I go with this girl and we have been goin out for 5 months now. And treat her like a queen, i think i do almost everything that she wants me to. All of the people she is close with like me except her mom. Her mom thinks i'm a bad guy and i'm not at all. Shoot, i even tell my girl what to do and say to her mom when her seems depressed/sad.
2006-11-24 18:22:42 · 15 answers · asked by Dee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her alone, and tell her how much you girlfriend means to you. If you aren't willing to take a bullet for her or marry her once it gets to that point, then you should just quit right now. I'm sorry if that may have sounded a bit harsh, but relationships aren't things to be played with. I am only 16, but I have been trying to find that one person who is willing to stay with me for the long run, and not just for the few months.
Anyways, just tell her how much her daughter means to you, and you would never want to hurt her in any way. Tell her who you truly are, and your girlfriend's mother will truly appreciate how much courage and self-confidence it took for you to say all that to her. Your girlfriend will also appreciate your care for her and how much you tried to make her mother accept you.
It might take a bit to build up all that confidence, but it will be VERY worth it in the end. You now know what must be done, so good luck!
2006-11-24 18:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes that never happens. but you are on the right path by being nice .mothers have always felt the need to prtect there young you can't make her like you just keep being polite and go on with your life with your girlfriend after mom finds out how serious you too are she willeventually except you. but she still may never truely like you but be glad her daughter loves you. and take one day at a time it will all work out.
2006-11-24 18:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by kathy c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm dont tell ur girl what to say talk like you have an education oh and talk to her mom instead of telling ur girl to talk to her mom and dont sleep with ur girl
2006-11-24 18:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is you have a penis and potentially have or will put it inside her daughter. some mom's will not accept the bf regardless of the child's age or how nice he is. Just learn to be tolerant of her don't expect her acceptance.
2006-11-24 18:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the mom is in denial of the kid growing up.... maybe she doesnt want her "little girl" growing up! I had to wait untill I was 15 to get a bra w/ my mom b/c she didnt want me to grow up. Just ignore her and act nice. If she doesnt like you; she can bite your *ss.You cant help it that she doesnt like you!! K? K.
2006-11-24 18:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by I_love_dunner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way my man won my moms heart is that he was himself says things he would say to me natural. all natural... and he tekks the truth. what you should do is to watch what you say and see what kind of mom she is. an dif shes the type that you would be comfortable with then youcan startthe real real talking.... thats if yall get along.
2006-11-24 18:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how it feels = / try to get her mom something she likes or take yer gf and her mom out somewhere they like and show that yu are a good guy and a good bf . =]
2006-11-24 18:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Homeira N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be very polite & respectful to her mom and you shouldn't have a problem...if she has the problem then its her loss
2006-11-24 18:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by murr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be polite with both
2006-11-24 18:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by maussy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hostage your girlfriend and tell her mom that you will kill her if she will disapprove you.You can also just kill her mom so that no one can stop between the relationship of both of you.
2006-11-24 18:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by George Charriol 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋