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I have been seeing a guy for a while, and we have had relations. Well, he wasn't ever able to make me hit the big "O" tell last night. I asked him if he felt better and he said "a little LOL we will see"
I don't know what to think about his response, what would you think?

2006-11-24 18:14:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I did not fake it, it is kind of hard to fake a mess on the bed!

2006-11-24 18:19:25 · update #1

9 answers

He's just shy. That's all!
Deep down inside, I think he was really happy to get you hit the big "O" regardless of his weak respond.
Keep encourging him, tell him he was doing fine. It makes him feel better and also helps getting his confidence up. With confidence he'll make you hit that big "O" even more.

2006-11-24 18:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by James 3 · 0 0

He sounds a little nervous (or embarrassed) to me! Maybe he's not confident about the whole orgasm thing, and would rather not talk about it? Just communicate to him what you like or don't like and ask him to do the same. As long as you're making the effort to please each other, an orgasm isn't always necessary. If his comment bothers you that much, just ask him what he meant by it, rather than let it bother you for a long time.

2006-11-24 18:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 5 · 0 0

So he is suppose to feel better because you got the big O? Hmmm. I bet he came everytime before and this time, too. He probably just felt fine every time! (And that is an uncomfortable question for him)

2006-11-24 18:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by treasureisland85 3 · 0 0

a nervous response to an akward questions, thats it

2006-11-24 18:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

maby he is feeling unsure of his performance. he probably thinks you faked it, did you?

2006-11-24 18:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by ltonyasfun 3 · 0 0

If you're close enough to sleep with him, you're close enough to ask him what he meant, aren't you?

2006-11-24 18:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it wasnt that great for him

2006-11-24 18:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by m_rae0232 3 · 0 0

He' s either stupid...or f*ckn stupid

2006-11-24 18:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

he's actin shady...

2006-11-24 18:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 0 0

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