My partner who I have two kids to went to his old place to do some cleaning out and bought back a porn video which he is going to fix so he can watch it, it is 'electric blue' should I be accepting even though it is hurtful and like a kick in the teeth?
2006-11-24 17:29:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get your own video of nothing but HOT MEN! I think the makers of girls gone wild are getting a version that women can watch. Watch it constantly in the bedroom at night. Then roll over and tell him you are sooooooo tired and go catch some zzzzzzzz's.
2006-11-24 17:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All these are BS. A man bringing porn into the relationship is destructive, period! If he needs something else, then there is an issue. Most likely, his issue. I suggest giving the video the kick in the teeth. And, maybe try the making your own "video" together.
2006-11-25 01:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by beckaz4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is it hurtful and a kick in the teeth maybe there is something in their that he wants u to try and wants to fix the video so u can both watch it together to spruce up ur sex life or is it all that great that u don't need a little fun? Porno if watched together should be stimulating not insulting to either of u. grow up and stay in tune with ur hubby he still loves u. He's trying to tell u something.
2006-11-25 01:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm currently having a similar problem. It is like a kick in the teeth. I know exactly where you are coming from. I think that if they really loved us, they would not do that sort of thing to us. As for the accepting part.....If it has a bad effect on your relationship... don't accept it.
2006-11-25 01:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok I think you're asking if it's ok that he wants to watch a porn right? It shouldn't bother you in the least sweety. Watch it with him and stop being so jealous of women you know darn well he'll never have a chance with. Heck it might spice up the ole sex life. So anyway, my answer is, be accepting. He married you not the video.
2006-11-25 01:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you accept anything that hurts like a kick in the teeth? Because it's porn doesn't mean it should be tolerated.
2006-11-25 01:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up men need this junk don't bury your head in the sand and act like he should only ever be aroused by anything or anyone but you. Not true it is human nature atleast for a man! he is hinting that he is bored with your same old same old!
2006-11-25 07:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by kd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can really blame him he is a guy after all, and i dont think he got that porn video just because he doesnt get enought of you in bed.......... every typical guy watches porn..... married, unmarried, 10 years old-60 yearsold.... were all the same
2006-11-25 01:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I did with my husbands porn videos when I found them, I tucked them under the blanket and put them on his pillow and I told him to "Sleep with them instead."
Its not okay for your man to be watching and thinking about other women.... period.
2006-11-25 01:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should not feel hurt by this. healthy males will watch porn no matter what their situation. although i am not familiar with porn titles, it sounds like one of those "classic" porn movies and his interest in watching it again has nothing to do with you. do not take it personally.
2006-11-25 01:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by harleyq8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋