My friend hung himself!!!!?

Question

Im 15 and my friend blair is 23!!!Well Blair is so cool he's just outgoing and funny.My whole family loved him to.Well he's kinda messed up because he's on cough syrup<

Answer 1

First of all you should know that there was nothing that you or anyone else for that matter could have done to prevent this.

Secondly, you should really talk to someone with whom you are close too- a frined, parent, teacher, or see if your school can line up someone to talk to.

I wish you all the best. And just remember, I am sure he would not want you to do the same thing as well as your family and friends. Look at all the pain that surronds you right now and remember that they would feel the same pain over losing you!

Answer 2

So sorry to hear. Many people don't have wonderful lives. Just don't give in to dispair. Fight it! There are interesting people, things to see every day ! My baby died years ago of a condition, which I have a small part of, but I'm still alive and kicking! Not giving Up no matter WHAT! Get started on a project, a happy, challenging project to help/ decorate something/ or start a business for yourself. Get busy with Life!

Answer 3

No & what a sad story. It is so hard when a love one is stuck on drugs or anything where they can not see all the good in living.... No matter if anyone let him in or try to talk to him . May have made no difference. When one is so sick as your friend was , all you can do is pray for him.Maybe others who knew him will change there way of life for the better, And benfit in some way. So Sorry --- GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!

Answer 4

there is maximum of approaches you could look at this. it surely relies upon on how close you have been with him. have been you ultimate buddies? have been you inseparable and shared your secrets and techniques at the same time? Or have been you 2 purely hi and bye buddies. from time to time you experience undesirable for the guy inspite of the undeniable fact that it would not harm in view which you had no longer something deep with them. Now, in case you 2 have been good buddies then it somewhat could desire to be that the soreness hasn't set in. maybe subcontiously your strategies is in denial. you have no longer found out the certainty that he will by no ability, ever come back. you will shop residing yet he's long previous perpetually now. The soreness could desire to hit you as quickly as you spot him in his coffin. or maybe months or a year later once you supply him concept lower back.

Answer 5

I am sorry for your loss.Unfortunately there is not much you can do but grieve for the family and for youself also.You all need to take comfort in each other.You can still talk to your friend because he will always be there in spirit.Maybe he felt as though his problem was becoming everyone elses problems.Just know that he is in the best place now and will still look out for you.

Answer 6

Well we've all experienced loss I'm sure. Just know that Blair didn't do this just because no one let him in the house and just because he was on cough syrup. He did this because he obviously had underlying issues that he didn't get help with. When he didn't get help, he turned to drugs and when that wasn't enough and things got too overwhelming, he killed himself. Obviously, I'm hoping you really aren't going to kill yourself just to talk to him. When a person kills themselves, it's a really selfish act because they aren't thinking about anyone but themselves and how messed up their life is. They aren't thinking of what the consequences are and what it will do to the ones who love and care about them...All they are thinking about is "me, me, me." Sorry to sound harsh, but all Blair was thinking about was his pain and he probably didn't even try to get the help he needed or he didn't try to talk to anyone.
I'm sorry for your loss. Just know that Blair wouldn't want you to feel this way and there is nothing that you can do but remember the good times.

Answer 7

Well your stories has too many holes in it. No one on cough syrup is going to hang themselves. It's not a drug like your trying to make it look. It's cough syrup! That's all. If your friend hung himself it wasn't because of the cough syrup. It was something else. And if he loved your sister but did everything for you what's up with that. And how do you know it was his mom. You never mentioned a letter just that he was on cough syrup. You made it sound more like it was because he was on cough syrup then his mom. My mom died too and had breast cancer so I do understand how he felt. But still there had to be more then just that to make him do this. Honestly I find your story a bit fictional.

Answer 8

hey man i under stand im 20, my friend was a great guy but spoke out if he had to meaning everyone at work didn't like him but at least most did. anyway he broke up with his second wife and was feeling like crap, everyone knew he was in in a bad way cause he allways had his blood on him and we tryed to ceer him up but one day he didn't come in to work. i fould out after the week end he hung himself in his backyard i think about it everyday and i want you to know that life can only be spent by you, what friends do no matter how much it hurts will always heal. Remember the good things.

Answer 9

This is a biggie sweetie. I think you would be best served seeking out your parents, comfort from friends and a conversation with a trusted adult. I know you're freaking out, but I can tell you that some pain overwelms people. It sounds like you know he was on drugs and it was a drug induced choice.

Good luck.

Answer 10

Dearest Friend,

Your friend Blair tragedy with drugs is so sad. Please value your life and appreciate your families love. It is sad that he took his life and that you are feeling the pain. In his honor, try to be strong and dedicate your time and love to a cause to help other kids from making this terrible mistake of getting hooked on "drugs." Drugs kill. I am so sorry about your loss, I know you loved him.