Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

or in other words............... how do you become comfortable with yourself when some guys like you but the ones you like think that you are ugly??

2006-11-24 18:25:55 · 14 answers · asked by pear~bear 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 19 and i'm a college student majoring in marketing. my friends and other people say i'm pretty but i can't seem to attract "anybody". i'm talented and people say i've got wits. i've already joined beauty pageants at school so i think i'm not ugly. my classmates tell me that i'm really good at fashion so i know how to dress up. what's wrong with me?

2006-11-24 18:25:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive tried to ask my best friend but hes always so out of it and never takes anything seriously. Ive known her for about 2 and a half years but never thought of her that way until know. She seems to act different towards me but what should i do??

2006-11-24 18:24:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Meaning you couldn't find a date to go out with?

2006-11-24 18:22:44 · 12 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Singles & Dating

I go with this girl and we have been goin out for 5 months now. And treat her like a queen, i think i do almost everything that she wants me to. All of the people she is close with like me except her mom. Her mom thinks i'm a bad guy and i'm not at all. Shoot, i even tell my girl what to do and say to her mom when her seems depressed/sad.

2006-11-24 18:22:42 · 15 answers · asked by Dee 1 in Singles & Dating

what are the true signs of a cheating wife?

2006-11-24 18:22:20 · 20 answers · asked by TONY D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think of the phrase true love waits? If a girl wanted to wait for quite awhile to have sex would you stay with her? and second part of the question do you think sex is such an essential part of a relationship that for you to love a girl you'd have to be sleeping with her already?

2006-11-24 18:21:17 · 13 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Singles & Dating

We're having dinner in the park!

2006-11-24 18:20:07 · 9 answers · asked by andemilysemicolon 1 in Singles & Dating

Our relationship has been REALLY weird from the start. We have tried to talk about it, and she inevitably just freezes, never really telling me everything going on. There are definitely very substantial, strong feelings for one another, but some very real blocks to her personality. I don't want to push anything b/c my mind has filled my head with some pretty extreme theories about what is going on. I have been doing some reading, and I swear she shows at least some signs of being bipolar. But like I said, she won't talk about it, though she had mentioned once that she had seen a counselor and been on medication, but for what I don't know. Anyways, I love this woman, and I at least want to know what is really going on. Can I ask or suggest what I have here to her somehow?

2006-11-24 18:19:22 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend. When we're together he's very attentive, complimentary and loving. My prob stems from when we're not together and the activities he's involved with.

I began to be jealous of one girl he was talking with on IM. He was "helping her" with a breakup and her self esteem issues. I developed some red hot anger over this because we'd never gone thru something like that before. In the heat of my anger, I installed spy software on his computer and now find that he's an online flirt.

He never initiates a meeting but likes to look at pics and is VERY complimentary about what he sees. In one case, the girl he was talking to asked about a gf. He admitted that he had one and now I notice he doesn't talk to her anymore.

He and I have talked about it and he assures me that nothing is going on.

Do I just look the other way and chalk it up to harmless flirting or does this usually lead to more?

2006-11-24 18:18:34 · 16 answers · asked by girlspeedracer 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i had a huge crush on this girl but she hated me, recently her friend told me that she liked me i didnt like her but once i started to get to know her i started to like her, is this fair to her best friend if we end up going out

2006-11-24 18:17:24 · 17 answers · asked by Ernesto O 1 in Singles & Dating

plz....help me how i can do this things??

2006-11-24 18:17:20 · 4 answers · asked by crankyangel 1 in Singles & Dating

I have many jokes that my friends laugh at but I'm not sure which ones to tell to girls to make them laugh. Any answers?

2006-11-24 18:16:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many people have been in this situation? What did you do? What reasons did your husband/partner give you about not being ready?

2006-11-24 18:15:10 · 5 answers · asked by Jaedyn=God has heard 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Respect my Great grandma while shes very bossy?
Why doesnt she love me..

2006-11-24 18:15:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-24 18:14:41 · 6 answers · asked by Lady P 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing a guy for a while, and we have had relations. Well, he wasn't ever able to make me hit the big "O" tell last night. I asked him if he felt better and he said "a little LOL we will see"
I don't know what to think about his response, what would you think?

2006-11-24 18:14:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you rather have your teenager..

a) Tell you the truth.. aka... starting up a habit you thought I ended..

b) keep it to myself and solve my problem by myself so your hair doesnt fall out with stress..

I'm guessing most parents will say a.. but I just want to see..

thanks.. FYI I'm 15

2006-11-24 18:13:43 · 17 answers · asked by egf 2 in Family

why are women so hung up on a guys looks or what kinda car he drives?i'm a nice guy but seem to have bad luck when it comes to finding my miss right can someone help me?

2006-11-24 18:12:03 · 25 answers · asked by delopoppa_2000 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are dating someone how do you know if she appreciates you love, care, and the other things you are giving to her.

2006-11-24 18:10:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't talk much over the phone...not much in person too but at least in person i can feel comfortable because i am looking at the other's face
but i just can't come up with topics when i'm on the phone

2006-11-24 18:09:34 · 10 answers · asked by Rock 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is always telling me horribe stories about her her bf, abuses her. he thows things at her, slaps her, hits her,he even raped her! So i tell her that she sould dump him but she says that he is sooooo "sweet and caring" and that she loves him. but i cant stand to see her comming to school the next day with another cut on her face or bruise on her arm. Her bf has had a past of abusing girls but i didnt think he would do that to her. so i told her that she should tell her parents but she says that her parents have no right to know about whats going on in her relationship w/ him...
i personally think that i her parents should know, so they can put a stop to this madness before something seriously bad happens.
I need to convice her that, that guy dosent love her if he abuses her! i need some input, comments, tips, ways to convince her please!

2006-11-24 18:09:08 · 9 answers · asked by Truth be told. 2 in Friends

there is a girl that likes my friend, but my friend already has a gf. sooooooo shes bound to find out someday, i was wondering after she gets disappointed, how long do u think it will take for her to start liking someone else? for ex ME !#@@!@!@#!@#

2006-11-24 18:08:54 · 9 answers · asked by o.o 1 in Singles & Dating

I did have intimate relationship with 3 ladies before, and i dont know how they ended up knowing each other. Praising me to be the best guy they have in bed, started to spread my phone nember to others.

If you read or answer my previous qns, you will know i dont have time for this.

Girls from various countries & races called me, and 1 even asekd how much she need to pay for my service.

Please i am a guy with a broken heart, wish to be cared for. Thats why end up searching for them. Now with this problem, how can i face others?

PS. if i need to cancel my phone line, i will need to pay USD 300 or more cos its new. HELP....

2006-11-24 18:08:13 · 2 answers · asked by Roy . C 1 in Singles & Dating

well my ex and i never said it was over i just stop calling him and we stoped talking afterward he called me three days ago talking about are we still together now it was a normal question but we stoped talking for like 3 months now

is he just calling cause he missed me and wants me back or did he ask me so he can ask other girls out and wanted to know for sure it's over.

anyways he always makes me fell like i say everything wrong and i feel like if he can call me to talk i can call him and tell him how i feel last time he hurt me all i wanted to is get him back but when he called me and hurt my feelings agian i didn't feel liking crying cause i think i moved on

my question is should i still call him and tell him i'm ok and i don't need him or should i just forget it since i don't deel bad?

2006-11-24 18:08:07 · 3 answers · asked by somallian_princess 1 in Singles & Dating

I have really liked this guy for a bit over a year now. When I first started liking him, after maybe two months, he started dating one of my friends. After that, they broke up in a couple more months. I still liked him. Then, after a while he started being real nice to me to get my attn. I was glad, esp. when I later found out that he had liked me too before he started dating this other girl. I've been really shy around him. But, now he started dating recently another girl (his bestfriends ex). So I know he liked me but why does he keep going off and dating these other girls while I have been sitting around waiting for him like a lame goose? Should I just go all out and tell him that I like him? but, I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable esp. now that he has a gf. I really want to make this work somehow b/c I like him a lot! plus no offense but the girl he is dating is a ***** when I'm really nice. How can he go for girls that are so different? I am so confused...

2006-11-24 18:07:42 · 8 answers · asked by Gucci 1 in Singles & Dating

If you could be anywhere in the world were would it be? What is your idea of a perfect women, I mean from what nationality and personalty? Have you ever thought someone was different and it turns out they weren't, and that just happened to me 2 times again.

2006-11-24 18:07:39 · 4 answers · asked by Wolf Apple 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just need Ideas of gifts to give or buy or make, to make her feel special

2006-11-24 18:05:25 · 20 answers · asked by adrian_gonz_21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've posted this question once but I'd like to gain more feedback.

A friend is carrying on a sexual relationship with a married man while they are both are deployed. I suspect he thinks the fling is just that, a fling, and will discontinue contact with her upon his return to his duty station. She is hoping they will continue to communicate and she will see him from time to time when she returns to her duty station.

Also, she tells he me keeps his wedding ring on during the act which I find a little odd. He doesn't talk about his wife much but he frequently talks about his kid. I think he likes her but it's just sexual for him.

He's very attracted to her and they get together as much as possible. I think she is beginning to have feelings for him. I try to tell her it's just a deployment affair and to just enjoy the sex. She confided in me that she hopes to continue the affair when the leave.

What do you think?

2006-11-24 18:04:33 · 14 answers · asked by buffybeast 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 18:04:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating