or in other words............... how do you become comfortable with yourself when some guys like you but the ones you like think that you are ugly??
2006-11-24 18:25:55 · 14 answers · asked by pear~bear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lower your standards or take some anti-shallow swimming lessons.
2006-11-24 18:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by Old Cripple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, guys well never tell you or give you a clue. they may flirt but all guys do.. so what you do is see how they respond, if theuy pay attention, look you in the eye, or if they even call you (if you gave him you number), another way is if when your talking they dont look another way then back at you or if they respond back to hear more.
to be comfortable is showing them that you know but you wont give in. make it clear that your just friends and nothing more. dont show any intrest back (no flirting till he gets it , if you flirt)
and the ones you like that think your ugly is not the ones for you. if your a great girl and he can't see that.. then why like him? hmm seems like you need to noe men and what they think about pretty girls are all down there and not up there. lol
2006-11-25 02:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You STOP relying on the opinion of dumb-*** guys for starters. Or any-ones opinion for that matter.... unless you know and trust them. Hang out with some of the guys that like you!! And start believing in yourself!!! That is the biggest attraction there is.. for both sexes. The confidence to be yourself!
2006-11-25 02:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm
it always seems to be that way. the guys you like dont like you back and the once that you dont like you....
you just dont care cos a guy should never ever make you feel ugly and the onse that do are just idiots
2006-11-25 02:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sire if I understand what the heck you just asked after saying "in other words", but to answer your first question, guys don't really say "I like you", at least when they get to about my age. The "I like you" crap is too childish.
2006-11-25 02:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well move on there is always someone else around the corner don't get ur hopes up u never know that maybe a guy that is the school hottie or hunk may secretly like u so don't get ur hopes up for one stupid guy move on!!!! ur probaly to good for them anyway!!!
2006-11-25 02:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Go ASI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You confused the hell outta me with the wording of your q..but...be youreself and whatever compliments you get, take it and and be comfy with it and if you dont..the hell with them. eveyone has something to offer....Dont underestimate yourself as a person and dont imagine things. good luck.
2006-11-25 02:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mark n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing they will try to hang around you .they will also laugh at your jokeswhen its not funny .they will also try to serve you as if they're your servant.finally they'll always stand next to you from 1 to 2 feet and he'll also hug you very often
2006-11-25 02:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by mike q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guarantee you that they do not think you are ugly.... use your strengths and values that you were brought up with and don t be afraid to show people who you really are
2006-11-25 02:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by rattlingyouallover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always be yerself around them and sometimes guys stare at yu and raise their eyebrows as a hint . =]
2006-11-25 02:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by Homeira N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋