Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

If a guy doesn't like you would he tell you no if you asked to lay on his knee? In High School I asked a guy and he told me no. Last night (I'm out of high school) this guy I know said sure. We don't see each other often. We haven't seen eachother in 6months. We're friends through friends.

He used to bring up his gf all last year whenever we hang, yesterday he didn't. I didn't want to ask if they broke up but i think they did. :S
It felt like we were being set up. Our friends were making out the whole time. If we are somewhat friends, and he has no feelings for me, would he have said no to letting me lay on his lap?
OR, since he said YES, does that mean he LIKES me?
Thanks everyone !!

2006-11-24 17:44:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an AWESOME boyfriend that i love!! And one of my very best friends is a boy. I went out with a best friend a while ago and really liked him but decided i didn't want to loose the friendship. Then i hooked up with my boyfriend and he is the BEST!! the only problem is that my boyfriend is worried that my best friend still likes me and that he'll loose me while my best friend is worried that i;ll get caught up in my boyfriend. What should i do?!? I love them both! one as a friend and the other one as my boyfriend.. How can i get them to realize that!?!?

2006-11-24 17:43:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out, we have been married for 10 yrs we both are in our 30's, my emotions are like in a roller coaster,I am very depressed, please give me some advice on how to feel better, I feel emotionally exhausted.

2006-11-24 17:43:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont mean "make" as in "force"
i mean, what would make a girl attractive, in your opinon?
it can be anything:
personality, appearance (but not that much appearance).....
would you be more comfortable if you started off as friends?
you would be attracted to a girl if she acted _____ way around you...

2006-11-24 17:42:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this Girl at school, what should i do to get her attention how can i make her sort off like me (Not in a forceful way though) PLease can you help me!

2006-11-24 17:42:20 · 15 answers · asked by 2 Minutes ago 1 in Singles & Dating

Is ogling at a woman in public with another guy considered a form of sexual harrasment?

2006-11-24 17:40:28 · 16 answers · asked by R.t. s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 17:40:07 · 12 answers · asked by rosha 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a petite 5'6'' girl. Been a ballet dancer most of my life so I am toned and thin. I am a A cup and worry if that is a deal breaker or something. Is it? I need male advice.

2006-11-24 17:38:34 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell or help

2006-11-24 17:38:23 · 6 answers · asked by Jolie Vu 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 17:37:27 · 27 answers · asked by Richard E 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex came back to me and we kiss and call eachother all the time and hang out. we arent going out though. im kinda suspicious with what he wants with me then. i want to go out so bad again and give it another try because he broke up with his last girlfriend and is now interested in me again. i dont know what to think. i am happy with him liking me again but i want to go out again so badly but im afraid to let him know that. im afraid hes happy with where the relationship is right now...

2006-11-24 17:37:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i decicided to end things with this guy we have been going out for 4 months i was scared to do it myself so my friend eric did it for me he just said i wanted to end it and things wernt working out nnow he is like going crazy calling me and geting his friends to call me
one of his friends said he wanted to kkill him self over it
(he is not emo)

2006-11-24 17:37:12 · 5 answers · asked by cheeerleaderr 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 15 and my friend blair is 23!!!Well Blair is so cool he's just outgoing and funny.My whole family loved him to.Well he's kinda messed up because he's on cough syrup<

2006-11-24 17:35:42 · 14 answers · asked by stacy_diva_girl619 2 in Friends

ok my problem is my friend and his girlfriend have been having a little trouble with their relationship for a while nothing big just a little communicating issue(they're both too stubborn) anyways i've been talking to his girlfriend and trying to help them out well now i've started to fall for her myself and we always wind up having really good conversations that last for hours and then after we stop talking we'll start texting each other and i need to know should i stay away from her, keep acting like nothing's up, or should i just tell my friend and/or his girlfriend

2006-11-24 17:35:34 · 15 answers · asked by Matt B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 17:34:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Really I'm an all around kinda guy, I like all ethnicities aslong as she's funny, down to earth, can try new things and can take a joke.

Of course she has to be attractive, BUT

Thats what really turns me on.

2006-11-24 17:34:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know why but ever since I have been 10 years old, mom stopped giving me baths. I'm 18 now and I sure do miss them. Mom really knew how to clean me well and she was really able to clean my backside well. (I can't get to it that well myself). Anyways, when I turned 10 she MADE me take a bath or shower by myself. I felt so rejected like she didn't love me anymore. I am a male so if there is any females here, please tell me why you would ever stop doing this for your child?

2006-11-24 17:34:21 · 14 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Family

okay so i work in a 3 story little plaza mall thing and theres this guy who works in a store on the 3rd level.....im on the 2nd. anyways he works in a really expensive jewelery store so its not like i can go in and act like im going to buy something because i cant afford it. well we usually sometimes make eye contact if he come down to the 2nd floor and goes into the market thats accross the street from my work .well tonight i saw him in the market and we both looked at each other and smiled and he sayed hey hows it going......so i responded and then we just walked away of course i smiled though. it seems like hes a bit interested right? so how can i tal kto him more, if he does have a gf i dont wanna look like an idiot.....

2006-11-24 17:34:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she said she was going to leave her husband for me, But when her husband found out about the affair she changed her mind, or said she had to wait, now we barely talk, what do i do . im still very in Love with her. We still talk and she says she loves me but is stessed out and needs to do it when the time is right, Now she calls once or twicw a day and said before she doesnt want to lose me that if we should be together it will happen, What do i do let her contact me and leave her alone? I miss her and Love her so much, I dont want to lose her.

2006-11-24 17:33:45 · 6 answers · asked by mrclean637 1 in Singles & Dating

On usgov.org there are facts that boys are faster learners and retain more info. than girls, and boys tend to be 76% more honest and are able to handle finance's every day bills and savings 81% better why is this a fact. I've noticed this in my studies

2006-11-24 17:33:20 · 6 answers · asked by cge1222 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 17:32:48 · 8 answers · asked by Shy&Sweet 3 in Family

I am so called a "shotgun" kid, which my parents dont want me at the first place. Thrown to live with my grand ma til age of 10, cos she died of a fall.
I didnt know i have parents til then, they brought me home. Having a baby sister which they dote, i dont understand why they dont want me.
Being a loner, i worked since age of 12, cos they only give me enough money to buy bread & have to drink tap water(no choice).
Now they are reaching 50, and with no change of attitude towards me. Except asking me for more money, what can i do?
I just want a happy family.......

2006-11-24 17:31:50 · 16 answers · asked by Roy . C 1 in Family

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, currently living at my parents. We have talked about marriage, and we both see it in our future. We've even looked at rings. I have been thinking of making a mutual committment/engagement with him. Have you ever heard of a woman asking a man in a proposal? Any special ideas in doing this? Thanks in advance!

2006-11-24 17:31:37 · 12 answers · asked by Dee P 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My partner who I have two kids to went to his old place to do some cleaning out and bought back a porn video which he is going to fix so he can watch it, it is 'electric blue' should I be accepting even though it is hurtful and like a kick in the teeth?

2006-11-24 17:29:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It all started when I was 17.
My mother stopped me from going out anywhere when I was 17, when I was 20 used to block the door when I used to try and go out. When I came home from college I really didnt go anywhere but when I tried to she would call me and tell me to come home. When I was 23 she called the guy I was dating and then told him to send me home. It all started when I became an adult. Why was she so controlling when I started to become an adult. It didnt make any sense. I finally moved out at 25 which was late. It just seems like I started my life late because of her.

2006-11-24 17:28:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My bestest friend in the world wants to get married in June. Her and I have been close for about a year now. I just feel like our friendship isn't going to be the same as before. She keeps telling me it will be fine and that we are going to keep in touch all the time. I know I should believe that, but she is going to move to Utah when she gets married, and I'm going to be in California away from her. I just feel that our friendship is going to change, but I really don't want it to because she is my bestest friend and also like a sister to me, so I wouldn't be able to handle losing her. I just don't know how to handle all of this.

2006-11-24 17:28:00 · 8 answers · asked by Allie 1 in Friends

I'm repentent now don't you know, and I recon the guilt is a result of that, right? I suppose the ebb and flo of guiliness/ redemtion is Christ doing His work in me. Am I right?

2006-11-24 17:27:56 · 13 answers · asked by fe2bsho 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I've noticed (now) that he likes to text other girls, talk to other girls on msn messenger and write private messages on my space. When he developed his my space account, he put his status down as 'single'. When I brought it up, he changed it to 'in a relationship'.

He tells me that he's 100% faithful when he's in relationships and I believe that but how does everyone feel about online flirting? He doesn't ask for meetings .... he tends to ask for sharing of pics and web camera conversations. What do you think of this?

2006-11-24 17:27:20 · 5 answers · asked by girlspeedracer 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 17:27:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a guy in particular who wants to go out w/me but he's dated such beautiful women and I don't measure up at all... is it odd for a guy who dates gorgeous girls all the time to want to date someone average looking?

2006-11-24 17:27:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating