What should I do?

Question

My bestest friend in the world wants to get married in June. Her and I have been close for about a year now. I just feel like our friendship isn't going to be the same as before. She keeps telling me it will be fine and that we are going to keep in touch all the time. I know I should believe that, but she is going to move to Utah when she gets married, and I'm going to be in California away from her. I just feel that our friendship is going to change, but I really don't want it to because she is my bestest friend and also like a sister to me, so I wouldn't be able to handle losing her. I just don't know how to handle all of this.

Answer 1

You r sure that u love her a lot just like a sister then nothing should change between u two. Simply because u both still have the same love for each other as u were together as u will be apart.

There r a billion different ways u can still be together. Like u can chat with each other on the net, write letters to each other or even have a get together every year.

Don't let distance be a barrier between u and ur friend. My bestest best friend who used to stay right next to me shifted to another country. But we still are really close. She doesn't have a computer so we write to each other. It has been almost five years since we have even seen each other. But we still love each other.

Answer 2

she may be getting marrried- but you always remember your best friend- i have known my best friend since 1st grade- we are both 22 now. We have moved apart, and moved on with our lives. We talk to each other one time a week - we set aside one day a week at a certain time- for some catch up time. I know that doesn't seem like a lot, but when you are so busy with life- a week will pass pretty fast. Do not think of it as loosing her- she is only a phone call, away. Maybe her husband and her will make it a point to come and see you every few months. You never forget your best friend!! I hoped I helped!

Answer 3

Your friendship will undergo a change, because marriage changes things. Her priority will be her husband, not her friends. She will still love you and be your friend, but her best friend will be her husband, at least if she's made a good choice he will be. Plus, life is different as a married person. As you live together and grow together, outside friends lose their daily importance.

So, go ahead and mourn a little over the changes, and prepare to move on with your own life. You'll always be connected, but it will be different.

Answer 4

Chances are you relationship will change, but it doesn't have to end. Just understand that your bestest friend's loyalties will naturally move to her husband and you may not share in as much "inside" information as you did before. That's natural and perfectly normal. If/when you get married, and assuming your husband and her husband get along, you might find that your relationship will redevelop into something new and very satisfying for both of you.

Answer 5

well since its in june i think you should hang out with her a lot so you will have wonderful memories and when the day has come just support her and when she leaves tell her how much you are going to miss her and yeah you will have the phone, email, instant messging , letter and its better than not keeping in touch with her at all you can visit her anytime you want well take care and everything will be okay your friendship with her is always going to stay with her in her heart

Answer 6

If she is your best friend, and you are close, she will keep in touch with you. It is true - after she is married, things will be a little different. Marriage always changes things. But that doesn't mean that you two will no longer be close. Keep in mind, her spouse will be number 1 in her life, and that is what changes things a little. Her priorities will be different.

Answer 7

i know its tough but just believe her. you won't see her as often but you can still be best friends.
keep in touch & visit often

Answer 8

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