my ex came back to me and we kiss and call eachother all the time and hang out. we arent going out though. im kinda suspicious with what he wants with me then. i want to go out so bad again and give it another try because he broke up with his last girlfriend and is now interested in me again. i dont know what to think. i am happy with him liking me again but i want to go out again so badly but im afraid to let him know that. im afraid hes happy with where the relationship is right now...
2006-11-24 17:37:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might think you are a sure thing. Not trying to be mean!
You are familar ground for him - easier than meeting someone new.
Be very careful of going back to an ex.
You broke up for a reason! Think about those reasons.
2006-11-24 17:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Quinn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might try not being so accessible. Sometimes when he calls don't answer the phone. Don't call him for a couple days. I'm trying this approach with someone and it works. Don't invest all your energy into this guy. Pursue your own interests. Let him know that you do have a life without him. I think you will see his interest perk up. As things stand right now you are letting him call all the shots.
2006-11-24 17:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by peggy j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can say what now. Personally, I wouldn't get near him with a barge pole! I know he would get the impression I could be walked on, and walked out on, and still wait for him. I'm not a door mat in that way. Maybe he will see you in a different fashion, but only you know the answer to that.
2006-11-24 17:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me..it sounds like hes just using u to get some..and sounds like its working. u should be honest w/ him and if he doesnt feel the same move on. u deserve better than some player. if he feels the same about u..then remeber to take it slow. dont do anything u might regret.
best of luck!!<3
2006-11-24 17:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to judge him according to the reason u both broke up before this....if he broke up with u becoz of another girl and now he comes back to u...my advise is forget him and get another guy....he doesn't deserve ur love
2006-11-24 17:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by Icey Ling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like he's just using you for some physical affection while he's between girlfriends. Move on, you deserve better.
2006-11-24 17:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I think is he wants a girl and knows your available. Honey, ur his rebound. Get out now before you get hurt!
Best of luck!
2006-11-24 17:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by coolchick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it a slow try one day at a time.
2006-11-24 17:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-24 17:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him or continue to wonder.
2006-11-24 17:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋