex with you is just the kind of rebound he needs. So obviously he is into you but just because you sleep with him no questions asked. If you want a relationship let him go, everyone deserves someone who wants to commit to them 110%.
2006-11-24 16:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Diana J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is into you but, maybe he preferres your current relationship status more.
2006-11-24 16:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is reserved for marriage. I suggest you stop committing adultry. God bless.
2006-11-24 16:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by d12.emin3m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously if ur having sex he at least likes you enough for that. sounds more like he's using you because he can.
2006-11-24 16:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by willblr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U wanting him is not enough. He shud also want u in his life.
2006-11-24 16:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, he is into you, physically!
2006-11-24 16:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by lionking_lolhehe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duhh
2006-11-24 16:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋